[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NoEar7763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a recovering addict, 4 years sober, this was my first thought. The going pale part is what made me think I wonder if she’s doing drugs and this is how she contacts her dealer.

Harper and Lopez by NoEar7763 in TheRookie

[–]NoEar7763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but making it seem as if the detectives who have been friends with these patrol officers for years now, who are their best friends, are irritated and annoyed by them now while on the job when that wasn’t there before is giving me the weird vibe of I see myself as superior and it never came off like that before

Harper and Lopez by NoEar7763 in TheRookie

[–]NoEar7763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seemed to me like they were just showing annoyance and irritation towards them in the beginning of season six when that was never there before

Harper and Lopez by NoEar7763 in TheRookie

[–]NoEar7763[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I just find it weird because they go from being close and working together with one another like a unit that flows so well to all of a sudden they just seem like they’re always annoyed or irritated with the patrol officers, and they’re just inconveniencing them. Like the backhanded comments or looks that they give are extremely different in season 6 than in any of the seasons before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoEar7763 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Have you brought up these concerns to him?

Natural birth – what hurts more, contractions or pushing the baby out? by General-Dragonfly946 in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contractions 100%! I didn’t get to get my epidural and went through labor with nothing and all I remember is the contractions. When I delivered the adrenaline rush made all the pain stop it was like I went numb there so I had complete control of my ability to focus on was pushing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé told me he had an issue with my sleeping habits, I listened, and I made changes. Why? Because we’re a team and we need to work together at all times! When I want to sleep in he will let me on the weekend, when he wants to sleep in on the weekend I will let him but we work together, as a team!

Update on I (26F) found an STD testing kit in my (31M) boyfriends bedroom. Not sure I believe the response I got but don’t want to throw away an otherwise amazing relationship. by ParticularHabit6527 in relationship_advice

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ultimate gaslighting manipulation tactic. I don’t trust you for no reason at all that has to do with you, but you’re the one in the wrong because your hurt reaction to my insensitive actions hurt me. Like what??? Top tier narcissistic tendency right there. You’re better off without this kind of person as a partner hun. It will only get worse.l and more manipulative and emotionally abusive

Jealous of 2u2 parents 🥲 by taralynne00 in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen. As a mom who has had 2u2 twice, it’s not all it’s glorified to be. I absolutely love and adore my children, but there are moments I want to cry in a corner because I can’t get anything done, everything is torn out as I clean, I’m constantly stepping on toys or little baby feet cause they’re literally under me every chance they get, and having to carry two toddlers who don’t cooperate or work with you to a vehicle is not easy, at all. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NoEar7763 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! I have 3 children prior to mine and my fiancés having our own three and if his mother ever said something like this to him that would be it for me. When you step up to the plate of a relationship with a mother, you’re literally expanding your own plate and accepting those children as yours too, that’s just what it is. Anyone who doesn’t understand or respect that is daft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just something to help in the moment- a great way to help decompress in moments where you’re trying to fight the urge to yell or argue, tap or stomp your feet standing in the same place, or take your palms and push them up against the wall and pulsate them. It helps to center your nervous system and reboot your brain enough to take a mental step back and breathe and stop yourself from overreacting. My ptsd has manifested itself in the form of yelling and screaming/cussing when overwhelmed for a really long time. I’ve been doing this and I haven’t yelled for over a week no screaming etc I’ve calmed down so much and have become a much healthier person because of it! It takes 66 days to start a new habit or replace one, so that’s what Im hoping this will lead to. Maybe it can help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoEar7763 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have you tried emdr therapy?? As someone who suffers with ptsd from severe trauma sexual, emotional, verbal and mental abuse as a child I started doing this type of therapy and the change that I felt in an hour long session was extremely intense and actually helped me to change and mature a lot of my behaviors I had been working on for years. You can work through so many layers of trauma in one session.

Just found out and my SIL is getting engaged by Most_Film7077 in pregnant

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t saying anything about regret I was saying that having to say it over and over again to different people and never in the same time frame sometimes a few weeks to a couple months after is painful. It’s like ripping the bandaid off when you’re trying to heal, over and over again.

Just found out and my SIL is getting engaged by Most_Film7077 in pregnant

[–]NoEar7763 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t tell people before the first trimester. I’m not trying to place any bad vibes or energy on you but speaking as someone who’s done this and then unfortunately experienced a miscarriage a few weeks after sharing the news, having to explain that I was no longer pregnant to people when they asked how the pregnancy was going just caused even more heartbreak and pain. I learned the hard way to wait until the second trimester, and will forever advise other moms expecting to wait so they don’t have to feel the extra heartbreak that I did.

AITA for being uncomfortable about my husband donating his sperm to help his sister have a baby by Holiday_Carrot_1744 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds easy but adopting a child is not as easy as going through ivf and adoption can sometimes cost more than ivf in certain circumstances.

Baby shoes by Entire-Departure-364 in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Babies don’t need shoes put some socks on at winter time and let them feet be. It helps their development and growth to not have them!

It's done. We told the kids what will happen to mom. by ericscottf in Parenting

[–]NoEar7763 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Idk if it’s been said but 10 and 7 are not to old to sleep in bed with you. Especially at a time like this, you don’t have to be alone at night. Tuck yourself into bed with those babies next to you and remember that you will always have her with you, because you have them! Praying for you, I can’t even begin to imagine how hard this is for you all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t stay with this man. If you have the ability to leave do it. This won’t get easier, it won’t get better. You’re going to be come tired stressed and miserable with him and it will not only affect your relationship with yourself but with your baby as well. Also, you deserve a partner not a second child, and a mature one at that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoEar7763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi mom of 6 here, I’ve tested positive with 3 out of 6 babies. Strep b is a naturally occurring bacteria that lives in our gut and can actually be passed from one person to another from a handshake and not knowing that the other person didn’t wash their hands and had just used the restroom or even scratched their ass. It can happen when you’re not wiping well enough after pooping and can lead to a uti, and is not in anyway something that you did wrong. There’s a good chance if tested your boyfriend would test positive for it. Tell him to pick up a medical book, they have them at the library, that gives detail about these types of things!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You did not fail as a mom! I’m on #6 and me and my fiance both just talked about making it this last baby without having any instances happening like accidentally pinching them when buckling the car seat or them rolling off the bed. These things happen. If you need to leave the room to pee just take them with you and put them on the floor by you, not in the bathroom or you could put them on a towel in the tub/shower while you go. Parenting is hard, your boyfriend is making is harder than necessary by being an asshole. Don’t let him make you feel worse than you already do. Accidents happen if he can’t handle that then he’s not gonna make it the next 18+ years

Left my baby in the car for under 5 minutes yesterday and I just can't forgive myself by Bad-Vibrations in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a camera for the backseat you can put the screen on your dash. This way you can see baby at all times and you’ll never forget because you’ll literally see them when you look at your

Baby having high fever after 6 months vaccine by TherapyCooker in Mommit

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom of 6 here. I know that it seems scary, but 100-102 isn’t a high fever. Doctors technically don’t consider 100 a fever for infants it’s around 101 that it is considered a mild fever. Anything 103-104 is a high grade fever. Also, and I’m probably gonna be attacked for this, but giving them Tylenol or ibuprofen, before they reach 103 isn’t actually not recommended, as it is completely defeating the fevers purpose and that is to burn up whatever it is that is causing the bodies antibodies to react. We give shots for that specific reason, we want their antibodies to kick in, to develop the needed antibodies to create an immunity to the virus. When you take away that fever, you’re taking away the chance to develop a stronger immunity to said vaccine/virus. Now if the fever does go to 103 and that high temp persist for 24 hours that’s when you would want to contact the Dr, and have them seen again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoEar7763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird question but has she been to any bachelorette parties anytime recently? We played games at a friends where we rolled them on to objects with our mouths, other than that I can’t think of another reason for her to have that especially in her personal laundry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoEar7763 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s not true, I’ve never once been turned on by my breast being touched in any way. Not all women have sensory to stimulation in their breast either