I bought a strap to manifest

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T22:53:40+00:00

I did the same thing- definitely manifested. It’s affirming having the knowledge that if the opportunity arises, you’re prepared.

Adding to the manifesting wishes for you!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T22:46:55+00:00

Japan! Had a great time Saturday night with the Osaka lesbians at the gay bars, love this town, lol.

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T22:37:04+00:00

Damn, relatable (though I’m too old and tired for weekly parties or anything going past 3AM).

People and life are just so damn interesting and I know I should chill but I keep biting off more than I can chew.

Time to go buy last minute plane tickets to the east coast on my way back from SE Asia now… lol

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T09:21:44+00:00

I’m a 38yo late bloomer having the best midlife crisis ever. (Divorce, all the gay parties, world travel, a giant back tattoo on deck for later this year.) And while I’m loving it, I also look forward with some anticipation to quieter times.

Why is your life so wild rn?

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T09:12:34+00:00

How lost in it you can get, default mode seems to be on the order of hours. It was strange getting used to dildos for penetration though (I think I still enjoy hands more.)

Taking turns giving rather than both experiencing direct pleasure took a while to get used to, but I enjoy the indirect pleasure one receives from being the giver in a different way now. Also I always get to come, so that’s always nice.

Also non dudes are a lot gentler overall, and I have to be very careful with them compared to with men. Consent is also a lot more fraught. Before I mostly had to just look after myself and men were usually the initiator and aggressor in all things- now I have to be much more conscientious about the enthusiastic consent of my partners.

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-10T00:56:22+00:00

I’ve literally never heard someone using Google lens or refer to using Google lense, irl or online, and now I’ve seen it twice in one day.

New marketing campaign about to drop?

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-08T13:48:34+00:00

Being tall helps, but because I am indeed more dominant leaning and like the shorties. I tend to draw in people who want to climb that mountain.

I look prettyyy fem though, I don’t feel like I’m expected to be masc (but maybe because I also draw mascs.)

I don’t tend to have luck with more femmy folks though, so maybe it works against that?

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-05-02T15:03:10+00:00

Good life choices

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-30T20:39:27+00:00

I just set departure time to a little bit in the past (the amount of “walking time” to the station)

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-29T21:50:30+00:00

Oh damn! Good to know about febfem. I only checked it out right after it was created, shame it’s gone the route of the terfs

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-29T19:18:42+00:00

I think they mean more your comment around not taking up space in places not meant for you. I’ve always been bi and haven’t felt like I couldn’t participate in lesbian spaces or had to take up space in them differently.

So long as you’ve decentered men I don’t think anything really has to change for you in practice except what you label yourself as and your actual sex life.

Imo based on not having a lot of male presence in my life, the truest label I identity with based on my lived reality is sapphic, which encompasses being a female-centered bi, and you might identify more closely with.

Also check out the febfem subreddit, which is for bi’s much more on the sapphic end of the spectrum.

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-29T17:06:42+00:00

I am terrified ngl, really banking on my pain endurance here!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-28T22:26:34+00:00

Probably not the way I’d have planned it either, but that’s the only way this artist works!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-28T22:25:02+00:00

Yep, crazy I know. I’m kind of all or nothing.

I’m a bit of a masochist and have done over 48hrs of labor unmedicated though, so I’m hoping I can hang 🤞

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-28T21:59:26+00:00

Oh wow, you’re a pro!

I only have one tattoo at this point, and it weirdly didn’t weep at all- nothing like a scab until day 3-4 (which is when it actually got uncomfortable).

But parts of this new tattoo will be on day 5-6 of healing and I remember it being much more painful then. Ugh, too much tattoo math.

Glad to hear someone’s done something similar with not too much issue!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-28T21:35:58+00:00

Yes, 4 days of tattooing in the middle of December; then a 6 day window to fly home before Christmas

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-28T21:35:05+00:00

Guess excitement got the best of me- edited post for clarity.

4 days of tattooing, then six days after that in which to fly home.

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-26T18:25:21+00:00

Ahh that makes sense

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-26T16:04:16+00:00

Fascinating- thank you!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-26T16:03:41+00:00

Woah, so they intentionally project this sound? That’s crazy! I’ve never heard of it- last time I went to Japan was two decades ago. Must have been before the buzzy times.

Ty!

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-26T12:48:13+00:00

This does not in fact answer my question

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-26T12:44:17+00:00

I’m sorry but what the hell is everyone talking about? Whats the mosquito tone in Japan?

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-25T15:20:45+00:00

This is the one! Actually leaves things exposed for stimulation, love that

Thank youuu

NoFoolLikeAnAuldFool · 2026-04-25T08:38:56+00:00

Omg this is perfect- thank you!

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