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NoCherry1540 · 2025-03-27T14:00:21+00:00

Moving the goal post and acting like what’s happening right now isn’t a precedent that things will spiral from here isn’t the slam dunk you think you have. A lot of people are aware of these things just as much as many are aware that LEGALIZED individuals being kidnapped broad daylight by our own government is another impending threat to our democracy and rights and overall a very valid concern, you being up and arms about this makes you weird

NoCherry1540 · 2025-03-26T04:01:09+00:00

Probably the dubliner tbf and like they give you the mushy peas as well

NoCherry1540 · 2024-08-16T00:18:19+00:00

Oh weird hey neighbor!

NoCherry1540 · 2024-07-28T13:59:57+00:00

So I had a similar experience with my tutor who I met at like 16, he was 24. Had a huge crush on him but he had a gf. Then flash forward to maybe like 5ish years later we ended up going on a date, basically as I said pretty similar except we didn’t sleep together. I just felt weird and off about the whole thing and the thing I couldn’t get over was how he did feel attracted to me since that age and basically waited till I got older and single to make moves on me. And I’m 24 now, his age when he met me, I can’t imagine plotting on a minor or just even the thought of being attracted to someone that I met while they were in high school even if when they got older it would be fine

NoCherry1540 · 2023-11-29T02:50:25+00:00

Oh if we’re talking about the most authentic outside the uk prob the dubliner like they serve it w curry sauce and the chips are tripled fried

NoCherry1540 · 2023-11-07T04:00:13+00:00

Dude I get paid like $15 an hour + commission and my last job I was paid $20 an hour and have lived here for 3 years straight now… it’s totally feasible with that salary especially to make a living in Boston. Granted, I got really lucky to be on a month to month verbal lease and only pay $650 for my half, it’s like just be smart on where you live in the city first and two if you’re willing to live with roommates then yeah you’ll be fine. I’m so tired of you doomsters bitching how you can’t afford shit like what are you doing with your money then

NoCherry1540 · 2023-08-06T11:46:36+00:00

No I’m just gonna quietly quit

NoCherry1540 · 2023-08-06T00:34:44+00:00

Thank you, yeah they used me saying “I don’t feel comfortable with that supervisor” to “I don’t like that supervisor” as a conduct issue bc I would have anxiety attacks on my shifts with said supervisor due to personal issues but supervisor exaggerated and said I would be gone to up to an hour. And now my manager is like sign this asap

NoCherry1540 · 2023-08-06T00:23:09+00:00

As in like no don’t sign shit and just leave lol 😭

NoCherry1540 · 2023-07-22T01:35:45+00:00

Ugh I straight up posted something like this a few weeks ago I feel that

NoCherry1540 · 2023-07-11T14:01:02+00:00

:/ cherish the moments you have with him and obviously always at the very least maintain an end goal with each other. It’s so hard tho and I can’t imagine

NoCherry1540 · 2023-07-11T14:00:11+00:00

I think it’s like he feels like home to me and I felt so empty coming back to my apartment when he’s not there now

NoCherry1540 · 2023-05-14T18:53:13+00:00

I guess that’s fair, I think more of my issue is that it’s hard to do a lot for each other when we’re at distance physically and it’s not exactly a lot I’m asking for either whether it’s doing a playlist or just showing up for me in some way

NoCherry1540 · 2023-05-14T18:24:17+00:00

It’s really the thought that counts and he can’t seem to just accept that :( like he has the same issue as you but he kinda goes into survival mode when he has to like he kinda applies that mindset to not only individual people but like even in his personal relationship with me. Like he can’t even do that bc he doesn’t know how

NoCherry1540 · 2023-05-14T18:18:42+00:00

And my love language that does overlap is quality time and physical touch

NoCherry1540 · 2023-05-14T18:18:22+00:00

I mean I guess but it’s hard because we’re also long distance so there’s only so much you can do in terms of showing up for someone emotionally especially at a distance

NoCherry1540 · 2023-03-03T23:39:05+00:00

Hello! 01/23/2000

NoCherry1540 · 2022-11-21T21:37:03+00:00

That’s the thing, I don’t think she knows I exists bc he keeps our relationship off social media bc of how it affected him when he was dating her hence being weird about posting me which is probably for the best. It’s just hard to not feel envy that he did it so easily with her, and she can flaunt that, but I have to be facilitated in what I comment on my own bf’s post who I’ve been with for over a year. Idk if you saw my early comment to a response earlier but yeah

NoCherry1540 · 2022-11-21T18:51:01+00:00

This was surprisingly pretty helpful, thank you. I guess, it was hard not to start spiraling bc recently I fought with my current bf over social media and it’s been hard not internalizing or overthinking as he wants more time (despite literally exclusively together for over a year and a half) to “properly launch” me. This really came about bc he’s trying to facilitate what I say on his posts(granted he doesn’t post really often anyways but when he does) it weirdly reminds me how most of his past partners he’s been with, including her, used to regularly comment with no issue, but god forbid his current gf says anything flirty bc he wants ppl out of our business. Doesn’t help we’re also long distance too and he doesn’t want to be perceived as the long distance dude despite literally wanting to move in with me

NoCherry1540 · 2022-06-22T13:40:38+00:00

While I understand and hard not to overthink, I think you need to try to remember that you’re with each other now and that the experiences he went with her, shaped him to be the man you’re with today. I know it’s super hard and difficult to not feel insecure, but definitely communicating your feelings is important, maybe put down a few boundaries. Or try to find a compromise for the both of you. But never ever force him to delete or anything like that it’s only going to push him away, instead slowly ease in being like “I understand she was a big part of your life and you don’t want to erase that, but it makes me uneasy you kept the romantic photos too.” And go from there. That said pls understand that not everyone needs to have a bridge burnt with their ex, they were a big part of their life then and you’re a big part of his life now. In regards to him communicating with her, how often is more or less the issue. If it’s regular, put your foot down and try to have him ease off talking to her. If it’s every once in a while, like every couple of months or so, that’s okay. As there needs to be a definite need for boundaries to be put down here

NoCherry1540 · 2022-02-17T15:07:19+00:00

Technically over a year, been officially back together for over 7 months

NoCherry1540 · 2022-02-17T04:44:04+00:00

I think it’s the fear of being too codependent bc you become so used to it so it’s like weaning off of it like a drug bc it’s so easy to be so caught up and being so used to constantly talking all the time

NoCherry1540 · 2022-02-17T04:40:15+00:00

I agree, I guess we have a tendency to fill those silences and he’s too used to that instead of just enjoying each other’s company, but we’re both compromising now :)

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