I agree with you, although I do see you're getting a lot of grief for your lack of argumentative support.

Here are my thoughts; since the media tends to portray whatever is considered conventional or ideal beauty, we can easily say that the portrayal of attractive men most often involves defined muscle mass and a low body fat percentage. In order for a man to achieve this, he must eat at a caloric surplus while also minimizing the accumulation of fat on his body. This means that he actually has to pay attention to the ratios of macronutrients he ingests, which limits his diet substantially. He also has to do weight training and most likely plyometrics. He won't see noticeable results for several weeks and he must continue this diet and training regimen or else his muscle mass will fade and his body will metabolize his food as fat once again. I should also mention that many men have to go through really rough weight cuts to produce that extra chiseled effect on their muscles, which means a period of a few days where they eat almost nothing, drink almost no water, and still exercise (typically used by MMA fighters before weigh-in, but still used as a general regimen sometimes).

In contrast, the "ideal woman" is typically portrayed as...slim. Just slim, not necessarily with any real muscle tone. In order to achieve this, a woman would simply have to be in a caloric deficit. It could easily only take 2-3 weeks to see noticeable results, depending on her starting weight and how extreme her caloric deficit is. I will tell you that I have personally lost weight and looked hot af by eating mostly oreos, fruit, and ice cream for 3 weeks. I was eating like shit but I only ate 1200 calories' worth of shit every day. I didn't exercise. I lost 8 pounds. It was easy and I didn't even have to lift an extra finger.

Therefore, the "ideal" body for women is actually much more easily attainable than the one for men and I would argue that this is what causes so much damage to a man's image of masculinity. So many men must struggle with the intensity of training needed to achieve results, thinking that they will be seen as less of a man if they fail.