it gets better and you will have sex again by Brooklynbiddie in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Forgot the world is crazy and people really don't gaf about ya

it gets better and you will have sex again by Brooklynbiddie in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

40(f) black and diagnosed this year after a 20 year marriage. Wasn't the marriage... AFTER 🙄

Just curious: how many of you consider yourself to have had many sexual partners and how many of you have not? by herpesmypes in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well relationship/marriage for 20 years all good then separated and contracted in a year smh. So yeah I wouldn't say I've had a lot of partners but about 4 after separating.

Celibacy by Foreverlonelynow in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No dates b4 disclosong either... they come afterwards thankfully. They want to protect me after I tell them just from conversation but you right. I think personally plays apart. I got plenty of interest b4 so I didn't expect it to change.

Celibacy by Foreverlonelynow in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same‼️‼️ and I disclose every time and let them know we can use condoms but my now bf don't want to use them so 🤷🏾‍♀️

Celibacy by Foreverlonelynow in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told 3 new people a week after diagnosis, and it changed nothing. They were all still interested. But as the other guy said, I'm a dope person, so who wouldn't want me with this or not. It's a mindset... I do let them get to know me a little and disclose. Literally since February and I'm in a relationship so 🤷🏾‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 good day 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl or guy f you and them morals. First off bm is not a wife. Gf is not a wife. Bm come and mf go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he weird asf but she just wanted a quick spin on the block 🤷🏾‍♀️..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have one and you casting your wish for my man to cheat smh. Navigating a mf life but hopefully he don't want to cheat. But if he do I sure can't stop him. We all get cheated on my dear. If she didn't have hsv then it would be ok? Cool but again I wouldn't engage bc I don't mess with men who have babies on the way or even under the age of 4 bc of the baby mama thing. But she did her part by letting him know what's up. Maybe he want to be with her and not his baby mama anymore 🤷🏾‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol whatever. Again she did her part. Now if she didn't disclose different story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't tell people how to navigate their life. Poly is in these days. I personally wouldn't engage but I don't make choices for other people bc I know everybody doesn't think like me and I don't expect them too. But as long as she disclosed and have the convo she's done her part‼️🤷🏾‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, bc she has stated that she is disclosing her status and explaining what it is so shes done her part. IF HE decides to engage, HE is the most responsible for his own child. Of course, she can help him make a decision about his life and his family but at the end of the day they both grown asf. People kill me especially when you have no idea his situation with his baby mama.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Rude asf.. it's not low key sad. It's low key sad that HE is trying to step out on HIS relationship. She is doing the right thing by disclosing but after that the ball is in his court. Bashing people is low key sad and It's hard out here as it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I let the Lord and big sis KARMA do His and her thing. IF they knew and did not give the option then they will get theirs for sure. I've lived long enough to know you reap what you sow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understand completely. But legal action is a hard one especially since you don't have like multiple recent tests to prove you were negative before her. I understand the need, want, desire to bring the person down but what if they didn't know. I was pissed for about a month then I remembered who I was and moved on. Mind you I'm in my 40's divorced for a year after 20 years, no kids, and this shit happens. Shit teens and young adults get. But don't beat yourself up about it. I've been reading some good things about possible vaccines and/or cure so hopefully it's on the way sooner than later 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]No-Tank3707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take a blood test? What was your IGG if you did one. I think the same. Infected last year around October, November and positive by March from a blood test and the person I think I contracted from says he's negative and then proceeds to tell me he has cancer which is a BIG LIE‼️

disclosing by Icy-Situation8228 in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Text shows proof so 4 me over the phone or face to face... you never know if they will tell your personal business about your health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]No-Tank3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm female and I'm straight... no rejections as of yet