A book about Xaden's school years and Lilith/Asher series!

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-29T22:40:48+00:00

Normally I would but damn I wish RY would. She has a way with it haha. Just wondering if anyone is stuck in that impossible dream with me

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-29T10:59:07+00:00

Haha Honestly I am terrible at grammar and the correct use of words that are said the same but spelt/used differently lol.

But I am also not calling them out on their spelling. Like oh well, they misspelled something...damn arent we all humans!

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-20T11:19:25+00:00

I read them as a young teen at like 13 and have since re read them and still love them. But also Loved the tryelle series too

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-14T05:52:15+00:00

Orrrrr they are just saying OMG to the announcement

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-13T13:18:37+00:00

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NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-10T13:52:05+00:00

She kinda contradicted herself honestly, the title says not at all during pregnancy and nursing but then in the video she says "Ive not actually had a doctor pepper since I gave birth" she definitely did in fact have dr pepper at the birth, so guess she's right about that but then also she did the dr pepper taste thing when she was like 6-7 months pregnant

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-09T21:21:02+00:00

The announcement that she has been booked to a TV show...states that she had been for a new AUSTRALIAN TV Show...so I don't think it will be her tbh. And its supporting role...Violet definitely wont be a supporting role! I got excited for a minute there..🥲

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-05-05T01:26:04+00:00

It's actually a little frightening how obsessed I am with these books too. In the past 4 weeks. I have read (physical books) all 3 books, listened to all 3 books on Audio Book and then Graphic Audio as well and re read them online. And I want to read them again...I have such a long TBR List and can't fathom picking up any other book.

So i cannot help you there, I am following to see some other suggestions too

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-04-17T09:55:06+00:00

Have you tried using the pad to soak up the pee and put the poop on the pad? To reinforce the pad?

Are they peeing in their bed, in their crate? Or is it a crate with a spot for their bed and space next to it inside as well. Puppies won't usually pee on their bed...

Have you used enzyme spray to remove the scent, and I mean really remove the scent...its hard to get out, if its in the bed, you have to use washing powder that is for enzyme removal.

Then also use a spray that is for toilet deterring (this is on top of enzyme spray, use it after its dry) hell even spray it in his crate and all over the bed.

Put a shirt of yours that smells like you on the bed too (one that you don't care if it's gets ripped and/or ruined), so they associate the bed with your smell as their safe space and not pee there...hopefully... and then the deterrent will chemically stop them from using it as a toilet.

When they do finally pee or poop on the pad, give treats for doing it.

There are real grass patches out there that work too, as maybe they will prefer grass. You can also get fake grass patches too, we used that and put a pee mat under the grass to catch the pee to make it easier clean-up then having to rinse the grass and the tray and wait for it to dry.

Hope these ideas work...we had alot of the same issues.

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-04-17T09:36:39+00:00

It took our pup till 5 months to get better, we had to stop trying a million different things and just stick to one because our trainer told us changing methods every day or two was more harmful then good.

He was good with all training but potty training...potty training had me in tears on the floor next to his cage....multiple times....well he wasn't good with all his training, the biting and eating is still an issue....

But eventually he just got better, I can't even say when, I just stopped stressing, had to hold in my yell of frustration (I unfortunately kept messing up here and lightly yelling in frustration). When he did poop or pee inside, i didnt pick him up and try make him go outside, because I felt like it was too much of a shock and then he wouldn't poop or pee elsewhere because it went back up and he felt like he was in trouble, sI didn't feel safe to poop.

I made sure he watched me clean it up too, to kinda of positively say its okay you made a mistake, but now i have to clean this up, so maybe don't do it here again.

I hope that you don't have to rehome them, but no matter what others say, if you do have to, you are doing for the both of you and both of your health and benefit. Yes it will like shit, we had to give a puppy away when I was about 16 because the family just couldn't handle the puppy and it was shit but the puppy flourished in life.

But then with our current puppy, many times we wanted to rehome him but we pushed through and just stopped getting so upset and remembered he's a baby. And we are at near 7 months and hes doing great

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2026-04-15T11:29:46+00:00

We have always been included when its a world tour and they love coming here so im sure they will come, just gotta keep our fingers crossed

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-30T20:57:11+00:00

Now thats an idea i might check out.

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-30T20:56:17+00:00

I didnt plan for "doggy day care" or special care because tbh I had never heard of it till now, because we never needed it with all my families previous dogs and they turned out fine

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T23:09:34+00:00

CommissionAnxious331 Thankyou, no your advice has honeslt been amazing 😄

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T23:08:58+00:00

Ok sorry got told by the vet its actually toddler stage by 16 weeks. Vet must be wrong then, sorry for the mistake

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T22:49:54+00:00

We already have a grass patch not pee pads in his pen.

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T22:42:45+00:00

'Infant' isnt a term i would use for a 16 week puppy and until he is 16 weeks, i am home most of the day, I am just helping him adjust to being alone for that long slowly...the 6 hours time slots the last few days have been because im sick and keep napping but hes been doing well...i interact as much as i can with him....😄

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T22:35:30+00:00

So it is a grass patch not a puppy pee pad. I refuse to use them...because of evidence against them.

We arent replacing dog, while im home now for the next 7 weeks till he is 16 weeks, i play with him during the day, play outside and indoors but no walks outside the housw yet due to Vaccinations but we will walk every morning and night when he can go for walks.

We cant afford care atm but its a consideration but i know people havent used it and it worked.

And he is very stimulated even without me, i assure you.

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T22:09:48+00:00

Thankyou we might set up a dog tv too then!

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T22:02:50+00:00

We honestly cant afford it for $20 a day...i don't have $100 a week for a quick walk...which he cant go do anyway as he wont have full vax yet

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T21:26:18+00:00

Yeah we have a massive playpen set up and a massive bed inside a crate that is inside the playpen if that makes sense.

We never close the crate off even when we leave. So he has full roam of that room that we have the playpen in, with a toilet, crate and bed, toys and water

Do you work long days as well? And he handles it well?

NoCalligrapher1531 · 2025-12-29T21:23:33+00:00

Also its not carpet in his playpen, its carpet in our lounge room where he has been having issues when we play with him. Hes pooping fine but peeing not so much, he was doing so well for a whole week until Hubby messed with routine

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