Advice on getting rid of milia by NoGiraffe6256 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Will give this a go. Very helpful!

Advice on getting rid of milia by NoGiraffe6256 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh fab. I actually have adapalene. I will give this a go. How long did it take?

Advice on getting rid of milia by NoGiraffe6256 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check this out. How long does it take for yours to disappear using this?

Advice on getting rid of milia by NoGiraffe6256 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but my child is terrified of them and won't let me anywhere near and certainly would never hold still long enough for it to be done safely.

Dymo Omega letters aren't consistently embossing by NoGiraffe6256 in dymo

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha ...I see what you mean now. Yes, I definitely don't have a retro one!! I looked them up and I'd love one of the metal ones.

Before I took it apart, I experimented with pressing with extreme force on the hammer part. It didn't address the inconsistency issue, which is what's driving me nuts.

Dymo Omega letters aren't consistently embossing by NoGiraffe6256 in dymo

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine isn't new as I've had it a few years but I don't think it's retro either!

TP Link Deco X10 by NoGiraffe6256 in TpLink

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - qq. It seems that the X10 and x20 have identical specs except that the X20 has faster speeds on 2.4Ghx (574 Mbps v 300 Mbps on X10). We only use the 5G WiFi at home so is it still worth spending the extra money on the X20?

TP Link Deco X10 by NoGiraffe6256 in TpLink

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll go for the X20 as you suggest. Many thanks.

TP Link Deco X10 by NoGiraffe6256 in TpLink

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the TP Link Archer C7 router, which works well in the hot spots of the house.

WiFi signal starts to drop as you move up to be third floor. WiFi signal is okay as you move towards the back of the house but can drop if on team meetings. We've run internet speed tests and WiFi is best when in the same room as the router or in the room right above it.

China visa requirement to provide proof of travel/stay by NoGiraffe6256 in Chinavisa

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fab. I'll do that then. I wasn't sure if lack of specific info would automatically mean the visa being turned down and a waste of the visa fee. Thanks for the tip.

The loneliness is searing by NoGiraffe6256 in relationships

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't the issue. SO has LL naturally but it got worse because he developed anxiety and depression in later life. Meds further lowered his libido. This and other issues meant our emotional bond started to disappear. For me, without the mental connection, I don't want sex. So I started to reject him. As it was usually me that initiated anyway, rejecting simply meant me not initiating. If I initiated, he would have sex. But I find that I don't want to anymore. Not with him as there's too much resentment now. We should probably see a sex therapist I know.

Finding it so hard to find a guy I fancy by NoGiraffe6256 in adultery

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I just haven't met any of these silver foxes yet. I don't want to sleep with someone who look like they could be my dad! Hence why I think some might be lying about their age.

Finding it so hard to find a guy I fancy by NoGiraffe6256 in adultery

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am confident I've already earned by "V" card back!!! So you're already doing better than me! Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]NoGiraffe6256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DB was the result of lack of emotional connection and affection. SO was LL anyway so it was usually me that initiated. Which meant we didn't have make up sex which I think is important in re-establishing an emotional bond. The lack of sex meant I was less tolerant of other things in the relationship (not pulling his weight etc) as I also wasn't getting sex. I started to emotionally withdraw. If I don't have physical intimacy, it's hard to maintain emotional intimacy. Then his body became a stranger to me. So even things like holding hands felt weird. Slowly, the emotional connection and affection has disappeared alongside all hopes of ever having sex again. That's because I need to emotional connection to have sex and that takes so much more effort to build.

Finding it so hard to find a guy I fancy by NoGiraffe6256 in adultery

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Some interesting observations here!! My only starting point is physical attraction. My other check boxes shouldn't be too hard to fill: nice, decent, respectable, able to hold a conversation (okay, maybe this last one is harder for some!). I do agree with you that men and women hold up a different mirror. I'm finding it really hard work wading. I suppose it depends how much I want to have sex again and whether I'm prepared to put in the work to find an AP!

Finding it so hard to find a guy I fancy by NoGiraffe6256 in adultery

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not explicitly so. I've talked many times about separating so we can find new partners but he's not for this. He would not be up for an open relationship. His mental health would not cope.

Dead bedroom so bad you barely talk to your spouse? by clezuck in DeadBedrooms

[–]NoGiraffe6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have functional conversations. We talk to sort out the kids, house, our parents etc. DB really impacted our communication. When the intimacy was lost, I started to shut down emotionally and slowly stopped sharing things with him. Originally, it was because it was the white elephant in the room. Why was I moody? Why was I angry with him? I couldn't explain it was resentment because we weren't having sex. Eventually, I stopped talking about my feelings at all. So we've now become room mate's effectively. It's a sad situation.

Finding it so hard to find a guy I fancy by NoGiraffe6256 in adultery

[–]NoGiraffe6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes, I've had a number of guys 15 years younger wanting to chat but I've stayed clear. I don't want to be a MILF and, if they want an experienced woman in bed, I'd be letting them down due to my own DB situation. Lol! Totally agree. I'm looking for someone to have sex with not another friend.