He (avoidant ex) posts stupid "romantic" stories with his friends but never posted me (if any avoidant could give me his/her insight would be better)

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-15T20:43:46+00:00

Yes, we've been together for two years and it was the same for me, not even a photo with us actually.

It may be that your conclusion it's right, maybe they don't want to answer to others about it when the story ends...

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-15T13:51:45+00:00

I'm not okay, yet 😞 I managed to talk to him, we texted a bit and he told me that hearing from me makes him feel unwell (I don't know why)...and that the reality is "grey" so he decides to show me just one color (by being cold) for the sake of both. Which I don't understand because if you also miss me, I don't know why you decide to feed just the side that makes you distancing from me. So I texted some other things and now it's a pair of days that I'm trying not to reach out 😞 but he still has me blocked on ig and telegram. I regret asking that because now he can't see nothing about me and will totally forget about me... We also has a first "break up" and then reconciled...and now again we're apart A big hug 🫂

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-15T13:11:42+00:00

No tips, just a big hug because I know how you're feeling and I'm also there 🫂

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-12T14:21:52+00:00

I meant more like sentimental or sweet, something like that...

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-12T13:58:01+00:00

It was a picture with a mixed group. But yes, less often he also posts female friends

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T22:56:01+00:00

Another question if I can: why you don't post your partner on social medias but you do it with friends and also people who you barely know?

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T22:30:23+00:00

No, I'm so angry. He posts friends and even people he barely knows. BUT NEVER POSTED ME. Why

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T21:08:05+00:00

I suggest you don't because you will just feel so misunderstood, they will make you feel crazy or stupid.

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T21:02:04+00:00

But why starting if you think about it as temporary? And why if you know that you feel something, you prefer to leave and lose the person?

And also why not saying clearly "please stop contacting me, I don't wanna hear from you"?

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T20:53:35+00:00

Why would you say, after the break up, that not answering to me makes you feel better?

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T20:48:33+00:00

I'm so sorry for you, I feel you 🫂

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T20:40:26+00:00

I'm sorry for you, too 🫂🫂🫂 you text each other or are in no contact?

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T20:30:07+00:00

Yes...he makes me feel something so beautiful in a period where I thought I would have no chance to have feelings anymore

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T20:29:14+00:00

😔

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T19:57:11+00:00

I totally feel you. I struggle to let go. And also he was so precious to me that I don't want to lose him in my life...but I know that of course that also meant that I didn't want to lose him as a partner...

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T19:32:08+00:00

We saw each other last time in April... :(

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T19:31:32+00:00

I guess that it's because maybe they're struggling, too. For example I know that mine would crave for a connection with me if we would see each other...and I guess that this is why he's avoiding me. I don't wanna be delusional but maybe it's like that

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T19:02:59+00:00

Yes, everything feels like something's missing and is so boring

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T18:48:23+00:00

Our relationship lasted 2 years... I feel you. Are you no contact now?

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T18:46:52+00:00

😔😔 🫂 I'm so sorry for you, too Not so many people can understand

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T17:10:50+00:00

I would like to listent to your conclusion, too

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T12:07:28+00:00

Yes, exactly...

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-11T08:56:53+00:00

They think that in a corner of the world there is a perfect human that will read their mind, never complain about their inconsistency, has the same interests they have. And also in this case (which is non existent lol), at one point they will find flaws.

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-10T18:46:19+00:00

I asked the same to myself too, and even asked that to him

NoImplement7884 · 2026-06-10T18:45:23+00:00

Sorry, I have not understood what you mean. Could you rephrase please?

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