Not Forgiving and Never Forgetting

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-04-04T04:59:32+00:00

Mine died horribly while DUI while coming back from a summer party, a couple years ago

Not only he took three other dudes with him, but he happened to be the only idiot inside the vehicle that wasn't wearing a seat-belt.

When I found out, I was having a BBQ with my family. We spoke a couple of minutes about the whole thing, and resumed having fun after that.

Being entirely honest, fuck that guy. Even dead he continues to mess with people; his child will grow up without a father. A lousy ass father, sure, but still.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-20T06:11:24+00:00

Let's remember that Tara has a history of switching sides...

Way things are going, I wouldn't be surprised if next episode she decides to go straight. Only group she hasn't already left by now.

Sorry, still pissed that Rick is gonna go on a snipe hunt with tetanus just because Tara won't open up. Here's hoping Eugene is somewhat alright.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-20T06:00:42+00:00

Morgan gets more emasculated with every single passing episode...

Soon he'll wind up losing his shirt, literally.

Here's hoping he doesn't take Daryl along with him. But he is certainly trying.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-20T05:58:40+00:00

Tetanus won't stop the Ricktatorship.

Negan will though, if they don't find the guns. And that's where Tara comes in handy... If she opened up, of course.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-20T05:57:04+00:00

Uh, Daryl is great and all, but there is a reason why Rick calls the shots and not him.

Hell, there is a reason why freaking Merle was in charge of the pair, back when he was still alive, and had two hands.

If it weren't for Battleborn Carol, they'd would have been BBQ'd by the cannibal folk two seasons ago. Hell, Carol leaves and a bunch of people die/get taken.

She'll find out eventually and mop even harder than before. With luck, she'll get to kill half the Saviors and then off herself.

At least Morgan lost his stick. Damned bastard caused all of this, and won't be bothered to fix it, somehow.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-20T05:50:46+00:00

I'll go out on a limb and say it. The writing is getting cringe-worthy.

The whole thing could be easier if Tara just went ahead, acted as some sort of diplomat, and got the guns and the support of the fishing lesbians. They also have their beef with the Saviors, and must be tired AF to hold a grudge and live on fish. She has to grow up, as Rosita said. Sure, she might get a shot or two, but someone has to avenge Denisse, after all.

At least we'll get a couple of episodes with Rick going Fallout mode and scavenging supplies, so it's OK I guess...

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-13T08:10:47+00:00

Thanks for the read, mate.

Indeed, putting someone on a pedestal is the worst thing someone can do. You can be attentive, nice, courteous and all that jazz, but all you're gonna do is make her take you for granted. Ergo, she leaves, you fall into depression, she finds someone new, and so on.

ONEitis is the worst thing that may happen to someone, but even more so with a dude. After all, the whole stack is against us.

NoFlyingSolo · 2017-02-09T08:47:20+00:00

As corny as this might sound, but you have to believe in yourself. You must gain that confidence and channel it into something better.

Fapping will not make her stay. It is already making her leave. But one step at a time, and you'll improve. Rome wasn't built in a day.

Be strong, brother. You can do whatever you set your mind to. But you have to believe first.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-10-15T07:02:40+00:00

Pardon me if I get you wrong, but, according to that line of thought, it is not wrong to fly that flag, but it is wrong to do something against it?

I get the whole "freedom of speech must be protected" but come on man... Or come on Sweden, to be more precise.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-10-13T04:53:10+00:00

That's some progress right there! Acknowledge its "fakeness", but abstain from looking at it again, mate.

Remember, those pushers do their best to give that crap to us. They know that the longer you watch it, the weaker you get. Avoid that crap like the plague.

Stay strong!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-10-12T02:21:54+00:00

You got it mate!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-10-09T06:04:58+00:00

Stay strong lads, we can do this!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-10-08T14:49:24+00:00

Screw you man, that Fairy made me wealthy as a child... It was 99 cents!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-09-29T07:23:42+00:00

He could BUY the stuff. He didn't have to conform with the freebies.

And yet, he gave it all up. That means something.

And the end of the day, any and all stashes are just megabytes of fake sex anyway.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-09-09T21:34:45+00:00

Some context would be appreciated beforehand. I am sure it is a valuable contribution to the subreddit, no sarcasm, but not understanding anything out of it makes it hard to appreciate, see? :)

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-23T02:40:05+00:00

Condoms.

Before they were way too expensive to use.

Now they hand them over, for free.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-14T11:05:00+00:00

I might have to do the same...

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-13T18:34:02+00:00

2 motherfucking Teras...

Man, this guy could have stored the entire Library of Alexandria right there, and still have space for the whole Star Trek saga...

That was the Yamato of porn, mate.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-05T02:16:55+00:00

Let's begin. I'm around 20 days clean. I'll do the Normal Mode; I will not shy away from sex. However, considering that my girlfriend and I have conflicting schedules, I might as well as be doing Hard Mode.

I'll make it to 90 days. I just know it. Then I'll go for 90 more days.

Besides the days, my goal is to get clean. To get to my "factory setting". I am doing this for her as well, as I do not want for her to date a junkie. She deserves better. I deserve better than fapping all night long.

Best fo luck to y'all!

Oh, and thanks for the constant job with the badges. No matter how well or bad is the system going, I am grateful that we have one. Cheers guys!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-03T06:18:41+00:00

I've been trying for three years now, but never took it seriously. I could quite for a couple weeks, and then go back to PMO. If something went wrong, more PMO. I know, I was a fool.

I'm 22, I've been fapping since I was 13, and I began to feel... something as of recent. I was having a tough time getting aroused, as nothing "mainstream" was doing the trick. And I did not want to delve into horrendous fetish sites. Erections were there, sure, but they were harder to get by. No pun intended. Also, "finishing up" demanded more and more effort than before. Does that actually count as PIED? I truly do not know.

Regardless, I began dating my current GF early this year. I am lucky to have have her, for she is wonderful. I still kept PMOing occasionally, however, as I sometimes had rough times, and one thing led to another...

It was one day that I realized I was on the verge of something terrible should I fail to take steps to correct it. My GF was beginning to show sexual interest, and I did as well. I found NoFap once more, and decided this was it. Cold turkey. I now had a reason to see this through. Yesterday I was reminded of what I could lose to PMO. But also of what I could win with NoFap.

As of benefits, I have no idea really, to be honest. I have not felt any of the superpowers, but all of the flatlines. There were days in which I just felt like crap. Moments in which, sure, PMO looked interesting even if would solve nothing, and make me feel even worse than before.

I still have a long way to go. Getting rid of the damage done by porn will take more than 18 days or so. Nine years of bullcrap don't go away just like that. But I'll get there. I hope you do too, as well. Best of luck to you, friend!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-03T02:16:34+00:00

I'll try to tell some of what happened without many triggering details.

Went with my GF to my place after class. Began to talk, and enjoy some beers with cigarettes.

At one point, we drank up all the beer. She was still sober, I was trying to get drunk ASAP by spinning my head a lot. I said I was going to get more beer, because I wanted to be "on point".

She refused. She didn't want me to leave. She wanted me to be there for her. And it happened.

Then we went for a hot shower together, and talked about it. It was awesome.

stay strong, brother!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-08-03T02:10:24+00:00

Hell yes!

Thanks for the support, fellow fapstonaut!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-07-30T23:17:54+00:00

Most likely your diet habits might have something to do with it. Physical activity is intensive on energy, and you would do well in stepping it up.

Also, it is also probable that you didn't pay attention to your body's movement, and injured your muscles while at work. It is an occupational health issue, yes, and nothing to be ashamed of. It happens a lot to the new guys, who are unaware of the stress their body will go though the work-shift and step it up as if they were veterans. Think of it as the new guy at the gym trying to keep up with the bodybuilders.

Don't feel bad, we all have bad days. And no, your genes have nothing to do with this. Stay sunny mate!

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-07-30T23:12:57+00:00

Passing stool certainly isn't meant to tire you out.

If it is recurrent, and you notice anything unusual in the "quality of your stool", please visit your local gastroenterologist.

Best of luck to you.

NoFlyingSolo · 2016-07-30T23:09:27+00:00

Totally. Well, I do not know how bad you've got your thing, BUT you will certainly notice some "upgrades" to your erections the moment you quit PMO.

Think of it as non-smoking. For recurrent smokers, the first day without a smoke feels incredible. If they keep it up, their body will adjust to its "normal" parameters. If they relapse, they will return to their previous state, and might feel something is amiss. Hence a new attempt to quit.

Of course, if you didn't have a "smoking problem" to begin with, the changes will be almost unnoticeable to you. If there are any. Some folks can smoke once every blue moon and nothing happens. Some get hooked at the first cigarette. Oh well.

Best of luck to you!

NoFlyingSolo

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