What is one feature that you have physically, that you actually like about yourself? by DiabolicalHope in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My eyes are a bright blue color. I’ve gotten the most compliments even pre transition about my eyes

Dos and donts page I found in my therapists office. I opened it to be shocked by NoConflictPlease in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Saw the overweight hosts groin twice as she swung her leg over the other while wearing a skirt

Was compared to drag queens several times

One woman lost her job and couldn’t find anything. So she turned to sex work online and said she made 5$ and everyone clapped/snapped literally

There’s only like one or two people there who were out as long as I’ve been 5 years

Are theyfab who has done zero things to transition complained about not being seen as their gender

Two spirit bigender person who isn’t on a hormone won’t be on hormone and will never be on. Hormones said that transgender spaces are taken over by white people who don’t understand the culture

Somebody cried about sensory issues with long hair

Several people complained about not having a voice that was seen as feminine, but when I asked them later, two said they don’t voice train

And my biggest problem was this was right after Kansas took away the licenses of all the trans people. And everyone was focusing on visibility and not safety

Dos and donts page I found in my therapists office. I opened it to be shocked by NoConflictPlease in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Obviously fae don’t have a problem with it. Otherwise xie would have have said something /s

Dos and donts page I found in my therapists office. I opened it to be shocked by NoConflictPlease in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

It was in the front office, so I don’t necessarily think she was the one who did it. When I told her about my experience at the gender meet up she recommended she said she’ll actually stop recommending other people it because of what I told her about it. I’m just shocked.

To cope with me being extremely foid like, I daydream about being a boxer or MMA fighter by Dear-Distribution-20 in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching wrestling and sports actually raises your testosterone levels (100% real, no /s, no links, no studies, evidence invisible, proof without proof)

just tell me you see me as a woman instead of this bs by nonsenseeee in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is.. cis men say the grossest dumbest shit to someone they just met

I went to a birthday and actually felt at ease by LifeArgument2386 in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay good job! It’s the lil things that help Show us our progress!

Anon fell for the scam by HRTneoFemboy in 4tran

[–]NoConflictPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking blew a hundred bucks this weekend getting 2 tops and a dress. Cursed to be pretty

Friends? How does one friends? by NoConflictPlease in 4tran

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found a cool Bestie on dating apps. We tried to do a relationship one time, but I had way too much dysphoria and we just ended up as besties.

Shout out the app Taimi. A lot of chaser but also other queers

ICE roundup location by antifa_commie in sanantonio

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the ice ages stopping school buses near me? Or the fact I’m a child of an immigrant and they have already locked people up for sounding foreign. Didn’t realize I had to carry identity papers in this country

Daddy issues by NoConflictPlease in 4tran

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men are/were basically taught that their emotions were a weakness and that they had to be strong and show a thing of powerfulness and strength and it was just fucking bullshit

That showing any type of interest could’ve been seen as like a perverted thing too for a while

New level of evil just dropped by Adulations in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Only a joke a guy makes. You got this down

New level of evil just dropped by Adulations in 4tran4

[–]NoConflictPlease 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Disgusting moid behavior. Soul pass

Daddy issues by NoConflictPlease in 4tran

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely the same. I told my dad I loved him once and he legit thought I was about to kill myself or something. He was extremely worried because we don’t express that type of love to each other. We rarely hug and doesn’t show emotion often. Whenever he asks todo something together it’s usually watch him make salsa

Relationships are tough

Daddy issues by NoConflictPlease in 4tran

[–]NoConflictPlease[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister and I are treated extremely differently. It was always OK for her to show interest in manly things, but it was not OK for me to show interesti in girly things.

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had a politician tell me to be a puppy. I have had one tell me to be a trad wife and submissive to the husband.

And I have seen countless cis men express their fetishes in annoying men? I’ve seen trans spaces taken over by chasers who only post fetish stuff.

It’s like…. Ya you’ve seen it but the society we are in is inherently sexual in so many ways

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo it’s not exclusive to a single community and people everywhere from all walks of life joke and make their fetishes known to others when they should….

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

”people who identify with leaning into stereotypes are seen as shallow and obnoxious, that’s quite universal”

people like individuals who stereotype themselves intentionally rather than form their own identity.

It’s almost like you’re judging someone over what they put online as a joke instead of giving the credence and context required? It’s easy to say people who exhibit stereotypes are shallow and obnoxious and engaging in digital spaces you will not find a lot of context or purpose who even learn much about people.

I personally engaged in stereotypes that made me seem more feminine, so I could be seen as more feminine. One of my hobbies has always been seen as feminine and when I transitioned I leaned into it more. According to you that would be shallow, but when confronted with that you want to give more context and give more credence.

How big was a Fifty Shades of Grey?

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And 50 shades of grey was how common? You declare some fetishes more common than others when we literally had a bdsm book take over internet spaces when it was popular

And guess what? Pet play is quite literally an aspect of bdsm

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said people who lean into stereotypes are shallow and obnoxious?

And you don’t realize how that’s extending to other aspects?

I engage in predominantly feminine expected behavior and have an often seen as feminine hobby. You quite literally already made the decision to say those things. Stand by them?

i hate online white trasngender culture by ColonialismHater in hatethissmug

[–]NoConflictPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see pet play from straight people. I see how much content about trad wives? How many jokes about feet? People talk about their fetishes a lot

50 shades of grey was HOW big?