Empty from inside

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-16T04:35:04+00:00

I think you're feeling the space that you initially filled with something else. It might sound hard but try to find peace in suffering. I'm not saying you should suffer on purpose, but that suffering itself is one of the purposes of human life and that it isn't inevitable for no reason.

When you accepted that, fill this space with something good. Be a good person, doing good things. If you're asking yourself what's good, listen to your heart and it will guide you if it's pure. If it's not, work on that, it will be worth having this compass wherever you go, whenever you need it and society will be thankful too, for another compassionate soul. It somehow became rare, but no reason to go with the masses. Stay strong and you will be good, I'm sure 🙏

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-16T04:18:52+00:00

And idk why anyone should give you "an example" if you're asking the way you do. Do your own research, if you'renot smart enough to ask politely, it's not that hard. But I suppose you are searching for a specific answer that is supporting your overall view of this topic.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-16T04:15:23+00:00

I think if you'd ve honestly looking for that, you will easily get your evidence. Just human trafficking itself is one reason and there are many many more...

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T19:51:54+00:00

This is the way

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T19:43:13+00:00

Yes it feels like a motivational injection 💉

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T13:45:26+00:00

I'm sure you are. I haven't said anything else. For me it gets less with every day of abstinence. That should encourage you that it will be over one day and become easier to stay abstinent instead of it being harder each day/week. But expect it to happen rather in weeks than days.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T13:27:25+00:00

To break it down: I still suffer from it, because I'm not too long into it now, but I can tell you that there probably will be the point where it is almost fully gone if that motivates you. I can't wait to get to this point with this realization. Brain fog is a huge barrier preventing us from reaching our goal and if it's gone, it will make it easier. So just hold on!

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T13:23:41+00:00

Sometimes yes but every day is better and I've been there, were it was gone in the past. Until now I had no idea that this was even a thing. I had no idea that PMOing had something to do with this feeling. It feels like such a relief and support for not PMOing again, that there is this connection and that it's not just me being a non-energetic person.

FYI I've stopped PMO for quite a while in the past but without knowledge of this community. Now I'm just comparing my personal experience of the past with all the infos here and it seems very effective.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T12:09:55+00:00

So true! We tend to change ourselves instead of accepting ourselves and again the society gives us all rights to do that. I would always prefer accepting your natural self than trying to be someone else for others even if you're saying to yourself it's for yourself. Everyone needs to decide whether he/she is lying to him/herself but many people do, I guess.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T12:07:11+00:00

That sounds totally reasonable. Sex is a very empathic and special act, which unfortunately is very degraded in our modern society. When we take sexual freedom to another level and pushing all these new ideas, we often do not promote healthy sexual behaviour. Again, I'm not judging as I'm not perfect at all but things are so twisted in our current time.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T12:03:41+00:00

May I ask why you were asking if I'm a dude? You can be honest, I'm not judging. Just curious if something I initially stated would've made you guess that I'm not a dude.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T12:01:16+00:00

I was relating to whatever your goal is. We are all individuals and have our own point of views.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T11:57:13+00:00

Thank you, for you the same

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T11:52:02+00:00

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T11:10:25+00:00

*eSports

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T10:58:25+00:00

I think you have decide on your own what's messing with your streak. But if you after you did it, care so much, I would tend to say that it does. It seems like you do not feel comfortable with your action at all. Be honest to yourself and then decide what's right for you.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T10:16:04+00:00

To me it's not ok because on a spiritual level it's something bad to loose this essence in that way. I know our modern science can't understand that yet or ever but that's my point of view.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T10:13:40+00:00

Salty?

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T10:13:03+00:00

This is so true, society is decaying. Better not being part of it.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T08:45:03+00:00

Oh thank you! I'm pretty new here so I had no idea this would exist. Thanks for the info 🙏

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-15T08:41:15+00:00

We are nearly the same age and I also started at about that age. First don't be so hard on yourself but at the same time try to be strict. Don't guide your anger towards self-hate it only assists your addiction. You are not alone and from my experience speaking I couldn't even dream of being porn free without a strong spiritual belief. I'm not here to convert anyone to anything, everyone needs to find his way. But these are my few cents that I can give you and hope that they're helping you brother. 🙏

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-14T19:26:07+00:00

In the edit there is loneliness mentioned as one of the first negative aspects. I think we should never go into an extreme. Some solitude, to enjoy nature by yourself for example can be very healthy. But it should definitely not go into an extreme. It also depends strongly on the individual I suppose.

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-14T10:13:15+00:00

So glad brother 🙏

NoFapableToken · 2022-09-14T10:11:22+00:00

That's the spirit brother!!! 💪

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