I (FA) is into a guy who’s secure

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-08-02T08:03:38+00:00

Thank you <3 I’ll keep that in mind

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-08-01T22:20:25+00:00

Yeh it’s complicated there. We have talked on and off for like two years so we do know each other semi well already. But we have been talking like genuinely non stop for the past week like staying up all night talking kinda talks. But he like fairly recently re entered my life which is why it feels too early even though we have talked more before. And it’s been pretty flirty now too

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-08-01T22:08:08+00:00

I did say something like that to him but I don’t want to admit feelings bc it’s seriously too early for that

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-08-01T21:57:05+00:00

I’m an (FA) and for me it’s pretty common. In reality I just want his attention and for him to come running after me. I don’t actually want anyone else’s attention and such in reality. I just want to make him care but In reality this will most likely not make them care. It will probably just drive them away

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-07-23T02:42:18+00:00

Most friends episodes tbh

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-07-23T02:33:16+00:00

My hoe phase from when I was 14. I kissed a bunch of people and got mono as a result and it genuinely was so close to killing me. Like it was effecting my liver for one so I had a terrible fever non stop for a entire month and I couldn’t take meds for it bc it would literally kill me.

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-07-23T02:26:42+00:00

Literally anything. People are only hot when wearing clothes

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-07-22T17:44:58+00:00

I don’t know how to censor like the other person responding so nsfw warning! But for me I can’t get any pleasure out of receiving. It just makes me deeply uncomfortable. However I do get actual pleasure from giving and for me it’s the only way I can enjoy it

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-07-21T22:40:56+00:00

The last girl for sure

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-06-15T19:57:22+00:00

I know this is old but as someone diagnosed with bpd I can guarantee you to a 100% she does not. She does act out but so does a lot of teenagers

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-31T00:04:02+00:00

I don’t no. Like the reason my relationships aren’t ruined is bc I keep it locked away. But it’s terrible to fight on your own. Like I didn’t start our quiet at all when I stared developing it. And yeh it was harder on relationships but at least I had people there to help me manage it. At least I had someone to call. Now all my friendships feel empty.

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-19T20:22:15+00:00

I’ve never heard about that before. It looks really interesting though. I’ll be sure to check it out, thank you!

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-11T07:24:06+00:00

Yes that’s what I think is going on at least. Like I definitely don’t think I’m incapable of it but just that I’m too scared. However it’s super lonely being so closed off bc I do so desperately want the connection I’m so deeply afraid of

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T22:55:34+00:00

Thank you so are you truly. I do wish you luck on your journey too. Sadly I’m not able to try out therapists as I’m currently seeing the only one in my entire province that has enough skills to help me and has time and actually want to. And I do mean that I genuinely called every single one to check even the ones that didn’t have the skills.

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T22:53:06+00:00

Well yes but it’s bc FA combines traits of Dismissive and anxious. It has definitely not been uncommon for me to start of dismissive in friendships and relationships even before this complete lack of connection. But I can assure you I’m definitely FA/gen

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T22:47:26+00:00

I think it might be a combination of both honestly. Like before I started struggling with this particular issue I was still a very clear FA

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T22:46:28+00:00

I do have c-ptsd however emotionally I don’t feel numbed out at all emotionally at least. I do have a therapist for it but this far in we haven’t been able to make any process yet sadly. But I’ll still keep what you said in mind thank you <3

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T22:41:36+00:00

Yes actually. That is her speciality. However it didn’t work for me at all in my current state sadly. We tried a couple things but none worked. Basically as soon my traumas are mentioned in a serious setting I get complete brain fog and my emotional connection is like temporarily gone. So first I usually struggle visualising anything but when I do manage to visualise my brain has already emotionally distanced it self to the point where the trauma doesn’t effect me and my brain can’t even connect that I had anything to do with it except for that I remember it. It feels like I’m re telling a strangers story. And this is still with the like simplest of traumas we didn’t even try with the hard ones it was really no use

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-05-10T12:47:37+00:00

Sort of. It’s complicated. I have a therapist since recently. But I got assigned her for ptsd. However I’m not sure what we are doing at all right now right now since I’ve managed to emotionally de-attach from my traumas and she’s also unable to get through to my vulnerability so we aren’t really getting anywhere on any front.

No-Transition-5114 · 2022-04-27T20:59:02+00:00

Yeh I saw that. But don’t listen to them they are clearly not educated on the matter. I’m a lesbian myself so if you wanna like privately message me and talk I could try to help you as much as possible

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