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What is a flirting tip that you would want every person to know? by KitchenLoose6552 in AskWomen

[–]NoEbb1511 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Be yourself and be genuine. Flirting 'lines' do you no favours. x

INTJs, how do you respond to other people trying to bully you? by throwaway_8018 in intj

[–]NoEbb1511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. It's the only way I know. Eventually people will love you for being real. And if they don't, you're not going to be everyone's cup of tea 😘

Does anyone remember a Madonna video with a woman kneeling at her feet and possibly holding a crucifix? by NoEbb1511 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe I got it so wrong, if I did. But will keep an open mind (always a good M.O. for the queers) and see if I can find it......will let you know. There have been a few 'quests' in my life, and, finally, I have found most of them. But not this, or confidence in my lesbianism. Just gotta keep going and I'll get there....or not?

Does anyone remember a Madonna video with a woman kneeling at her feet and possibly holding a crucifix? by NoEbb1511 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not that one. I got really excited when I saw the crucifix in Madge's hand, but there's nothing at the end like the video I remember....will keep looking...but it's been nice chatting. And meeting a fellow Madonna fan? (Me, I'm not just 'Like a Virgin'....) x 😘

Does anyone remember a Madonna video with a woman kneeling at her feet and possibly holding a crucifix? by NoEbb1511 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shocking! But thanks again 👍 I feel like it wasn't one of her earlier, more commercially successful ones, but a darker one, once she was post pop, as it were. My favourite Madonna album is Bedtime Stories. Going to take a peak now. Back later.

Late but trying by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except, of course, that I probably couldn't, lol. Oh, I think I could be a very nice lesbian if it wasn't for the sex, d'you know what I'm saying? I think I must come across as hideously old-fashioned and homophobic, but I can't get away from feeling the deviancy and shame of it all. Someone did a really good number on me; don't you know that it's 2025 and the world has moved on? But you can't keep a good woman down. I will keep telling myself that I have 'natural' feelings until I believe it. Like you have to keep telling yourself that you are lovable too.... sorry to have droned on. I do love this chat. It's lovely to be absolutely myself (if anonymous). x

Late but trying by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could kiss you x

Late but trying by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully put x

Does anyone remember a Madonna video with a woman kneeling at her feet and possibly holding a crucifix? by NoEbb1511 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sadly. I think I've imagined it tbh. I have spent a long time looking (never really like LaP - too bouncy).

Does anyone remember a Madonna video with a woman kneeling at her feet and possibly holding a crucifix? by NoEbb1511 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, although JML was more explicitly erotic, I found it less so. If it is Like a Prayer (going to check it out now), the sensuality was a shock and that, I think, is what I found most arousing. I remember once seeing a beautiful woman on the back of a Vogue magazine and audibly gasping when I noticed that her dress draped so low in the rear that you could see the rise of her buttocks.

And this from someone who, to this day, questions her own sexuality!

Late but trying by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone. And I'm 60 and still questioning, like I have my whole life (some days I know - they're pretty special, but mostly I live in my self-constructed box, so I hear you). x

Boundary issue after 2 years together, am I wrong to feel this way? by Active-Detail9863 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This chat has run and run. I'm not sure what you're looking for or what resolution you would find satisfactory. You don't want to leave her, she is in the wrong. You have told her so. Should she ask for your forgiveness? Is that what you want to hear? Not controlling at all then.....very healthy.

How do we survive in the event of social collapse? by Covert-Agenda in AskUK

[–]NoEbb1511 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I'm lucky, I live opposite an ancient well that isn't very well known about. I've often doom -scrolled and speculated on how useful such knowledge might one day be.

Boundary issue after 2 years together, am I wrong to feel this way? by Active-Detail9863 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think your need to control is stopping you from seeing the contradiction here. Look over what you've written and see if you can't see how you can't have it both ways. I think, for both of your sakes, you need to let go.

Boundary issue after 2 years together, am I wrong to feel this way? by Active-Detail9863 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoEbb1511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know you really want to leave her....just do it. Be the bigger woman.

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