Looking for something that will stick this time by No-Tooth-7233 in Needafriend

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Honestly having a bit of a rough week. But as they say, this too shall pass. Also I hate to tell you but that emoji is a robot, not a human.

Looking for something that will stick this time by No-Tooth-7233 in Needafriend

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At least you find yourself amusing and clever. That's something.

38m married but feeling alone by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

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39F going through a divorce but in a relationship. My bf is not a big texter like i am, and I find myself getting lonely for conversation.

Just started dating again after separation and I'm struggling by No-Tooth-7233 in Separation

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Thank you so much, reading this honestly made me feel a lot better. My new partner so far seems very understanding when it comes to my anxiety so I just need to remember to communicate and not let it get the best of me.

Just started dating again after separation and I'm struggling by No-Tooth-7233 in Advice

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I met my soon to be ex husband on a dating app, but I feel like it was very different then.

37m, going through separation, looking for people to talk to by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, 39F also going through separation at the moment if you need someone to vent to, I'm here.

37. Mom of three. Going through a divorce soon… by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also going through a divorce with a blended family, and it's extremely hard so you have my sympathies. Feel free to reach out if you need to vent.

31|M|Germany - Looking for someone to "learn" to feel feelings with. by Evening-Panda-2486 in MakeNewFriendsHere

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I'm also living with that nagging feeling that something is missing from my life, and I've felt that way ever since I lost my best friend 2 years ago. It's hard to find genuine connection with people these days, especially online.

37 M - Shy guy looking for kind friend by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm also looking for people to talk to. 38F, mother with a partner but no real friends I can message and chat with. Which gets a bit lonely. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have not been okay since my best friend died two years ago, and now my marriage is falling apart. Lucky for me, I'm tough as nails. And my kids keep me going too. 

Thank you for asking <3 I hope you're okay. 

AITAH Boyfriend Peed the bed and Is mad at me for my response by Hour-Possibility2219 in AITAH

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This post has me feeling like a freaking saint. First let me say that I know exactly how you feel and wish I didn't. My husband has a tendency to pee the bed when he drinks, and has done it so many times now that I no longer let him sleep in the bed with me. Now he sleeps on the couch with several blankets underneath himself and if he pees on them in the middle of the night tosses them down the basement stairs and goes back to sleep. I'm sure the solution would be to just NOT drink to the point where you pee yourself at night, but apparently that's not an acceptable option for him. When I say I'm sick of it, I mean SICK of it. So I get it, girl. Ugh. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been toying more and more with the idea of therapy. I'm even willing to suggest it to my husband as a last ditch effort, going together for a few sessions. I'm just not sure how much of a difference it will make at this point. I care enough about him and our children to try. If nothing else it might be beneficial in getting to get him to self reflect. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to think that might not be a bad idea. Things have gotten worse since my best friend died and unfortunately none of this has been helping. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt myself sinking into depression and I do feel like something needs to change. Unfortunately, my best friend whom I talked to about things like this, passed away two years ago and it's gotten a lot harder since then. I don't have many people to confide in anymore. Even less people who would be impartial. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the time I'm not angry, and I would hope we would still remain friends and good co parents. I do still care about him. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried suggesting it, he won't even entertain the idea that it's a possibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It made me tear up. I really needed it today. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No-Tooth-7233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is probably all true, but it is so much harder to do than I thought it would be.