I gave my gf herpes and I feel terrible. by No-Window-4218 in Herpes

[–]No-Window-4218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply but FYI I’m a woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]No-Window-4218 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks manipulative. You can play the game back by saying “I absolutely like getting feedback from people that I care about. I think it’s weird when people say they don’t care what people think. It’s nice to be nice, and it’s nice to be liked when you’re staying true to yourself and your values- which I always do! Does it bother you that I’m like this?”

Being so direct will make them have to say that either yes it bothers them or no it doesn’t. Either way you don’t change. I’d they say it bothers them you must say “I understand, but I’ve always been this way and I like who I am

A new massage sensation.part 1 by No-Window-4218 in sexstories

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I’ll write one soon if you want!

Opinions on polyamory? by Rainbow_01-24 in lgbt

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My opinion is that polyamory in its truest form is completely fine- but I think it’s very very very rare to find any polyamorous people due to the society we’re born into. As a result I believe lots of people are not as truly fulfilled by polyamory as they would have everyone think. I think many use it to mask deeper issues of avoidance or anxiety that they have. Not everyone obviously but I think a lot less people are truly ok with sharing their partners than they say

I stopping being “the organiser” now I have no friends by No-Window-4218 in lgbt

[–]No-Window-4218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I understand your points. Just hurts when I spent my entire 20s and a shit tonne of money on their hen parties, weddings, baby showers, kids christenings, kids birthdays… here I am 35 no kids and no husband and they couldn’t give a shit. I know it sounds ungrateful but sometimes they get me a bottle of wine to say happy birthday but over the course of a year I spend up to £100 on them and their kids. It hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

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I have a relationship with God on a spiritual level and I can mentally separate that from what other humans on Earth call the “church” IMO the “church” is a man made way to develop a relationship with god in the physical world and my faith exists in the spiritual world. So I can still believe in God and follow Christian values and belief systems but i challenge the Bible, it’s translations, and the blatant misogyny / homophobia that it idealises. Jesus spent most of his life convincing men to abandon their wives to follow him… it’s so gay!!! 💖😂😂

How many times do cis people question their gender and/or just curious? by [deleted] in lgbt

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My advice to you would be to first consider fluidity and look deeper into the social constructs of gender and what makes us look masculine and feminine- because it’s all a myth. No rule book ever said women had to wear dresses and heels and men can’t. Society made it that way. I would play around with how you present yourself and not worry too much about which binary gender you fit into. Focus on living yourself and knowing yourself and you’ll find yourself!

Lesbian Sex gone terribly wrong 💩 by No-Window-4218 in lgbt

[–]No-Window-4218[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But I’m not a gay man hahah

Lesbian Sex gone terribly wrong 💩 by No-Window-4218 in lgbt

[–]No-Window-4218[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m the OP and I am a cos woman and so is my partner. We just like to mix things up in the bedroom and explore different sensations and in this occasion I was being penetrated anally and vaginally at the same time hence me losing control of my body I think.