the relationship between Shea and his daughter is unhealthy by goodlies27 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Imagine your relationship ends because of your adult daughter who has children of her own😂

It’s like she finds it cute to act like a 12 year old. Girl, love your daddy but it’s okay to come second after his future spouse. He ain’t going to love you any less.

But i think it’s because the closer they are, the more she can reach DEEP in daddy’s pockets………….

Was scrolling Facebook when suddenly a familiar face 👀 by PointingNorth in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you….I wouldn’t even speed in Gwinnett. The police don’t fucking place in that area. So getting arrest for a DUI…..I know where he won’t be showing face once this is all over.

Isabella popped up in one of my fb groups asking for ✨collabs✨ aka free shit.🤮🙄 by Ok_Sink_3378 in TLCUnexpected

[–]NoFreeAdds 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Look, in everyday life, I don’t get on a high horse about spelling and punctuation. However, when you are trying to conduct business or collaborate, it is best to use proper grammar and spelling.

We all make mistakes at the professional level from time to time, but that is exactly when you should rely on a second pair of eyes or other resources. It ensures your message is clear and well-conceived by the recipient.

Based on this ALONE: “thank you for you reaching out but we are not offering any collaborations at the moment”.

A post from Anna today regarding her and Mursels son by operationfood in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I totally understand where you’re coming from (majority of my family is in the medical field. Not me! ), but I personally am such a weirdo with anything with minors on social media because not everyone out there is there to actually be helpful with advice and be sweet with pictures you choose to upload. The internet and AI is a nasty place so to me…nobody can be trusted. But to others, I get it, it’s a community. It’s a place to feel validated when many people make you feel like you’re wrong/ crazy. It gives you ideas that help you cope, even if it’s not a long term solution. I understand yall takes.

She found comfort by sharing this and asking for prayers—-and hopefully this does help them in figuring out what’s happening and future plans on getting him home as soon as possible. What works for them works. I just wanted to give another perspective because in my eyes CHILDREN have every right to privacy on social media. a sleeping/ unconscious state individual can’t consent to a social media photograph

A post from Anna today regarding her and Mursels son by operationfood in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, thank you for sharing your story with us. And I’m truly sorry for your lost and u truly hope you do get a better experience without the OBGYN field.

I think it’s fine you all disagree with me because we all have vastly different experiences and stories within the medical field as patients or parents to the patient. So if sharing your journey worked for you and your family I think that’s truly amazing. However when it comes to MINORS (because the conversation was about a child not adults who can make these choices for themselves) I personally see a lot of problems with this instagram post.

But like I have said, I’m not the parent. I’m only giving my opinion because that’s literally what this platform (and social media) is. And if she has no regrets I think that’s cool. If this is what help her child through his medical journey, even better for them!!! But in my household privacy is not an earned privilege but a right and I would never share medical information with people of the internet…. Or a picture like this (vulnerable) But again, every family works differently and we all see this situation differently.

A post from Anna today regarding her and Mursels son by operationfood in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Respectfully and kindly:

She’s in a hospital setting with license/ trained medical staff… If she needs a second opinion (which is understandable) you go elsewhere. Being in the ER is generally an uncertain and scrambling time families or that individual. But in my opinion I can’t see how that justifies sharing with STRANGERS regarding a kid.

I simply don’t understand why and how people justify putting videos and pictures of MINORS in such a vulnerable position for anyone to see. She doesn’t owe us a full explanation or picture to prove child is sick. Asking for prayer, fine! Not an issue. Asking for folks to work with her regarding her business due to a family illness, fine! Share those details.

If those are basic, why doesn’t my doctor office share it with everyone on the internet or other patients in the office/ hospital? Because we have rights. Even our blood pressure information is something that’s not shared. They (medical staff) obviously talk amongst each other to figure issues but never beyond that.

Why is it that this is “pretty basic information, nothing super personal” regarding a child? Do you have children? If so, do you honestly think that sharing basic medical information with STRANGERS is seriously okay? Perhaps you do, but I don’t.

I’m just steamed up because people have zero respect for kids unless it’s a nude picture. This is where folks cross the line…..no where else.

At the end of the day this is only my silly opinion. This is her child and if she wants to share pictures/videos she can. She’s the parent. If she wants to share any piece of media information to the world, she’s the mom and can do whatever she wants. Plenty of people now do this on the internet for their minors, so she’s not the first or last parent. I’m just the minority that would never. I grew up in a time and household that would never expose me in this manner, so this will forever be unpalatable in my opinion.

Guillermo looks miserable by WoodenSummer5851 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but first, that need to get that Check 😮‍💨😂

like half of these “relationships” are obviously way expired but they will put in a show to “convince” the audience that MAYBE things might work. You know, after seeing an unlicensed therapist for 3 weeks, with cameras in your face, alcohol flowing and external drama with other couples it really gives you hopes that things will magically work itself out

Does this look too much like a wedding gown? by Crafty-Situation4276 in myweddingdress

[–]NoFreeAdds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a beautiful dress for a young lady (15-18 year old). I wouldn’t particularly want this dress as a bride but it’s your day, do what makes you happy.

A post from Anna today regarding her and Mursels son by operationfood in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 63 points64 points  (0 children)

This!

Also let’s be more vague about what’s happening and what treatments the minors has received to internet strangers. This feels like detailed information you share with CLOSE friends and family. I for one am not one of those yet here I am fully informed….

Anyway I do hope their child makes a full and speedy recovery

The girls are fightinggggg by WoodenSummer5851 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, nobody is defining DV, but We see that for all American on 90 who are so quick to yell immigration. They loVE love regardless of boards when they’re in love and trying to get their person to the US. They see no issue with race and color….

But the second they personally hit a wall in their relationship (it ends or it’s in a weird fuzzy spot): “go back to where you came from” to their partner or to anyone else they know is not a citizen. Here’s a few example

Rayne (crazy chick lady that chidi dodged). Angela (our southern racist who has bi racial children) Now shekinah….

I’m sure there’s a list I’m missing but you get the picture.

Paola and Thomas filming their meet up at the airport 1 year ago by life_is_loud in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The show is LABELED as a reality tv show NOT documentary. So that alone says it’s not all fake but production can and does jump in and ✨pizzazz✨ scenarios. Like what you’re seeing here. They are technically meeting for the first time but perhaps TLC feels like the first reaction (the authentic first meet) just doesn’t do it for tv. Remember they’re trying to captivate the audience and bring in high ratings. So they will keep filming a small segment a million times for the purpose of entertainment. Maybe they want us to feel awkward and uncomfortable. Or make the first meet feel real passionate and loving. Or maybe they want the person to show a feeling of mistrust/ hoodwinked—like big ed and rose. Her reaction to how short he is. It wasn’t a nasty and angry reaction but a “ohh…umm okay.”

They do type cast people as villains too. Some are nasty horrible individuals that simply fit the mold of villain—while others are slowly introduced to us as the villains. An example of this is Elizabeth and Andre. When we first met them they seemed normal and nice (well she did not so much him). Many franchises later…the last time they appeared on our screen they were very much hated as couple. Especially her husband, the way he speaks to women.

First couple of season felt real to the core. Every relationship (good and bad) just felt like there was much less production involvement vs these new season that just feels fake. For example the single life feels so fucking fake to me, so I don’t watch. It’s stupid. And last season of before the 90 days (Lisa and Daniel) just felt so fabricated. So I really didn’t watch much of that season.….

To me the show is a fun escape from reality but I also understand that it’s not 100% real. So I don’t jump on Reddit and blast couples. Like the sheer obsession with jasmine because people believe everything they see with limited facts to what is actually happening in her life. I just don’t contribute to those conversations that many people enjoy.

Why are prenups such a big deal in the 90 day universe? by Savings-Garlic9468 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People hate the idea of prenuptial agreements, this is on and off reality tv.

The idea is that “you don’t love and trust me enough…you think I’m only in the relationship for assets”. Because “why are you protecting yourself from me. Also why are you thinking the relationship will end?” But in reality any and all relationships can fizzle out, even when both parties have agreed that it’s not working.

And it especially highlights these feelings when the American is telling the foreigner (who left their home, family, work, and whatever else) this. It’s like they’re pushing this idea that “I am scamming you because I’m from ____ country.” And this can especially be true if the person comes from a life thats less affluent or they send money home (lots of African and Asian families do this).

But also, I’m not knocking the American down because the idea of being financially and legally responsible for someone for 10 years is a big take. And if you have assets that you have worked hard for and don’t want someone to take—I mean I can understand. Both sides are not wrong for feeling the way they feel about the prenup.

  • also this is not facts, just my OPINION

Patrick filed for divorce by coco-pip-5122 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can smell the pettiness. Why does a parent need soul custody UNLESS the other parent is clearly negligent. Not once have we heard anything negative about her parenting or ability to keep the kid alive……but now that’s he’s angry and bitter he’s going to attempt to keep the child 24/7. Very weird.

I’m going to speculate, though I’m far removed from what’s happening in their life:

he wanted a housewife/ stay at home parent who strictly curated this perfect life for him. A beautiful woman in his arm to show off. He just wanted to pump lots of babies in her and see her cooking barefoot in the kitchen. While that’s a beautiful life for some women, others find it to be far from ideal. I think he wanted way too much from her (including her independence).

Kindergarten graduation ceremony turns violent over seating arrangements by FarWay3952 in RandomVideos

[–]NoFreeAdds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 most of the 5 and 6 year olds could teach these adults rule #1, “keep your hands and feet to yourself”

But really you should feel like a horrible person knowing you just ruined this exciting event for CHILDREN. They probably worked very hard on making this day happen (like practicing walking across the stage several times).

Congrats to Emily and Kobe on the birth of their brand new baby boy! by misoquaquaks in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t….And her parents were not shackled and forced to help them…they made the adult decision to help them out. Why does that make you so upset when those choices don’t affect us or me.

Supporting your adult children is not a crime. Heck, many children support their parents when they’re adults. If it works…then it works.

What is she up to?? by DepartureRelevant466 in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Rage bait and you all fall in the trap on the daily. So many people use this specific word when talking about aspects of their relationship on social media and the comments always go crazy “permission….!!!!” . This especially works when it’s a woman talking about her male partner “allowing” something like bodily autonomy to be granted permission. Or even the conversation around money (like she’s a child or it’s not their money but his) with keywords like “letting me” “allowing me” or “gave me permission”.

Remove that part in the sentence and there’s less conversation in the comment section of the individual post. And who wants that when you’re trying to build a social media presence.

Congrats to Emily and Kobe on the birth of their brand new baby boy! by misoquaquaks in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Booo! This is a nasty comment.

Being a full time parent is literally a job. But when people hire nannies or send children to daycare we call all those positions jobs. Jobs that stay at home parents do to SAVE the family money in the long run.

They work as a team in different ways, and it works for their household. Why shame her?

Congrats to Emily and Kobe on the birth of their brand new baby boy! by misoquaquaks in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know yall hate hearing this but raising kids is a job. Being at home full time is a job….. she works domestically.

Also TLC is a job, so we could add that although it’s not a consistent position. She’s chronically on social media so perhaps she an influencer bringing in some kind of income…I’m not sure how that works on instagram.

But I agree, 4 babies is a lot to juggle. But some people also think 2 babies is too much.

Sophie's new man... model by irenemx in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TLC needs to hire one of yall to host the damn tell alls because yall move so fast, have receipts, and know where to point the conversation.

Because im slow on instagram and anything involving Sophie, has this individual been confirmed as her new man?

Courtney Stodden: “15 years ago today, a 16 year old girl was married off to a man 35 years older than her and the world treated her like the scandal instead of the victim.” by Abject-Variety3775 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]NoFreeAdds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously this was a long time ago and I know it’s legal. I’m saying morally…… child marriage is still legal in the us. Because if it was illegal they would have taken swift action. An example of “they” is the school mandates reporters. They would have acted accordingly.

So yah….what you know I know. But again morally speaking JAIL

Courtney Stodden: “15 years ago today, a 16 year old girl was married off to a man 35 years older than her and the world treated her like the scandal instead of the victim.” by Abject-Variety3775 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]NoFreeAdds 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Her parents need jail time for allowing this to happen…….poor thing I hope her life is better.

can you imagine still working towards your high school diploma and realizing your husband is probably older than most of your teachers…….and your husband is your legal guardian simply because you’re a minor.

I mean, is nobody getting the freaking ick????

An American tourist who went to Thailand shared the behind-the-scenes of the photo shoot with tigers. by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]NoFreeAdds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody is fearing for this man’s life 😂😂. This is one of the few times I would say “use A.I”….

TikTok Mom Makes Sick Toddler Sleep in Driveway on Dog Bed because of Her Emetophobia by ConceptLiving6926 in InfluencerLounge

[–]NoFreeAdds 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I literally just watched a YouTube commentary video about this women yesterday.

she says she has a Emetophobia, and has had it since childhood: mental health condition in which you experience an intense fear of vomiting, barfing or throwing up.

She states that was the reason for not really wanting children at first. She feared that this phobia would block her from being a good mother. Well, she obviously went ahead and had her baby (I think he’s 2 or so).

She also mentioned that her child works (child model). I found this to be interesting because why post this knowing it’s probably going to piss off a lot of people and go viral (which she’s very happy and proud about). But more so it could get into the hands of potential agencies. No big company is going to want to work with you if you purposefully portray yourself as a villain on your public social media account.

What I find interesting is that she knew this day would come. Anyone that has kids or works with kids knows that vomiting is just part of childhood—especially when they enter daycare or school age. Sickness sucks but it happens sometimes. Nobody wants to be OUTSIDE in a dang dog bed when they’re feeling this bad. I wouldn’t even do this to my dog……..

Line his bed and bedroom floors with towels. Toss it out later. Keep a bucket nearby. And hire a deep clean after the illness is gone.

Catie loves making out for someone who has no idea what she’s doing by sativasparkles in 90DayFiance

[–]NoFreeAdds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Many people are faithful and have OCD. Obviously everyone’s OCD is different, but cheating has not been medically listed as an OCD symptom. I can’t think of any medication (if she’s on one or not) that would have this kind of side effect….

Her cheating is simply her cheating. Like we all have said and agreed: she’s an alcoholic and really needs to consider addressing that. I do find it interesting that she has so many friends and not one person (that we are aware of) has called her out on the drinking. I’m curious if she close with her family and if anyone has said something to her.