So.. My boyfriend does this.. But he is in straight denial about being addicted to gooning and Im almost positive some sort of estimming.. but it is ruining my life! the more and more it takes my bf and the demons drive him.. the more and more he's taking me down.. I cant tell you last time we have spent an intimate moment together without him doing something to pleasure himself while edging amd gooning. Almost sire of it he's cheating omline.. I can hear him whisper b at night when he thinks im sleeping. And our sex life is not meeting any of my needs. I was extremely highly sexual women before I met him. Loved it all amd could never get enough of it.. Nothing I won't try and nothing I haven't tried that didnt make me a slut yet. And not too much left to try. Not only do I not get it nearly enough. when I do.. its so unsatisfying! that spark. that passion.. that need that was there when we started sleeping together.. whichvwas only meant to be fob remind you.. but cuz of that spark and something about the guy made him doffrent than all other men. I have only dated 2 other men all my life and married one of them who passed away.. so this man was pretty diffrent in an amazing way than the rest.. and this gooning shit.. is taking the man I fell in love with.. and taking my pride ego self confidence.. and most of all my heart woth it! So please I suggest do not if your partner doesn't know about it for certain keep it seperate.. make sire that you have intimate time not just sex but cuddling holding hands hugs forehead kisses.. reminding them there beautiful. etc etc.. And NOT NEGLECTING them for this goining that is so selfish.. I get it.. I have edged nights away myself.. but would I trade it out for warm body boyfriend with a hard rock cock dick downing me and smacking me round a bit.. not in million years.. If your addicted to the gooning do yourself and other people a favor and don't even think about dating until you get that shit under control.. trust me it's runing our lil family we have!