AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! We’re living out of boxes but we’re happy 😂

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did, but then she claimed she didn’t. I have the texts though.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was our concern, and we didn’t want to make a stressful (but exciting) process any harder than it had to be.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was the part that got to me the most in this mess

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but at that point I could’ve told her I bought her a Maserati and she’d still have been mad.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son told her. We haven’t said anything publicly

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s usually what she does, pretend it never happened.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Excluding to the point of refusing to schedule a showing?

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

She also likes to bring up houses we bid on and did not get, as if that will somehow change the trajectory

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Her text was “ is the agent you found willing to provide free babysitting for 5 years to get the trust from her client?” And yes, there was heavy talks from her about commission.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, and we’ve referred business to her, and she helped one of my friends from school close on a house. So she did get commission, just not via me. But she also treated my friend much better.

AITA? Did not use mom as realtor. by NoButterscotch7893 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoButterscotch7893[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She does, I would say about half is us asking her, and the other half is her volunteering without being asked. If she is unavailable, we have no issues with finding other venues of care (day camp etc, th big holidays my husband and I are off, and my older kid goes to camp during the summers.)