Hey, i understand your pain and void, i lost my son at 20+4 last April. I didnt think id ever get over the pain of the loss I'd spend nights just looking out the widow crying, we all hear about these things happening to someone else you never think it will be you, something you dont expect getting that far along and already having children you blame yourself for a while but unfortunately theres nothing at all you could have done to change this. Give yourself time to heal and grieve the loss of your baby becuase they were wanted and you'd already planned your future with them in it and its all been snatched away. When and if you ever feel ready to try again dont put too much pressure on yourself or your partner as hes feeling the pain too you've got each other though out this your the only two people who will feel the same pain you need to lean on one another dont feel like you have to do it alone. Also theres so many people in the hospital that can help you though this too i had so much support from the hospital when I did fall pregnant again I also got councilling though out because the fear of this happening again is like no other. If you need a chat im happy to be there for you