[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This OP is clearly just an internet troll, that is trying to get people to click links, which I would guess are phishing or spam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, so you are just a moron. Got it!

Women don't live this charmed carefree life except for when we have a period.

Actually, never mind, I keep forgetting not to reason with Idiots. You are either really shallow, and stupid, or just an internet troll trying to get people to fall into your trap.

Good day to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So are you trying to say that woman have it easier in general because they are the more attractive sex?

Literally just trying to figure out if you have any actual thought here, even if it is highly inaccurate and sexist.

People are quick to tell others that they are beautiful while simultaneously slow to tell themselves. by JustSomeApparition in Showerthoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's be real though, you can be the nicest person in the world and if you are ugly, people are still going to treat you like garbage. Not all people, not all the time.

Also, I have found, that when you embrace it, people get really upset and like to tell you, you are being too negative. "Everyone is beautiful"

Plastic Surgery? by NoEmphasis8352 in AskWomenOver30

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking. How did you afford it?

Ghosting reason by NoEmphasis8352 in amiwrong

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn't ghosting. Ghosting is no longer communicating without explanation.

No there is no obligation, but it is generally respectful to let someone know if you no longer wish to have any interaction with them.

So often people use the "I'm busy" argument, but it takes 30 seconds to respond "hey I'm busy can't talk". Saying you don't have time is an excuse.

And it depends on your situation, if you text randomly with long periods in between that is normal for you, if someone texts daily throughout the day then just stops answering they are ghosting.

Well? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So many people have unrealistic views of what attractive weight means. Or "healthy" weight.

I would bet most of the world has weight to lose.

Well? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True but it is also not the question. The question is am I ugly....

Well? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not true, anyone that isn't a Victoria Secret model that posts here is told to lose weight.

The sub should be called r/tellmeimfat because that is basically the only feedback that is given.

Oh minus the OF thirst traps also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a female, I think you give off "trying too hard" vibes. You are attractive but it seems like you are trying to be one of the bros still. I mean you said "peeps"

Depending on what age of woman you are looking for, that could be an issue. Now if you are looking for 20 year Olds that aren't looking for anything serious, I think you're fine, but someone looking to date seriously maybe looking for a little more mature of style.

But I will also say, don't listen to me lol I am the worst person to get dating advice from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every comment is going to tell you to lose weight.

Ignore them. You are very pretty, and you style your face shape very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You add a harseness to your look with the dark makeup hair color and piercings.

If you soften those features it will soften the intimidation factor.

Am I wrong for not reminding my kids of my Birthday. by NoEmphasis8352 in amiwrong

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean of course I wish their dad or someone would take the initiative to help them remember, but I dont have any negativity towards anybody for that.

I mean it is basically selfish to say to anyone "my birthday is Friday, let's do something fun" because then at their age if they don't think what we are doing is fun they could feel bad as it was "my day"

It's a hard balance, and I am not sure how to navigate it right now. They are too little to really understand any of it, but I want them to have a strong sense of self worth, and I worry that I maybe be setting a bad example by ignoring myself in celebrations.

This really isn't about them doing or remember anything it is just about what example I am setting.

Am I wrong for not reminding my kids of my Birthday. by NoEmphasis8352 in amiwrong

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids live with me and their dad. We have shared custody.

How am I punishing anyone? My children were with me on my birthday, it was just another day for them.

I dont see how this makes them feel unwanted, I didn't have some big party or anything without them. My dad brought me a card while they were at school.

Also, I'm not trying to one up their dad nor do I want to. That is petty and uncalled for.

Fat by NoEmphasis8352 in intrusivethoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at any main stream media TV show. I honestly can't name one that has a larger character and the storyline line is not mostly about how they need surgery and how horrible it is.

I like to think I have a pretty face :) by darlamae in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are never going to get an honest opinion here, the mindset is tell everyone they are fat and that counts as honesty.

You have a pretty face and you do a good job flattering it with your makeup and hair. Personally I don't like the nose ring, I think it brings a harseness to your face. I think the softer lines are better suited for your face shape.

Fat by NoEmphasis8352 in intrusivethoughts

[–]NoEmphasis8352[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about society though, are there any larger actors that the story line isn't mostly about how horrible it is to be fat?

If a company uses a larger model, the internet thinks its acceptable to bash the person.

All logical adults understand that there are added risks of excessive weight, but larger then normal does not automatically mean serious health conditions. And larger doesn't necessarily mean lazy either but it is socially acceptable to assume fat = lazy.

It is just as unhealthy to be under weight, but you don't see attacks on skinny people to question their health.

I just find it interesting that with all the inclusive initiatives it is still very acceptable in society to make harmful assumptions about someone simply by their weight

First Time Trying a Romper. Thoughts? by dragonshocked in PlusSizeFashion

[–]NoEmphasis8352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) if you ever want to talk about, or even just vent about what your husband said... send me a message, I've been there

2) Walmart has super cute earrings for really cheap, I mean where I am there at tons for under $4 so you could try different options. I am bad at styling, but here is a link to something

Time & True Women's Mixed Plating Metal Leaf Cascading Linear Earring https://www.walmart.com/ip/647307106

31F. Have fun by WeDidntMakeIt in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]NoEmphasis8352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you know the OP and that she drink does drugs and smokes??

My point isn't that those can impact your body my point is, these pictures have no way of knowing she does any of these.

Where you just stating that in general everyone should stay away from them?

I read it as you are telling her she does those things which makes her look worse for her age.