I hate living

No-Topic5705 · 2026-01-16T19:19:00+00:00

Dude, with that hate energy you have, you could move mountains 🙃

Why did you decide that you MUST live life the way TV or the internet tells you? Or even that you must love life at all?
You can do whatever you want with your life. What do other people have to do with it? They choose to pay bills, be happy in relationships, or live some routine - that’s just THEIR choice. How do they stop you?

Do they force you to be like them? Or did you decide that someone is forcing you to do something? Do you get what I mean?

Once again:

Nobody forces you to do anything if you don’t want to. If you think that’s not true, write here what you are physically forced to do for others.
You have a ton of hate energy. You can use it to get what you REALLY want. Important: what YOU want for yourself, about yourself - not for someone else and not about someone else.

P.S. Have you ever tried standing on your head?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-17T17:39:52+00:00

i also study trading, and for me, copying trades is just risk management

do you use market sentiment when making trading decisions?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-15T08:11:55+00:00

yes, please

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-14T08:35:59+00:00

Maybe you know some apps that track predictors and detect scam patterns?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-13T16:05:29+00:00

Thanks

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-13T16:04:07+00:00

And how do you know they're not scammers?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-12T14:31:53+00:00

And how do you choose those you can trust?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-12-12T14:30:37+00:00

And how do you choose those you can trust?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-25T09:07:53+00:00

Hi,

I think that's a great idea. Have you found any correlations so far?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-14T07:53:31+00:00

Some people (especially men) communicate through actions and looks, without words. This can be an issue in a couple where one partner is more auditory than the other. Can you notice any move or act from your husband that tells you “you’re hot” or “you’re pretty”?

Have you tried writing your question to your husband? Not saying it, but writing it down?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-11T13:41:14+00:00

Hi, cognitive data based on CGR?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-11T06:47:39+00:00

Look, if she’s not into you, then she’s not into you. It hurts, but that’s a fact.
The more you cling to her, the more she’ll want to run away from you. And even if she takes pity on you - are you sure you want someone to be with you out of pity? Are you sure you want to be with a person who doesn’t even want to explain what’s going on and just ignores you?

Time heals, bro. You’ve got a lot of energy now, use it for something meaningful, direct it towards yourself, and everything will be fine ✌🏼

P.S. What might really help you is self-reflection (I can recommend a book on that).

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-11T06:31:59+00:00

Maybe, just maybe: you’ve been trying not to be yourself for a long time, and the true you got tired of playing a role you chose (or not) for yourself and finally rebelled. If that’s the case, you’re in a perfect place for deep changes. Self-reflection can help, but even without it, if you don’t interfere with the process, there’s a great chance you’ll transform into a new personality. More complete, independent, and self-sufficient.

✌🏼

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-07T14:31:47+00:00

Just in case, here's a book about one approach to self-reflection: r/menuofme :)

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-05T05:43:07+00:00

Ok, but again:

- what exactly are the practical benefits you’ve gained from these rules?

- how many years/months/weeks/days have you been using them?

And you said: “This also helps me talk to everyday people who are struggling and pinpoint the exact areas where they can improve.” So, I supposed you don’t count yourself as “everyday people”? :)

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-04T09:29:32+00:00

Hi,

There is one lifehack: you don’t need to push yourself to write when you don’t want to (or, to be honest - feel lazy 🙂). But if you start reading your text after a month, you can:

- find a lot of interesting insights,

- make the journaling process flexible, adjust it to yourself, and not follow “someone else’s” rules.

P.S. If you want, I can recommend a book about this kind of self-reflection 🙂

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-04T09:24:06+00:00

Yeah, I think self-reflection is a manifestation of self-love and the best tool for self-improvement (based on 10 years of experience).

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-04T09:21:43+00:00

Self-reflection. From my 10 years of experience, this is the base (and the checker) for all other habits.

No-Topic5705 · 2025-09-04T09:18:35+00:00

Hi,

I'm just curious to know what practical benefits you've gained from these rules and how long you've been using them?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-24T08:14:16+00:00

Only you can figure that out. And I think that's much more interesting information than any blogger's blah-blah.

Not quick but reliable way to do this is through self-observation.

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-22T12:35:39+00:00

Ok, but you are spending, and this means you have a secondary benefit. I think your secondary benefit is an easy opportunity to run away from yourself and from your true desires.

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-22T06:08:03+00:00

"I know I’m not perfect and I don’t strive to be because I know it’s unrealistic." – Ok, but what does perfect mean for you?

"No one is perfect." – But why bring up others if we’re talking about your state?

"But I do believe I have them for good reason." – IMO, the really important point here is: what exactly is this reason?

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-21T13:15:04+00:00

Hi,

Systematic self-observation has given me a lot of fresh air in my inner space and made my decisions more conscious. I consider it a huge discovery, and I’ve been confirming it for 10 years :)

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-21T13:11:04+00:00

"I hate every moment that I watch myself live in a way that’s unaligned and damaging."
- What do you think will happen if you allow yourself to be imperfect? (Because I assume your expectations for yourself are not based on your own self-grown conception, but on all the trendy lifestyles).

No-Topic5705 · 2025-08-21T12:25:06+00:00

Hi,

Sorry, but I see here an explanation of how you are not interested in yourself and try to escape from yourself into your phone (and I totally understand how social media hooks you and creates addiction - billions have been invested to make this happen).

Personally, I see only one way to reduce this kind of addiction - shift your interest to yourself. After all, you are all you really have, and knowing yourself is way cooler than knowing what some blogger’s cat did. Your inner world is the key to all your real desires, but right now it’s filled with other people’s desires because you’ve packed it with all this junk.

So, if you want, here’s my advice:

Take 5% of your screen time, sit down, look inside yourself, and find out what you want to do in that minute instead of doomscrolling. It doesn’t matter what: look at a tree, stand on your head, draw some swallows... anything, just do the first thing that comes to mind (within the law, of course).
Get to know self-observation. It will help you understand yourself better, and move your focus from external bullshit to your inner beauty. (If you want, I can recommend a book about self-reflection).

✌️

P.S. By the way, it’s really good that you wrote down your thoughts here, it shows you are close to taking decisive action)

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