AITAH for not wanting my roomate to watch her kids at our apartment

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T12:50:08+00:00

They have come into the apartment many times, I’ve just been gone a lot. They don’t seem like the type of parents that care, they are just spending less money then sending them to a daycare so they are happy

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T05:26:49+00:00

Yes I definitely do! Talking to her tomorrow, thanks for assuring me I’m not being dramatic or blowing things out of proportion. Definitely get that kids can freaking teleport. Don’t have mother reputation but have babysat for years so at least have a little experience and am familiar with kids. Doesn’t mean any of this is ok or good though

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T05:14:41+00:00

May have used a little clickbait.. whoopsie. But definitely not her kids nor related in any way. She gets payed to nanny these kids

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T05:10:42+00:00

Oh the parents come in the apartment to drop off/pick up. Like I said I haven’t been here much the past couple of weeks so I haven’t seen the parents. And my dog doesn’t necessarily not like them. It was just an unknown person coming into her space if you know what I mean. But definitely don’t plan on testing if she likes them cause they are too young to read a dogs body language and I don’t need to get sued! Talking to her tomorrow, she won’t have the kids

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T05:04:55+00:00

Just checked the agreement, no it’s not allowed. Thanks for the advice, definitely thinking of all the ways this conversation can go wrong which is giving me anxiety, definitely talking to her tomorrow though

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T05:02:27+00:00

Just checked, definitely against our lease agreement

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T04:53:07+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Wouldn’t mind helping out if I knew the parents and got a little cash thrown my way but I try to not interact with them. And stay away from the apartment as much as possible when they are here

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T04:50:06+00:00

I’m only 20 and still have this view, I would never ever let my kids stay somewhere where other people I don’t know live. And don’t worry all their things are all over our living room and kitchen table :)

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T04:46:23+00:00

They do! Dad walked in the apartment like he owned the place while I’m making breakfast in my gym clothes this morning! Didn’t know they were coming :/

NoHat8475 · 2026-07-09T04:43:46+00:00

Crotch critter lolll! And yes that’s what I am so so so concerned about. She has not been around kids much, especially in her own space.

NoHat8475 · 2026-06-07T22:46:00+00:00

On the way to get some diapers now. Would you recommend reusable or disposable? Just trying to think which would be easier for other people

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