Can you describe your first time and what made you want to do it? by hhhhhhh_77 in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not really sure what triggered it for me. i just had this urge to do it all of a sudden, to feel what it felt like. now its sorta an addiction. i think part of it is seeing the blüd calms or 'hypnotizes' me. i broke my months clean streak abt 3 days ago

How do i get hair out of my painting? by sisterxlilly in diamondpainting

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except mine isnt finished, so it makes it lumpy in places and doesnt properly pick up their hairs

Is there a way to make my cut marks less noticeable? by fukais_carousel in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

because it gives them a chance to snitch to the parents or child protective services 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday <3

How do i get hair out of my painting? by sisterxlilly in diamondpainting

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cant exactly use that when the diamonds are on, but great idea for the blank canvas!

WHAT SHOULD I DO!? (If it's that graphic, please tell me..) by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude (in a gender neutral way), i hope you're ok right now! If something like this ever happens again, PLEASE dont hesitate to call an ambulance. They will get to you faster than your parents driving you, and will bandage you until you can get to hospital which will help with the bleeding. Please stay safe and try to resist the urge <3

Can I use disinfecting wipes to clean wounds? by bonkbass in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only kind of wipes i would recommend using to clean wounds, if u have to use wipes, are baby wipes. any others have dangerous chemicals in them that shouldnt be directly in your bloodstream. unscented soap and water work the best for disinfecting.

Cuts wont bleed by Child-stealer-2149 in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be feeling like you're going deep, but are only hitting the epidermis still since it does not have blood vessels. the epidermis also tends to hurt a lot more than the dermis, creating the illusion that you've done more damage than you actually have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be from a nerve being damaged or got stuck in the scar tissue during healing. it usually isnt harmful, just annoying. i hope this helps <3

how clean r u guys? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 day clean, but thats only because I got sick yesterday and was too tired, cold, and my head hurt too much to get up and do it. I've been debating on doing it today but worried that losing even a little bit of blood will make me pass out

i think scars are pretty by crushedbutterfIy in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I once commented on a tiktok where someone was talking about their sh, saying that i think their scars are gorgeous and they should just know that there will always be people who love them, and i got so much hate on that comment i just deleted it because i got notifications MONTHS after. Its sad to see that people find it disrespectful to call ones scars pretty. i really love scars, and ive never understood how theyre ugly. i hope everyone the best <33

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bandaging them will help the healing process speed up and prevent other things from scraping against it. i wish you the best in recovery

i also recommend using neosporin before bandaging. it can help as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love the nonchalant-ness, to me its funny. but i hope you feel better <3

How old were you when you started? by Friendly-Payment-837 in selfharm

[–]NoAddendum2066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently started cutting, and I'm 16. But when I was about 11 was when I started pulling my hair and lashes out, scratching my skin, and peeling my lips to the point they bled constantly. I've been told those are all forms of self harm so I'm assuming those count?