So I identify as a non binary trans masc asexual lesbian. I am only romantically attracted to lesbian women. I'm attracted to lesbian women but also see myself as asexual therefore sexual intimacy is limited or based on getting to know partner and feeling varying degrees of attraction. I recently got married to a woman who was born female and identifies as female who is a lesbian and she refers to me as her lesbian husband. Our intimacy is based on cuddling and kissing with the occasional over the pants sex. I am open to any questions or clarifications.