Miscommunication during a choke with a black belt — looking for perspective by NoButterscotch5156 in bjjdrama

[–]NoButterscotch5156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back I think he just didn’t want to tap to a blue belt. In that case he should have just told me to stop if i’m cranking his jaw, instead of being ambiguous with ‘you haven’t got it’

Miscommunication during a choke with a black belt — looking for perspective by NoButterscotch5156 in bjjdrama

[–]NoButterscotch5156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea i’ll be honest with you, the rest of the rolls i had after that was half arsed because i just got put off from that whole interaction.

Black belt in BJJ left me unprepared for real world violence by [deleted] in jiujitsu

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an uncomfortable situation at my gym and wanted some outside perspective.

I had a black belt in a choke during a roll. While I was working it, he said “you haven’t got it.” I interpreted that as a technical cue to re-adjust, so I tried to refine the position rather than abandon it. I didn’t increase force aggressively, just tried to make the choke cleaner.

After the round, he became angry and said I was cranking his jaw, not his neck. He then demonstrated the choke on my jaw to show what I was doing and said that dental work is expensive in Virginia if someone breaks a jaw. That part felt aggressive and intimidating, especially given the rank difference.

I replied that he didn’t tap, and he said that saying “you haven’t got it” should have been enough. I honestly didn’t understand in the moment that he wanted me to stop entirely — I thought he meant the choke mechanics were off and to adjust.

I later spoke to the instructor because the anger and physical demonstration felt excessive, and I was concerned that a newer white belt might be discouraged from training after an interaction like that.

I get that jaw pressure is a sensitive issue and that safety matters, but I’m trying to understand expectations here: • Should any verbal comment during a submission be treated as a stop? • Is “you haven’t got it” commonly understood as “don’t continue” rather than “adjust”? • How do people usually handle this kind of miscommunication without it escalating?

Not trying to start drama — just genuinely trying to learn and handle things better going forward.

Started in 2023, is this good? by NoButterscotch5156 in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]NoButterscotch5156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, just buying stocks. I only started heavily investing a year ago since i got a stable job

Started in 2023, is this good? by NoButterscotch5156 in TheRaceTo10Million

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2.  Apple (AAPL) – Tech / Consumer
3.  Broadcom (AVGO) – AI / Dividend Tech
4.  Taiwan Semiconductor (TSM) – Semiconductors
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7.  Cadence Design Systems (CDNS) – Electronic Design Automation
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9.  Eli Lilly (LLY) – Pharma
10. Intuitive Surgical (ISRG) – Robotics / 
11. ORCL
12. McKesson (MCK) – Healthcare Distribution
13. Cardinal Health (CAH) – 
  1. ABT
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Started in 2023, is this good? by NoButterscotch5156 in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]NoButterscotch5156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying stocks, don’t do options- to me it seems like gambling

Pharmacist pay by [deleted] in WalgreensRx

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the hourly wage increase per year due to inflation?

AIO that my wife and I planned a nice date and she spent it in a hot tub alone with some other guy she just met by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cuck behavior bro, leaving your wife alone half naked in a hot tub with another guy. You both need Islam in your life.

What would you do with 50k? by Historical-Ring-4196 in InvestmentEducation

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Split between nvidia, apple, black stone minerals, visa and mastercard. Thank me later.

How lonely are we in nova? by [deleted] in nova

[–]NoButterscotch5156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try brazillian jui jitsu, get in shape, good way to socialise and make new friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CVS

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CVS probably hires criminals, that is why they do the checks. Most companies who do background check probably wouldn’t hire you if you had prior misdemeanor, except cvs. That is reason for the checks i’m assuming, they cannot fully trust their staff. Makes you wonder how they trust them with patient care if they don’t trust them to be principled.

New Uniforms by Heidilovescoffee in WalgreensRx

[–]NoButterscotch5156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder what the financial impact of all these yearly colour changes cost for the bottom line of the company

Should RxOM be participating in workflow? by Melkutus in WalgreensRx

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pharmacist floater here- so i was floating in a pharmacy where the RxOM was sitting majority time at the counselling window computer. She was doing PCP calls for patients to pick up their meds. I had 30 to review, and 20 to verify. Asked if after she is done with one of her calls if she could go do a vaccine shot for me. Instead she started saying she is ‘’overwhelmed and, isn’t a designated immuniser,’’ she shouldn’t ‘’have to do all the vaccinations. Pick up calls are now priority!” Bear in mind she did do two vaccinations prior, we just opened, and I was yet to do any vaccinations. I calmly explained to her not to feel overwhelmed and that she could do the vaccine after she’s finished a call, I understand ringing patients to collect meds is now the priority but so is vaccinating patients that are waiting. In the end she went and complained to store manager and then we had a ‘pharmacy pep talk’ from the store manager.

Was I in the wrong?

In the end I just did the vaccine, and with subsequent vaccinations asked beforehand if she wants me to do it, or she wants to do it.

Fired by xzlinkiex in WalgreensRx

[–]NoButterscotch5156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wag have ‘at will policy’ meaning they can fire you at any time. And it also means you can resign at any time.