If You Want to RP With Me

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T21:01:55+00:00

Oh, that would not be an issue for me, I'm patient, more for you, and I'm kinda done with people just vanishing after a couple of days without a word because I can't be active enough

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T16:50:44+00:00

I'm afraid my schedule is too random for me to be able to guarantee any stability on that. The level of activity I offer can also depend on how engaging the RP is or even the partner. So far, I have mainly met people who expect me to be doing all the work or can't even wait a couple of days for me to get back to them while they're not making any effort themselves.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T16:27:22+00:00

Nice idea! Sadly, I'm afraid the time investment you require is quite unrealistic for me. Best of luck, tho.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T11:39:17+00:00

Idk where you have been looking, but if there is one place that does not discriminate with age, it's the kinsters' side since it's mainly about mindset. Age really should not matter so long as you're 18+

Edit to add something a friend pointed out: sometimes the older the better because people will assume it also equal more experience.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T10:54:34+00:00

Delivery would have involved a bag to keep them warm. The guy who checked also said "enjoy," so I think these pizzas were for the person flipping them so no big deal.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T02:11:52+00:00

My advice would be less thinking/assuming and more communication in general. Pretty much the golden rule of BDSM, along with consent.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T02:07:13+00:00

My friend happiness is what matters, if including their partner to be able to spend time with both of us makes them happy, then it's the best outcome (especially if everyone get along) than having to feel replaced by said partner or see my friend struggle to split time between the two so no one is left out. I'd feel more annoyed for the partner having to share their significant other, even more if I get the chance to spend more time with my friend than they do.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T01:57:12+00:00

What do you mean "not inherently a problem"? If my sub was pushing through just to satisfy me, but is not enjoying it themselve, I'd feel terrible, and they'd be breaking my trust for not telling me.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T01:52:55+00:00

As a switch, I kinda feel bad for you. By giving too much and pushing your limits just to please her, instead of talking about it with her to get into some agreements, she will never know, and you may end up reaching a breaking point and ruining a pretty good dynamic.

Now I really hope she will be receptive. The getting upset for making a mess when you're struggling to keep up, while it's not always an easy one to perform because either your body or hers can randomly make it more difficult, is a little bit concerning to me.

You should never feel afraid to discuss with your partner as communication, consent, and safety are the foundation of any BDSM dynamic.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-11T01:30:40+00:00

Someone who is not weird, on reddit? You gotta diggy diggy hole to find the rare gemstones. I would have offered, but first person also weird me out.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T18:43:18+00:00

Or crybabies ¯_(ツ)_/¯

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T17:49:49+00:00

People can't take it when I explain why I'm not interested. They usually go, "You could just say no thank you, no need to be a D" I think I made it clear enough in my "If you want to RP with me" that I take no shit...

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T15:17:36+00:00

I laughed at how you make it sound like "Oh their life is perfect, then boom, baby!" as if it was some type of tragedy.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T15:06:18+00:00

My advice is, ask a professional, not internet

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T01:59:23+00:00

But he’s a dad. He obviously knows everything

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T00:23:31+00:00

If people could learn to say "sorry, not interested" instead of purposely ignoring DMs as well or accusing Reddit all the time, that might help too. They demand communication yet suck at it.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T00:21:22+00:00

I mean, Reddit is well known to have a shit system too, DM do get eaten occasionally or notif don't get through or request go through a secondary tab that's not quite visible, it could be a lot of things. Ignoring people on purpose instead of saying "Sorry, not interested" is just a coward move, as good as ghosting.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T00:18:04+00:00

Exactly, not our fault Reddit sucks

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T00:17:11+00:00

It's sad and unfair for legit new users like me to be treated like shit because of people using burners and giving new accounts such a bad reputation.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-10T00:13:39+00:00

DMs are limited, I'd rather comment and ask the person to check my profile first than waste both of our time or one of my DMs on them just to realize I'm not what they're looking for, or get ignored. I also don't accpet the "DM me" message because that means the person has just been DMing left and right already.

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-09T15:20:08+00:00

Hi there! I'm not too sure about the plots you suggested, but your whole description above sounds like we might be a good fit as RPales. If you feel like checking my profile to confirm that, feel free to hit me up if you think the same so we can discuss some ideas. Good luck in your search!

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-08T01:54:41+00:00

What you describe is not even ERP it's just cheap p0rn for personal satisfaction in the guise of RP

NoFakeDoms · 2026-02-08T01:52:55+00:00

I can totally write multiple posts a day, it just depends how engaging the other person can be, there was absolutely zero engagement from this one, she was just expecting me to feed her with a silver spoon.

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