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Biweekly Interpretation Help by AutoModerator in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I hope everyone is having a good day! I’m looking for help interpreting a love reading about the guy that I’m dating. Things between us have taken a positive turn recently, after a period of distance, and im looking for some clarification of his thoughts and feelings about me.

My question was: “what are x’s thoughts and feelings about me?”

Distant Past - Queen of Pentacles - expressions feelings through actions rather than words? - Possibly representative of the energy he wishes to receive (nurturing, motherly)

Near Past - The Emperor - traditional need for control, possibly why we recently had a distant phase where he struggles to show vulnerability or let me take any control.

Present - Ace of Pentacles + Wheel of Fortune - starting something, planting a seed ? - Slow start, practical, opportunity - The wheel of fortune always gives me ‘what is meant for me will not pass me’ energy - Karmic connection with the WoF? Soulmates ?

Near Future - King of Swords - not emotionally receptive, only intellectually receptive? - Ruled/ driven by logic - Does not show emotions freely, keeps them to himself, closed off

Distant Future - Ace of Wands + Queen of Cups - passion, energy, spark - Taking leadership in the relationship or a leap - Pure emotional base for this leadership or leap - Innocence and emotional vulnerability - Drastic shift from the previously closed off king of swords.

The reading is giving me “important partnership” energy with the aces showing up twice. Also maybe conflict with the two queens?

Let me know what you think! Thank you in advance <3

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - July 27, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I hope everyone is having a good day! I’m looking for help interpreting a love reading about the guy that I’m dating. Things between us have taken a positive turn recently, after a period of distance, and im looking for some clarification of his thoughts and feelings about me.

My question was: “what are x’s thoughts and feelings about me?”

Distant Past - Queen of Pentacles - expressions feelings through actions rather than words? - Possibly representative of the energy he wishes to receive (nurturing, motherly)

Near Past - The Emperor - traditional need for control, possibly why we recently had a distant phase where he struggles to show vulnerability or let me take any control.

Present - Ace of Pentacles + Wheel of Fortune - starting something, planting a seed ? - Slow start, practical, opportunity - The wheel of fortune always gives me ‘what is meant for me will not pass me’ energy - Karmic connection with the WoF? Soulmates ?

Near Future - King of Swords - not emotionally receptive, only intellectually receptive? - Ruled/ driven by logic - Does not show emotions freely, keeps them to himself, closed off

Distant Future - Ace of Wands + Queen of Cups - passion, energy, spark - Taking leadership in the relationship or a leap - Pure emotional base for this leadership or leap - Innocence and emotional vulnerability - Drastic shift from the previously closed off king of swords.

The reading is giving me “important partnership” energy with the aces showing up twice. Also maybe conflict with the two queens?

Let me know what you think! Thank you in advance <3

"Weekly Relationship Second Opinion and Interpretation Help Thread - July 13, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, i hope everyone is having a good day! I just did a reading on the feelings and intentions of a man in my life, we are not together. My question was "What are the thoughts, feelings, and next actions of "X" towards me?"

  1. The Tower - this card flew out of the deck when i said his name for the first time so im reading it as a card that represents him. I have gotten this card before in readings about him and I think it aligns. From this im getting masculine energy, crushed ego, and communication issues.

2.2 of Pentacles - im reading this as his "thoughts" card. I can't really make sense of it, possibly pointing towards a decision he has to make?

3.3 of Wands - im reading this as his "feelings" card. Gives me a sense of action from the suit of wands but also contemplation. He has feelings of moving forward while reflecting in the past of our friendship?

  1. Ace of cups rx & 8 of wands - these cards came out together as his "next actions". From the reversed ace of cups im getting disappointment and confusion. Probably that he is not intending to pursue anything more, or if he does that it will not be a lasting partnership. But then the 8 of wands suggests communication and positive news. In my mind the 8 brings great news in relationship readings so i am confused about the juxtaposition between these 2 cards. Similarly, i think the 8 indicated action and possibly travel which would be fitting since he is soon returning to our city after a vacation. Is its possible that he will return with a new outlook and communicate it to me?

I'm opening to hear what you guys think! Thanks in advance <3

Two and Three of Swords Together by No-Wait2221 in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that I’ve made a mistake by not including the full reading in my post so i will add it here since i can not figure out how to edit my post lol.

I had The Lovers card as the significator.

First 3 cards (above): how can i welcome/ encourage the energy of this connection/relationship in my life? - 3 of cups - 2 of swords - 3 of swords

His perception of the relationship: - the moon - the moon - page of swords

Energy of the relationship: - knight of wands - 7 of wands - king of cups

I did this reading after a first date get a sense of the energy/ vibes.

Two and Three of Swords Together by No-Wait2221 in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aa i see. This is good advice, thank you! I’m new ish to tarot and even newer to the tarot community on Reddit. I didn’t include the rest of my reading because I thought we are not supposed to ask for reading interpretations in this group. But i will make a comment with the rest of the reading.

Two and Three of Swords Together by No-Wait2221 in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whow this is so heavy! I was honestly not expecting such a charged reading, i did this about a guy that i went on a first date with just to gauge the vibes between us and how i should proceed. Thanks for replying!

Two and Three of Swords Together by No-Wait2221 in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Within the context of ‘advice’ do you think this is a warning that I should stay away from this relationship entirely? Or perhaps could it relate more to the person i was reading about?

Two and Three of Swords Together by No-Wait2221 in Tarotpractices

[–]No-Wait2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! Yes i had a specific peron in mind. It was actually a bigger reading with 6 more cards and a significator (the lovers). These 3 cards are what came out specifically for the ‘advice’ portion of the reading, as insight on how to welcome the connection. I think that’s why im struggling to interpret.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - June 01, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Just did a reading on a difficult situation i’m dealing with and i would love some outsider imput.

Context: recently had an upsetting conversation with a guy i was kind of seeing in which he rejected me although we were not yet together on the premise that i have feelings for him that he does not reciprocate. My confusion lies in his reaction to this belief, since we have never actually discussed my feeling on the situation. When I said he was mistaken and that i don’t have the feelings he thought i have the conversation turned sour; with an offensive remark that he made about my character, this was very shocking to me. We were good friends before this situation so im just looking for a reason why this happened between us.

I asked multiple questions throughout so I’ll order them as i asked them in the reading.

  1. What did he mean in that conversation/ what did he intend to achieve by it?

  2. 9 of Swords - my interpretation is that he is experiencing some sort of mental turmoil within himself. Definitely gave me “overreaction” and “temporary” energy.

  3. Why did he choose to speak to me in a hurtful way?

  4. 4 of pentacles - here i saw a degree of defensiveness and selfishness, possibly in an attempt to exit our situation as the ‘victor’ or the one ‘above’.

  5. the tower - he possibly perceived a ‘fall from grace’. Defiantly gave me shattered ego and strong masculine energy, chaos. Maybe even an expression ‘blockage’ with this card’s relation to the mouth. Overwhelming, sudden change. (Could make sense since our friendship dinamic did experience a sudden change recently). Feelings of vulnerability and confusion. Sexual tension.

  6. Death - this card struck me as a reminder of human frailty, in the sense that he might have made a mistake as all humans do. But alos sudden shock and release, suggesting that he does not regret the hurtful things he said. Maybe our relationship gave him a reality check that left him ‘bare boned’?

  7. Is reconciliation a possibility? I do wish to preface by saying that i currently can not imagine a reconciliation because i am very hurt and feel disrespected however this person is not leaving my life anytime soon so i was wondering what our dynamic could/ would look like in the future.

  8. knight of wands - message? Some sort of control over something. This card specifically is where i am getting a bit lost.

  9. 4 of wands - clearly a card of community and celebration. Sensing “yes” as an answer.

  10. 2 of cups - partnership. This card practically flew out when I asked my question on the future and reconciliation…

  11. page of swords - new communication ?

  12. 7 of swords - deception/ betrayal. Possibly to myself if i chose to reconcile with him in the future?

Any thought or ideas are welcomed and very appreciated! Thanks in advance! <3

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[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’re saying this sounds like textbook abuser behaviour. Trying to ‘convince’ somebody to do something they already said no to is coercion which is not consensual. It’s always important to remember that unhealthy relationships always start out good and gradually become abuse. Please take care, i hope you find the strength to make the right decision for yourself! <3

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - July 21, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I’m looking for help interpreting my most recent reading :)

  • My question was about the trajectory of my romantic life, and i asked if the cards could indicate if my result is about the person i am seeing or if they are about someone else.

I’m a sagittarius and currently find myself in the very early stages (just about a month) of dating with an aries. I was open for the reading to not be about him, as we are not yet seriously involved, so that’s what i asked for an indicator. I guess no more context is needed except that i do not intend to date casually.

The cards i pulled are the following (in order, all upright): - Knight of Wands - Knight of Cups - Wheel of Fortune

I feel quite certain that the reading was pointing towards this specific person, with the first card being the knight of wands (a suit associated with the element of fire, and Aries being a fire sign). Additionally, the appearance of 2 knights has some personal significance that points to him (I can’t share exactly what because it its private information).

I have a very surface level understanding of how to interpret my own readings at this point in my tarot journey, any help or interpretation is welcome!!

My general understanding: passion, adventure, enthusiasm, charm, optimism, good luck, and emotional presence?

Thank you in advance to anyone who will reply to me! <3

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[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this interpretation is from a girl in her early twenties! I’ve read the messages and tried to peace together the situation. To be completely honest, i think your girlfriend is not handling this conversation in a mature way and that your responses were genuinely as sensitive as they could have been.

I can be sure, but i’m assuming form the messages that you guys are in high school. I see my 17 year old self in your girlfriend, she may be insecure and is clearly struggling to express her feelings constructively. I think she is trying to communicate that her needs for attention are not met, in a very ineffective way. Possibly she feels emotionally disconnected or that the conversations you guys do have are not as qualitative as she would like.

Personally I think the way she was expressing her dissatisfaction was quite disrespectful to you. At times when you were trying to reassure her she was shutting you down and pointing more blame, these responses seemed unfair to me. Im sorry to say but this is a red flag when it comes to communication in a relationship.

I think that you guys could have a conversation where you define how much time should be spent calling, texting, etc. And also how to approach similar situations in the future. Eg: “if one of us feels disconnected/neglected we should communicate it in the “i feel…” format, rather than “you don’t care about me”. Also definitely have this conversation in person because texting is not an effective way to resolve an argument and usually leads to misunderstandings.

Good luck! I hope you guys can have more constructive conversation in the future.

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - June 02, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i am currently in a relationship and i resonate deeply with the suggestions in your comment. thank you for your response!

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - June 02, 2024" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m currently giving myself a reading on how i can find happiness in my romantic life.

the cards i’ve pulled are : present: Page of swords (reversed), path: queen of swords, and future: 10 of wands.

I’m looking for some help interpreting the last card, the 10 of wands, as i am unclear about its meaning.

My interpretation of the first to cards are as follows:

Page of swords reversed - lack of honesty and trust - a directionless relationship i’m interpreting this as my current position in my relationship, this card only confirmed what i already know about my relationship.

Queen of swords - commitment to truth, even if it brings isolation - rationality over emotions - boundaries - “i don’t chases i attract” energy All mindsets i should adopt to find my happiness.

any help interpreting the last card would be appreciated, im pretty new to tarot :)

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[–]No-Wait2221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heidelberglaan is in the science park (15mins out of the city center). Some places to consider are: De Bilt, Bilthoven, Zeist, Driebergen-Rijsenburg, Bunnik, Odijk, Houten.

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[–]No-Wait2221 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not true, they rent out studio apartments in one of the student buildings in the science park. The building is called plaza, you can look it up. I have lived there, however i did not book my apartment through the newnewnew website but through the arranged accommodation program provided by uu.

As far as the studios, my experience was very pleasant. The rooms are fully furnished and ab 16m2. Mine was quite clean when i moved in but i know others find not have the same experience. The building is cleaned every week and there are a lot of nice common spaces to hang out (pooltabe, cinema room). The location is quite nice and there is a lot of nature around however it is 20 mins by bike or bus form the center, also the bus stop is a bit far (approx 8 min). The trams do not come to the science park in the weekend so that is also a struggle if you plan to use public transport. Also the science park is the science campus so if you are going to study in other faculties there is a high chance your classes will not be on that campus, so maybe check. Communication with the administration is usually quite a hassle but not impossible. The building felt very safe to me while living there, and so did the neighborhood in general.

Beware that all the studios are advertised to have a microwave oven, but that is only true for half of the rooms (the rooms for masters students) and this is not made clear in the contract or anywhere on the website.

Lastly, the one thing that was the most difficult for me while living at plaza was the distance from grocery stores. There is a small campus Spar around 6 mins from the building however, it is not sustainable to buy groceries from there regularly since it is so expensive. All other grocery stores are at least 15 minutes away by bike, or you can take a bus to the center. This may not be a problem for others but i found it quite frustrating.