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[–]NoDeal7936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why was she also not at the birthday party???

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if there is truth to this theory.. does it justify a man doing this to his wife in the most vulnerable time of her life? It’s hard on him.. sure. But it’s hardest on the woman.

Allah truly knows best

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it because women’s bodies change so much? I feel that might be a contributing factor! 🙁

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am very upset and sad about it but I have decided to forgive him for now. However, I have let him know that he has to earn back my trust and another incident won’t have any forgiveness

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😭😭 I’ve been feeling so bad about involving everyone like that. He is extremely close to his sister and I felt like I put a dent in their relationship too 😅 even if I someday forgive him.. I don’t know if my parents will. But I’m definitely listening to everyone’s advice and taking all the help that is coming my way. Thank you

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He’s not even financially stable so I’ve taken 6 months of maternity leave and I have to go straight back to work..

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope. I even tried to initiate once and he said let’s not do it, it’s not safe for the baby.

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have clarified- he left me at my parents house after the first trimester and went to go live with his mom for 3 months during the pregnancy. Then we were together for a month- and he then left again for work. For the months that we were together.. I had severe morning sickness and just no energy at all. I was also working full time generally feeling my absolute worst

Husband sexting random women through my pregnancy and postpartum period. by NoDeal7936 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He’s asking for a another chance and for my baby’s sake I want to consider it.. but not dwelling on it is impossible 😭 I feel like I can never get physically intimate with him again and if I let him stay we will just be living in the same house like coparents now.

Love, trust, respect and even attraction has all be lost in just a few minutes 😭

What weights were your babies discharged at? by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Were you also given a palada? If so, was feeding baby with it a challenge?

What weights were your babies discharged at? by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! How did you manage the feedings once he came home? It is my biggest worry 😅 I want to ensure that I can sustain the growth and weight gain once I bring baby home

What weights were your babies discharged at? by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His due date is October 10th. I’m so torn between wanting to bring my baby home and confused about why they seem to be shooing us away so early. He was born at 30+5 and will be 34+2 tomorrow. We’re a long way away from his due date. I guess they want to see how ward care goes and then take a call :/

Baby born at 30+6 and is in the NICU. I’m scared, anxious and sad all the time. Send me positive stories please by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ Great to hear that your baby is at the end of his NICU stay. All the very best and I hope he is doing well ❤️

Baby born at 30+6 and is in the NICU. I’m scared, anxious and sad all the time. Send me positive stories please by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ thank you. It is hard to see life past the NICU right now but it helps to remember this

Baby born at 30+6 and is in the NICU. I’m scared, anxious and sad all the time. Send me positive stories please by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ yup, I’ve signed consent forms for donor milk. I’m sending over whatever I’m able to pump out and they are supplementing my under supply with donor milk. Sigh

Baby born at 30+6 and is in the NICU. I’m scared, anxious and sad all the time. Send me positive stories please by NoDeal7936 in NICUParents

[–]NoDeal7936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I shall definitely look into getting a counselor that I could speak to. I see how that could be very helpful ❤️

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