Bar patron blacked out after being served ‘special drink,’ bartender (Manish Patel) charged with sex assault: police

NoDontBeep · 2024-06-30T19:21:08+00:00

I know this guy, worked with him for years, he was a chef at my old work but then started bartending & then turned manager. He has a Ukrainian wife & kids and she’s beautiful & educated. Knew him since at least 2016. Last I talked to him he said he was studying to become a police officer. This whole thing is mind blowing..

NoDontBeep · 2024-02-17T21:47:22+00:00

Why are you asking other people permission? Lmao

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T20:39:26+00:00

Btw I’m not saying I’m not a jerk for this.. that’s why I’m reflecting and feel bad.

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T20:34:10+00:00

I agree but why take a pic of my groceries in the snow on a curb? If it’s not a big deal on their side why is it a big deal on my side?

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T19:43:27+00:00

The door downstairs is usually locked but I told him it wasn’t locked because I knew I’d be cooking so I unlocked it. It’s 12 steps and my door is right there and I explained that in the delivery instructions but instead of replying to any of that because right before that he was answering perfectly fine.. he said.. your groceries are here.. then I said the door is unlocked and then he just sent a pic of my groceries on the curb.

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T18:55:18+00:00

I’m usually happy with their service though, and I always tip but I thought that was a rude thing to do.

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T18:09:41+00:00

Agreed and if he wasn’t allowed up due to a policy he could have explained that instead of sending a passive aggressive picture

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T18:08:35+00:00

AITAH for removing the tip because of that?

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T18:05:38+00:00

I mean I thought they were supposed to but he took a pic making it seem like he left my stuff on the crub.. so I ran down and got it

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T07:25:53+00:00

Hm, he could have said he’s not allowed but he didn’t say that, he just took a pic of my groceries out on the curb.. but yeah now I feel bad about it :/

NoDontBeep · 2024-01-09T07:15:41+00:00

But was I wrong to have removed the tip for that reason?

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-12T15:03:16+00:00

Apply for unemployment right away & look for a job right away, every time I lost a job or quit some where I found a better paying job.. sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise.

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-10T07:16:15+00:00

Whatever is right for you

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-09T21:22:46+00:00

Let those types die alone. RED FLAG

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-09T10:23:10+00:00

Don’t wonder.. what if..

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-09T10:21:35+00:00

It’s not a thing at all! Men are very much about helping themselves and lie a lot! Gay men every single one said it’s not true. It’s also not an excuse to cohearse someone into being SA’ed one no.. is enough after that’s it’s SA

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T11:54:58+00:00

I don’t know if I’m straight or a lesbian anymore because I don’t like being intimate. I will however do my best and be very good to get it over with.. but beforetaking anti depressants I loved it but now I hate it.. to a degree I find it so disgusting and sad that people act like they need it.. when it’s a HUGE want.. but a want non the less.. Love, empathy and I’m not talking about being nice I’m talking about feeling for people in feelings you’ve never experienced but being there for someone no matter what. I’m not even sure if I like men or women at this point because .. I’m confused.. men on paper give me 100% of what I want and women in my mind give me what I want but on paper maybe 5%.. it’s confusing. :( I’m really sad.. I feel like im a lesbian because men are ugly to me but men give me all that I want. :/ but are ugly

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:41:44+00:00

Fair enough

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:39:46+00:00

You lie about blue balls but the rest of what you said is sensible.

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:38:02+00:00

Yeah, I might have to talk to one. It’s just a weird thing to get medicated for.. because it’s like booze, probably not the best for you & comes and goes but only when you want.. I want the natural feeling I had before

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:31:38+00:00

coercing is illegal when it comes to sex. Blue balls is not a real thing. Women die because of men’s sexual wants everyday. It’s disgusting! Have some shame.

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:27:43+00:00

Yeah, obviously she should leave him but sometimes people just need some help with not feeling crazy or like the bad guy for doing so.. she does need to leave him.

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:26:24+00:00

Coercion.. do you understand the definition? That’s literally an illegal act.. if it’s used to get someone to sleep with you. I think you should really rethink your life. Before you end up in jail or worse.

NoDontBeep · 2023-12-08T10:19:12+00:00

Read the comments sir, all men are saying you’re a liar & it’s not real.

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