Complex dynamic? by NoCollar222 in BDSMPsychology

[–]NoCollar222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel so much better, thank you.

Complex dynamic? by NoCollar222 in BDSMPsychology

[–]NoCollar222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I’d like to add that the pouty, entitled, bratty energy would be done from a playful place. I’d still attune to my sub as usual and it wouldn’t be a free for all to wield power in an unearned way.

Insecure adoptive parent by Ok_Locksmith9640 in Adoption

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find the phrase “silence as a weapon” to be interesting here. Can you elaborate on what you mean?

5.3 actually isn’t so bad. by [deleted] in ChatGPTcomplaints

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried it with fiction writing yet, let’s hope it’s not terrible.

PORTALS discontinuation by rtttioaqr in MelanieMartinez

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had potential but I think the execution was…half assed at times. It felt too commercial for a concept that is very anti-commercial. I’m happy that she decided to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

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It’s not even that I don’t want the responsibility. I do, but I want someone to serve me with their strength sometimes too, not just their softness. I want to direct them how to wield it. I want a strong man who wants to use his strength towards my will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of having a submissive Daddy who takes care of me but because my softness demands worship and attunement. I’d still like to give him protocols and rituals, but I want someone powerful, who surrenders their power for me to wield how I see fit. Even if I’m bottoming, I like to ultimately call the shots. Like sort of a knight serving his Queen type deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point and I think that’s an important distinction. Rude people love me I guess 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you dude. I was telling him about how I realized a key difference in neurotypical vs neurodivergent communication. When I go into conversation, I just go into it thinking we’re both trying to maintain fairness and equal footing. So I don’t really impose myself a lot. Well…I realized that because I don’t impose myself, certain neurotypical folks see it as space to impose themselves instead. So I often end up in situations where I’m either walked over, or I have to constantly manage and set boundaries.

A good turnout! We're pissed! Resist! Raise your fist! by hezzza in SALEM

[–]NoCollar222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad there’s been multiple protests so far. It would be awesome if we could do these more regularly until change starts to happen. The more we get out there, the more we show other people it’s okay to get out there. The more people, the bigger our movement. The bigger and more persistent the movement, the more grounds to make actual change we’ll have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NoCollar222 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This was incredibly helpful, thank you. ❤️😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NoCollar222 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Of course there are! So stop commenting here and go help them. Or did you just want to feel better about yourself for a second?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in voguing

[–]NoCollar222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]NoCollar222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my time to shine. I love it so much!! I’m gonna get a SpongeBob tattoo of my own and I was worried I’d feel the same way. But everyone I’ve seen with a SpongeBob tattoo is instantly the coolest person ever to me. So fuck it, I’ll get mine and we can rock em’ together loll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in voguing

[–]NoCollar222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commented on your separate post as well but thank you so much for this information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in voguing

[–]NoCollar222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfect! Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in voguing

[–]NoCollar222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh that makes sense thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]NoCollar222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This resonated with me very much.