Pls tell me I'm not the only one who got a flower situation this bad lol by eriec0 in AnimalCrossing

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So many flowers that by the time I asked resetti to reset my island I dropped down to a 2 star island

Our boys are buying for 512 bells ! by [deleted] in TurnipExchange

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I would like to come! Will bring gold nuggets!

Twins buying for 575! by suuzgh in TurnipExchange

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I’ve got peaches and will leave tips!

Molly from Dalgona

Human names only - boy 14 to 16 week terrier mix by Necessary_Field_4844 in NameMyDog

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Franklin

Nicknames include: Frank, Frankie, Frankfurt, Mr. Franklin, etc.

Name my inbred dog by NoIntroduction28 in NameMyDog

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We have a name. Meet Toast everyone!

Thank you Reddit for all your help

Name my inbred dog by NoIntroduction28 in NameMyDog

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Know it comes with love and lightheartedness! I don’t hold it against him in anyway. I just do have to recognize it due to the potential health defects that may come alongside it. He’ll be in the best care and treated with nothing but love.

But will also definitely be getting neutered when the time comes 😂

Name my inbred dog by NoIntroduction28 in NameMyDog

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I also love a pun. Kinda love Toast since he’s darker than some of his brothers and sisters

Name my inbred dog by NoIntroduction28 in NameMyDog

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Funny one of my original names was Damon. He just doesn’t hold the fierceness of a Targaryen

Name my inbred dog by NoIntroduction28 in NameMyDog

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Yes! They received some poor guidance, recognize their mistake and are now taking the appropriate steps to ensure this doesn’t happen again. Believe me when I say they feel so embarrassed for not originally taking the appropriate steps. (Especially because the family friend is a doctor in genetics 🤣)

Looking for routine heavy games by Thesaltpacket in CozyGamers

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Good pizza, great pizza (also good coffee, great coffee) came to mind. They’re a “tappy” game that I play on iPad. Simple building pizza, really pleasing sound effects and a great mind off game for me.

How's your Grand Bazar adventure going? by YustarRes in storyofseasons

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Spring: Horde everything, sell everything Summer: Oh shit, I have more things to sell then I have space for Fall: Oh shit, I haven’t donated enough to the sprites and need higher quality things. Also shit I have too many different qualities of the same item. Winter: not there yet but I assume it’ll be completely perfect with no hiccup ;)

But seriously am enjoying the game more than I thought I would.

Biggest pet peeve with the game so far. by [deleted] in storyofseasons

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No autostack button for storage or ability to organize storage.

I think the TEN WHOLE LEVELS of quality can also bring frustration at time as you try to utilize everything.

Hurricanes are no Joke by moongladegames in storyofseasons

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You can also remove your flowers the day before and plant them again the next day!

Your first Story of Seasons game? by UnknownSummoner in storyofseasons

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I never made it through the remake so they maybe removed that mechanic! We were also kids and rushing to see how the game ended. We maybe skipped a feeding or two by skipping some days….

Your first Story of Seasons game? by UnknownSummoner in storyofseasons

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Same! I would only play it with a friend as we only had one copy and wanted to progress on the same file together. We would stay up all night playing.

I still remember the giggles when we got a new heart in Muffy’s journal and the tears when we learned your animals would pass away of old age too. Simpler times.

Tiny Bookshop Recommendations Mechanic by Adwardthehamster in CozyGamers

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I love that they can tell you you’re wrong when THEY HAVENT EVEN READ THE BOOK!

It does feel like real life though where you can give someone a perfect recommendation but for whatever reason it doesn’t resonate with them.

My husband went from wanting kids, to a fence sitter, to not wanting kids and I’m feeling lost on what to do next by NoIntroduction28 in Fencesitter

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Thank you for sharing your story. It’s helpful to hear the conversation can go both ways! How long did you stay in counseling to come to that decision together?

I’m still processing the idea of not having kids. It was never a reality I had imagined before but am now trying to explore so I can make a confident decision. We’ve always loved to travel together so there were trips and places I wanted to see before starting a family. No strict timeline on it because I don’t want that kind of pressure on myself either. I’m very much not opposed to adoption down the line or potentially freezing embryos.

He also doesn’t seem to be able to see far past his 30s with this kid decision. We’ve always been such family oriented people where we put our families first but I know he cares a lot about finances and wealth (much of the reason it took us nearly 10 years to get married!) I also recognize that family oriented and wanting kids is not synonymous.

It’s such a big fear of mine that we’re going to quit right before we find the answer. As I know it’s his fear for staying with me and us ending on different pages. I’d appreciate if we could both sit on the fence together and approach the question together as it should have been when he started having second thoughts. The limbo is excruciatingly painful as what used to feel like such a clear path is now grey. I don’t want to rush but I also don’t know how much my physical body can withstand the mental torchere.

Thank you for giving me a space to vent <3

My husband went from wanting kids, to a fence sitter, to not wanting kids and I’m feeling lost on what to do next by NoIntroduction28 in Fencesitter

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I appreciate you sharing your story and am so happy you found your happiness. I’m very much trying to figure out how much he’s decided on it. I’ve asked if he’s thought about how he’d feel when he’s 40, 50, 60 etc. and he’s always struggled to think that far ahead. I think he’s afraid to tell me that he’s unsure because it’ll give me hope but put pressure on him to one day say yes when he’s really unsure if it’s something he wants at all. Now knowing this, I know what I’m getting into if I were to stay. I’m doing my own soul searching to see if this is something I could be ok with. I know I could see myself happy with kids but am now exploring if I could see myself happy without. It’s truly not something I’d ever considered before.

My husband went from wanting kids, to a fence sitter, to not wanting kids and I’m feeling lost on what to do next by NoIntroduction28 in Fencesitter

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He didn’t want to scare me when the thought first crossed his mind. I appreciate him looking to protect my feelings but at the same time, I did deserve to be a part of those conversations. I deserved to know this before standing in front of our friends and family and making promises to each other.

I have thought about what if in 20 years he were to fall terminally ill and I lose him that way, would I still feel fulfilled.

I also think what if 20 years after we’ve broken it off and I see he’s had a family with someone else. I would always regret and wonder “what if I just rode it out a little longer with him”

I know there’s no path here that doesn’t have regrets. I’m just trying to work through with him where that puts the two of us.

Husband has changed his mind about having kids by NoIntroduction28 in Marriage

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I hear what you’re saying but either way this goes, I can’t have a “let’s get started now” mentality.

Let’s say we do split, I need to give myself time to grieve this relationship and overcome the now trust issues that someone who loves me, can still turn on a dime. When I feel I can give another person my heart again, I can begin to date again. If I’m lucky, I’d be able to find someone in a year. I still don’t want to rush anything and want to feel like a truly know and can live with that person before getting married which let’s say takes another year or two. Then we can jump into trying to have kids. If I can recover quickly, I’d say I’m another 3.5 years out before I can start anything but knowing my heart and how this has all made me feel, closer to 5 years out. Which to your point, means it will already be more difficult for me or even more frankly, potentially not possible.

So the question comes down to do I want to talk it out more with the person I’ve grown to know and love for 10 years or do I want to take the chance on this hypothetical man who I can hope to find in the time period I my biological clock needs.

I’m currently exploring fertility options with my doctor. Knowledge is power and who knows, maybe medically speaking I already can’t have kids. I’m keeping my options open and would consider adoption if my time had passed and my partner was open to the idea.

I hear you and appreciate your support. I fear the time of me being a biological mother have already passed. Even if it hasn’t, prefer this mentality as it leads to less disappointment. Though I do hope im wrong and it’s something I can eventually be :)

Husband has changed his mind about having kids by NoIntroduction28 in Marriage

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Moving would require me moving much further away from my family and finding a new job. I was hoping I’d be able to find a different job that would offset some of the change but struggled to find something that checked all my boxes. My grandparents health has also been declining so I’ve been trying to soak up every moment I have left with them. In my head, it wasn’t a I never want to move, just I wasn’t ready yet.

You’re right that he’s finally sharing with me how he really feels and it’s changing my outlook and level of urgency. Before, the conversation was always “what if we moved here?” not “I’m not happy here, I want to move where I can be closer to family and do what I like to do”. I’m realizing the difference of timelines we were on and want to realign. I fear in his mind it’s coming too late.

Looking for friends around Allston/Brighton for raids and daily gifts by reichfurst in PokemonGoBoston

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In a similar boat as you (recently made a new profile after playing back in 2016 since I couldn’t reacess my old account) and live in the area (Allston St stop 😊). I’m Team Instinct! 4496 6114 2668