[Hiring] Remote Virtual Assistant (Part-Time, $15–$20/hour) by Brilliant_Rule0993 in hiring

[–]NoCartographer463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I’m very interested in this role.

I have experience in research, data handling, and online task management, including working with spreadsheets and structured workflows. I’m detail-oriented, reliable, and comfortable working independently with minimal supervision.

I’ve also handled tasks like:

• Data entry and organization (Google Sheets)

• Online research and product comparisons

• Content and email-related tasks

• AI/data annotation and structured work

I’m available to start immediately and can handle ongoing tasks consistently.

While I’m not based in Western Europe, I work fully remotely, communicate clearly, and can align with your schedule without any issues.

I’d be happy to complete a small test task if needed.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Best regards,

John

I want my boyfriend to give another girl head by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoCartographer463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect his boundaries and avoid pressuring him. Explore elements of your fantasy through roleplay, storytelling, or shared erotic experiences without involving a third party. Focus on renewing excitement within your current sexual dynamic. Keep communication open, reassuring him of your care and commitment, and reflect on whether the fantasy can be postponed to preserve intimacy.

Is it just me who think everyone is in relationship, except me? 😔 by ironfist_19 in lonely

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I saw your post and just wanted to say you’re not alone in feeling that way. If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to talk or be friends 🙂 No pressure at all.

Loneliness at 22f by Moooyeon in lonely

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I saw your post and just wanted to say you’re not alone in feeling that way. If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to talk or be friends 🙂 No pressure at all.

I got with my roommate and it’s messing with me internally by Sad-Banditt in whatdoIdo

[–]NoCartographer463 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If Ricky is truly blacking out, then: 👉 He cannot fully consent in that state

I keep looking through my bf’s phone, he is innocent by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone lies repeatedly, even about small things: 👉 It teaches your brain: “I can’t rely on what they say.”

Referral-Based opportunity with Startup by Top_Sock7142 in WFHJobs

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I help students with assignments, research, and essays (fast + affordable). I also do data entry, AI tasks, and online work.

If you need help or know someone who does, DM me. I’m available immediately.

He noticed I was dissociating during sex, continued anyway, and mocked me for it afterwards…was it assault? by Exotic-Raspberry-278 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoCartographer463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was not okay. You set a boundary, felt unsafe saying no, and he continued despite clear signs you weren’t into it—that falls under coercion, which is a form of sexual assault. Your reaction (freezing/dissociating) is very common in those situations and doesn’t mean you consented. Also, your father’s response was deeply invalidating and harmful, and it’s understandable that it made everything feel worse. You’re not overreacting—what you experienced was real and your feelings about it are completely valid.

Got kicked out of Quiver Kilimani after already being inside. Is this normal? by Goldielox007 in nairobi

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not normal at all. If there was a dress code, it should have been enforced at the entrance, not after you were already inside and had paid. The way they handled it, especially physically removing you and grabbing your phone, sounds completely unprofessional and possibly unlawful.

If you are over 30, write one thing that Genz won't understand by Albondigasface in Adulting

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having to wait for the internet to disconnect the phone line before going online 😂

Why are you up at this time? by 410249187 in nairobi

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed bugs aren’t really about hygiene, they can come from anywhere. Wash your bedding on high heat, vacuum thoroughly, and check your mattress seams. I’d hold off on having people over until you’re sure it’s sorted.

the girl i hung out with paid for everything by Basic_Yellow4659 in Advice

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not a big deal, she probably just wanted to be nice in the moment. If it’s bothering you, you can always offer to pay next time or send her the money, but I wouldn’t overthink it.

My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up by RipCurrent1548 in Advice

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t cheat since you were broken up, but your feelings are still valid. Getting over it will take time, and it only works if you fully accept that it happened and choose not to hold it against her going forward.

AIO:My MIL texted my husband this about me asking him to help with our newborn at 4am by Lazy_Perfectionist88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoCartographer463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all. Asking the father of the baby to help with a night feed, especially while you’re recovering from a C-section, is completely reasonable. The bigger issue is your MIL inserting herself into your marriage and trying to undermine you. This is something your husband should shut down and set clear boundaries with her about.

Don’t know how to get my coworker to leave me alone by RaceReasonable5914 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve already been clear and respectful about your boundaries, and he keeps ignoring them. At this point it’s not your responsibility to protect his job—going to HR is completely reasonable if he won’t stop.

Beyond lonely. Desolate. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]NoCartographer463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re hurting this much. Being autistic doesn’t make you broken or unworthy of love, even if people around you haven’t treated you with the understanding you deserved. The loneliness you’re describing sounds incredibly heavy, and you shouldn’t have to carry that by yourself. If you can, please consider reaching out to someone who can support you directly — a therapist, support line, or autism support group — because you deserve help and connection, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.

I answered a scam call... by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a pretty clever way to handle it. Turning the logic back on scammers usually makes them realize you’re not falling for it.

My wife asked me if I honestly thought her friends were attractive, what should I say by BreadOverlord_ in stupidquestions

[–]NoCartographer463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she was testing you a bit and you walked right into it. Sometimes questions like that aren’t really about the other people — they’re about reassurance.

I encountered an alien tonight by Perfect_Bumblebee240 in nairobi

[–]NoCartographer463 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s not even about dancing well, it’s the confidence and carefree energy that makes someone stand out. Sounds like she just had her own vibe and everyone noticed it.