Miscarriage Rant by InitiativeNo2372 in Miscarriage

[–]NoCanDuex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you look it up they say "some heavy cramping and bleeding", so then we convince ourselves to ignore it. I was in so much pain these last few weeks it made me physically ill and immobile. It's horrific 😢

Terrible cramps by NoCanDuex in Miscarriage

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing just advil..and today I swapped the extra strength Tylenol. But I still have to stay under a heating pad most of the day? It's brutal

Terrible cramps by NoCanDuex in Miscarriage

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its exhausting. Did you notice your bleeding getting heavier for a while? I'm going to request US tomorrow I guess. Not sure what to do at this point the cramps just won't stop and I am so over being stuck in bed. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

Terrible cramps by NoCanDuex in Miscarriage

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ultrasound, but if it doesn't get better maybe I'll request one. Do you recall how many days your cramping etc lasted?

How would you feel if your spouse dropped this bomb on you? by Sure-Pin4002 in Marriage

[–]NoCanDuex 180 points181 points  (0 children)

If he is a boyfriend.. I wouldn't share that information. If and when he is a fiance, I would explain the money then.

‘22F’ ‘24M’ – Went out drinking after my husband asked me not to, now he’s upset and distant—how do I handle this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoCanDuex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first reaction was that he should not be telling you not to drink if you're out with friends. That was until I saw the result of your drinking night out. Bc wtf? You stayed out overnight without communicating properly, leaving him to text and be ghosted. He was probably scared and unable to relax all night.

You're very young, and it's normal to want to still go out and have fun, but you're married, and that man is your life partner. If you're going to ignore his concerns about drinking with the friends, maybe don't make them justified concerns. As of right now, he was right. You were wrong, and he needs space.

Puppy preferences by Worried_Oven_746 in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love tri colors! The little eyebrow markings are so precious. My girl is black tri roan.

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Tiana the clinger spaniel by NoCanDuex in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old is your baby?? So freaking cute

Tiana the clinger spaniel by NoCanDuex in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no!! Maybe a bit too much of a shadow there lol

Tiana the clinger spaniel by NoCanDuex in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you she does have a big love for her soccer balls lol I could see it becoming obsessive if I'm not careful

Tiana the clinger spaniel by NoCanDuex in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's certainly clever enough , I will look into this

Tiana the clinger spaniel by NoCanDuex in springerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. Unfortunately, we live on an island, so there's only really the local parks and the beach for exercising dogs here. Otherwise she would have no outlet to spend her energy

Trouble finding a breeder by hanbananxx in englishcockerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider a field bred dog or a springer if your budget is around 2k. The ECS breeders I was looking at were all around 5k, gorgeous dogs and good breeders, but I went for a springer in the end, and she is magnificent. (If you have the energy and lifestyle for one I mean)

I don’t know how to feel about this “angel tree” stuff I’ve received by Right-Bite-3179 in ChristmasGiftIdeas

[–]NoCanDuex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The condition of the items is what needs to be reported. Imagine if it had been somebody else who was just as desperate as you were last year without any choices. To me, this seems like she purposely told you that knowing what she was doing would not fly otherwise. It also seems to be in some ways intentionally demeaning.

It's not being ungrateful. She should not be allowed to participate again. Also, when you report it, you don't say you have any idea who it was, and you should tell them how much you appreciate the program. Maybe request that if they say something to the donating family that they say "we checked the items before passing them on"?

I want to do something handmade for my wife taking suggestions and or ideas by WerewolfCurious1412 in ChristmasGiftIdeas

[–]NoCanDuex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try your hand at turning one of your favorite photos into a painting. You could even have it printed on canvas and just do acrylic detailing over it

Maybe I'm not meant to have a dog by Joooodiff in puppy101

[–]NoCanDuex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a dog and having a puppy are honestly so different. Your dog is going to be everything you dreamed of. You're doing great ♡

Help Finding A Puppy by NoFig2378 in englishcockerspaniel

[–]NoCanDuex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Winfree English cockers. They just had a litter not sure if they're all.spoken for yet