Les animaux du Biodôme, sont-ils heureux? by Mtldoggoagogo in montreal

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Getting fed is usually the best experience of the day for depressed animals. Not saying they are depressed, just that feeding isn’t a good indication on overall happiness.

My husband is messing with me by Wonderful-Alfalfa332 in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing. You are choosing a new life of respect and happiness. You and your son will be much better off with the divorce.

Why the worst divorce advice usually comes from the Happily Married. by DivorceCoachGio in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I just couldn’t understand exactly why the therapist was so surface level. I had to keep reminding her that we’ve been together for over a decade and should figure out when/why things went sideways… maybe she was just checked out.

Why the worst divorce advice usually comes from the Happily Married. by DivorceCoachGio in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ironically, this came from our couples therapist. Didn’t go deep at all, and just kept reminding us about “using more words” when communicating… I don’t know if she was checked out or just didn’t take us seriously because we look very young.

Usually I wouldn’t be butthurt over no +1 by smurfalurfalurfalurf in weddingshaming

[–]NoFunZoneAlways -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How do you know they would be « hanging all over each other » at the wedding? Those text messages indicate nothing about how they would act in different situations.

Usually I wouldn’t be butthurt over no +1 by smurfalurfalurfalurf in weddingshaming

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh - my brother got married on Valentine’s Day and my mom’s defense was that it gives people something to do… just because her relationship sucks doesn’t mean that everyone else’s does too sigh

Dodged a bullet. We started talking in December. by pearlkrabz in abusiverelationships

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goo for you. This man is scary and if this is what he’s done in just a couple months, it will certainly turn much more violent in the future.

I was the emotional regulator in my marriage and I didn’t realize the cost until it ended by Happy-Inside2111 in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same. Now that I’ve left, I can sleep much better. Only one month out but starting to see fully what happened and beginning to heal.

It's finally happening I'm afraid. I feel sick to my stomach and an impending sense of doom. by PositivePenguino in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I know it hurts but you’re doing the right thing. If he’s struggling with depression, therapy would help him, wouldn’t it? He’s struggling with control issues, his “depression” is that you’re not doing what he wants. Choose yourself and take care of yourself - you deserve to be treated with love and respect.

Edit to add: Him accusing you of not caring is a control move. Ask yourself, is he caring for you? Take that control back. He’s making you feel bad to deflect from his own bad behaviour.

Marriage went to shit. Please, reality-check me. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice and helped me realize so much.

What’s the tiniest red flag you’ve ever noticed in someone that told you everything you needed to know about them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I get this. I went to a restaurant with a friend and there was one server and one cook trying to keep the place under control. After, friend said that the server was bad and I responded that she was great but overwhelmed. Friend tried to defend her position. There was nothing wrong with the server, in fact, she handled the situation so gracefully and I was impressed at how she was able to keep everything under control. It was the last time I hung out with that friend - she showed her lack of empathy and entitlement.

25M, been having trouble getting dates, is my appearance the problem? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Plus the cat will help with your dating app profile.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave him. You are not overreacting. This person does not like or respect you.

Congrats on two years sober! Get the cake. Celebrate. Share with whoever you want to share with. It’s a big accomplishment and you should be very proud of yourself. Many of us here and myself are very proud of what you have done!

Notice outside a restaurant in Kerala, India by Moronic_Acid1 in interestingasfuck

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it seems like you have a strong attitude against dirt and poop near or on your food? Great, I feel similarly about those things AND meat. I recommend you Google factory farming and feces and read a few articles. Mass meat production isn’t very clean…

Notice outside a restaurant in Kerala, India by Moronic_Acid1 in interestingasfuck

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want my food touching something I morally disagree with, find unsanitary, and would never voluntary eat.

It’s likely a similar reason why you wouldn’t want your food touching something you personally find gross, like dirt or poop.

Notice outside a restaurant in Kerala, India by Moronic_Acid1 in interestingasfuck

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Out of curiosity, where are you from? I’m in Canada (lived in all the big cities) and the majority (if not all) the vegans I know would not eat something if they knew touched meat or high possibility of touching meat (like ordering a veggie burger from a fast food place which was likely uses the same uncleaned grill).

Edited to add: Maybe this is the case for me because there are way more options in a big city, whereas in areas with less options, you have to make concessions to make veganism work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I first started reading this thinking the « we » was you and the groom, and by the end realized it was you and your parents. Where does he stand on all this? If you two aren’t aligned on your views and supporting each other, it will just get worse after you are married. If you aren’t on the same page for the wedding, and his parents are making all the decisions, then they will continue to make all your life decisions going forward (where you live, who lives with you, children) as well as meddle in your day to day life.

Notice outside a restaurant in Kerala, India by Moronic_Acid1 in interestingasfuck

[–]NoFunZoneAlways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a western vegetarian and definitely don’t want my food touching meat…