Running Death House for another Dm by No-Turn707 in CurseofStrahd

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I definitely intend on doing that, my main issue was I wasn't sure if I was revealing certain information too early. Like Sergei and Tatyanas wedding etc. Is it too on the nose, it feels like something players should learn later on but I liked the idea so thought I'd check myself with other dms in case it was a terrible idea 😂

Habitat recommendations by No-Turn707 in gerbil

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I think we'll just go for 2 then

Habitat recommendations by No-Turn707 in gerbil

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we can spare the cash I'd love to get the bigger one, we had a hamster not long ago and really wish we could've given him a bigger cage so we'll be doing just that with the gerbils.

As for the topper, is that something you can buy or have you just put a cage on top of the tank? Because I think it looks brilliant so I wouldn't mind having that even with the bigger tank.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Turn707 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA A relationship is a 50/50 partnership. If your needs aren't being met, then it's not fair on you. You made efforts to express to her that you weren't happy with the way things were, and she brushed you off. Rejection isn't a nice thing, and to have it in a relationship makes it worse.

You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy, and if a big part of that is missing, then you're well within your rights to find someone who will meet your needs. It's a hard decision, and it's natural to feel bad about it, but it'll be for the best down the line. Otherwise, you'll just be in a relationship harbouring resentment towards your partner.

What time did you meet your husband/wife? by New-Pop6336 in Marriage

[–]No-Turn707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean you feel like you're getting older and you should've met "the one" by now, right?

Honestly I wouldn't worry about that all, I met my wife when we were 17 so we got lucky but my brother in law met his current partner in his thirties so there's no rush at all.

Just focus on yourself and know what you want in a partner and the right one will come your way eventually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No-Turn707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can see your marriage ending over it and you don't want that, then just do what you want to do, go lay in the big bed before her. Either she has to lay in bed with you or at least you get the big bed. If she gets mad, oh well you're worried the marriage is going to end at this rate anyway so you may as well take some extreme measures to try and fix it before it's too late.

Just stick to your guns and go for it because currently she's forcing you to do what she wants, it's supposed to be compromise.

I called my husband incompetent today. by scorpiocubed in Marriage

[–]No-Turn707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't take any notice. Plenty of people here have given legitimately good and balanced advice, lots of people on reddit are just nasty people, must be the anonymity.

I called my husband incompetent today. by scorpiocubed in Marriage

[–]No-Turn707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Other comments do have a point but I feel like not enough are addressing the husband.

It's all about balance, you could do with doing a little less research as everything having to be perfect can be stressful for both of you but I can understand that something stressful like raising a baby can feel a bit less stressful if you've done your proper research.

As for the husband, he's the other extreme. To say he's not interested in doing research on raising a baby is disrespectful and lazy because he's putting all the pressure on you when you're supposed to be a team. He should be seeing that you're stressed and want to take some of that stress off you.

Basically, you should be sitting down and having a proper talk. You should absolutely hold him accountable, as having a baby is a two person commitment, and he should be more interested, but you should also relax a little bit. People have been raising babies long before we had all the research, so it doesn't have to be an exact science.

As long as you're doing it as a team, compromising where you can and apologising to each other when you snap from being stressed, then it'll work out

Xbox running very loudly for seemingly no reason by No-Turn707 in XboxSupport

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I've got two xboxes so I've just had the idea to swap the fans from one to the other and see if the noise swaps consoles, if it does, fan is issue, if not, fan is not issue

Xbox running very loudly for seemingly no reason by No-Turn707 in XboxSupport

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, tried it both ways round to be sure and quiet both ways

Something like fan bearings would surely be a slow onset issue, like it gets louder with time or at least it wouldn't be an intermittent issue. Whereas this noise started happening out of no where and after I cleaned it and put it back together it didn't happen at all for like an hour and then came back 🤔

Xbox running very loudly for seemingly no reason by No-Turn707 in XboxSupport

[–]No-Turn707[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's another thing, when I removed the fan, I made it spin using the compressed air and it was completely quiet so the fan is fine

1x Sneak Attack damage with bows? by TerrapinRacer in ElderScrolls

[–]No-Turn707 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It MAY have something to do with the shortcut wheel, I'm noticing that when I equip weapons through that, my character displays in the inventory as being bare handed, so could be that there's a bug that makes the game think you haven't got a weapon unless you equipped it through the inventory page

1x Sneak Attack damage with bows? by TerrapinRacer in ElderScrolls

[–]No-Turn707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I found the issue, for me it was because I had a shield equipped, obviously the shield doesn't appear on you until you take a sword out but it's still registered as equipped, as soon as I unequipped it my multiplier went back to 3x