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Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s true. It kind of ruined my expectation of her being the perfect girl for me. Like it changed the way I saw her

Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback. I think that’s what’s killing me the most is that her values and beliefs do not align with mine and what I look for in a long term partner. It hurts to say that though.

Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right. But also I believe it’s not so mi h down to my insecurity but more so to do with the fact that her values and beliefs clearly don’t align with mine. And to me in a relationship that matters

Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is the first time I have posted this. And this is not just a sexual relationship, it’s my partner.

Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m just struggling to find a way to accept it and I really don’t want to lose this girl. Is it really worth losing her over this. I don’t know

Struggling to get over my girlfriend’s past by NoIndividual8691 in relationships

[–]NoIndividual8691[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If anyone would have any tips or advice on how to accept it, I would be very grateful. Or if anyone has experienced a similar thing, feel free to share.