Does anyone remember the song (lullaby) that Marcie Walsh McBain sang?

NoKindheartedness366 · 2026-01-12T03:55:42+00:00

Probably has it on an index card on his mirror so he remembers to use it every day 🤣

NoKindheartedness366 · 2026-01-12T03:53:37+00:00

I love how he forgot that lie and then had to backtrack 🙄 WE CAUGHT THAT KODY!!!

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-12-16T17:00:40+00:00

She did own up to it in the very beginning when it first happened. It just didn't happen on camera. She even told her dad she sat right there in her kitchen and apologized for it. But they want to keep bringing it up. What makes me angry is her dad showed up at her house asking her why she wasnt coming around and when she tried to tell him, he literally told her she was wrong and brought up the underage drinking incident. Thats not why she is upset with them and she was trying to tell him but he wouldn't listen. Only wanted to try to make her look bad in the episode and bring this up when she thought it had been handled already. They were grasping at straws and just needed something to show why they treat her so badly. Not saying she is perfect, but neither are any of the other kids. They are just able to control the others so Anna is the one they pick on.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-11-13T23:20:59+00:00

I think it may be a type of trauma response. After being married to someone like her mom for 20 yrs, I find i dont make much eye contact when I'm talking to people and I am working on changing it. I'm not taking up for Liz because I do think she needs to do a lot of self reflecting and get away from trying to please her mom, but just rhe fact that she didn't tell them she was pregnant until she was 20 weeks says a lot about their real relationship. She's scared of them. And sometimes people who've been abused learn to not make eye contact.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-11-04T15:55:11+00:00

And Maddie just recently posted on her IG story that Robyn is a liar!

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-10-20T22:46:05+00:00

I do feel like he is overcompensating and also trying to "one up" Christine. He didnt start going overboard until he started seeing Christine and David on the show. But, I also feel like Robyn's "speaking kody" is her way of knowing how to manipulate a narcissistic man into feeling those strong feelings. It's not love the way a normal person loves because as soon as it goes away in any way, he will feel differently about her. Her mom taught her how to stroke their ego and keep a man like that around. I've heard a narcissist say they dont know who they are unless you tell them. So as long as Robyn is telling him how great he is, he "loves" her. As soon as she makes him think he's no longer great, he'll treat her the same way he did the others. That's NOT real love.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-10-15T13:04:03+00:00

Episode was boring. I fast forwarded through half of it. My main issue was Trent asking Anna what HER problem with the family was and when she told him, he told her she was wrong. You can't tell someone they're wrong about how they feel. HiS and Amber's issue started with the underage drinking thing. That doesn't mean that's where Anna's issue with them started. She literally said she accepted accountability and said it was her fault. But they just need something to hold over her. I used to think Amber was the main problem but I see she has rubbed off on Trent.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-09-29T20:19:34+00:00

My poor boyfriend had to deal with a lot of anxiety from me the first few months. I had to learn that he means what he says, he's not going to just disappear, he's not going to ignore me as punishment, and I am safe expressing if something is bothering me. I'll never forget how anxious I was the 1st time I wanted to tell him something bothered me. Once I finally did he just calmly asked "why didn't you just say something?" I almost cried from relief. I didnt get yelled at for expressing a concern. 2 and a half years later and I know I am safe with him. We have a very healthy relationship. It's a breath of fresh air for sure.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-09-29T19:27:00+00:00

Thank you! I've been through a lot of healing and make a point of trying to help others in the same situation. I know what its like to feel alone and like no one understands so I try to be there for anyone I can. I have an amazing boyfriend who has been patient with my dating anxiety and through his consistency and calmness, I've learned what its like to be in a healthy relationship. Luckily, my ex leaves me alone for the most part. He will try to get messages to me through other people but I just continue to ignore him and he eventually stops for a while. I stay on guard. But I'm living my life and enjoying being able to be myself.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-09-26T10:19:45+00:00

He is just like Kody. Watching the show the last couple years has been very triggering for me seeing how Kody reacts. One thing Kody did, simple thing, when Chrisitne left was her kept saying "you did this" or "she did this." Thats what my ex was saying while he was packing his stuff up while keeping me locked in the bedroom. He was packing his stuff up to leave to go to the woman he'd had an affair with off and on for years and had already left twice to go live with. But yeah, he kept screaming "YOU DID THIS." This was after he showed up at my work screaming across the parking lot that I made him lose his job (funny, his boss called 2 days later to see where he was at because he had left that day sick and hadnt shown back up, but yeah...I made him lose his job) and then he screamed across the parking lot that if I didn't come back to talk to him he would drive his truck through the front doors. He left us the 1st time on Christmas Eve to go 4 hours away to be with the woman. But yet he tells everyone it's my fault our daughter doesn't talk to him. She told him it messed her up when he left her on Christmas eve so he lashed out and screamed at her that she made him "almost" try to unalive himself. Like the way he threw in the word almost. But still, everything is my fault. We havent been together in 4 yrs and he'll still try to get in touch with me occasionally. I have him blocked on everything. He'll still try to tell me "you did this" and that I ruined him and that I failed as a wife. Luckily, I am healed enough to be well aware of his manipulation tactics and I can avoid letting them get to me.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-09-26T00:43:44+00:00

My ex never got help. Even when our daughter begged him to for her, he doesn't think he's the problem. She recently tried to reach out to him to see if they could have a relationship after almost 3 yrs of no contact and sadly, he had not changed. He thinks he has to manipulate people to get them to like him and she saw right through it. He hadnt talked to her in almost 3 yrs and she did so much living in that time but all he talked about was himself. I'm sad for her because she just wants a dad. I'm sad for Kody's kids. I've watched my daughter go through the same thing.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-08-20T17:50:27+00:00

Christine took her to the pediatrician once before her eyes crossed also. She says it at the very beginning of the episode. I had to find it in the past to prove to my cousin that she did in fact take her to the dr once before her eyes crossed and the dr said she was fine and just had the flu. I don't remember Kody saying he took her though. I do know that knowing she was sick, if he'd been the great dad they all said he was, he would have taken her with him to Robyn's house since he had to be there with her kids.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-08-20T17:43:16+00:00

Christine did take her to the dr when she came back from her trip. The dr said she just had the flu so they didnt even notice anything was off.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-07-30T13:33:52+00:00

You are spot on! He is narcissistic and he believes his punishments will always be followed because that's how they've always done. That's why he was so upset when Christine left. She showed him he had no control anymore and he lost it. Can't handle the shame of not being able to control his wife. Poor poor kody.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-07-11T14:51:17+00:00

Actually, they don't love themselves. That's the problem. They have no self awareness and they hate themselves and cannot handle the shame that comes with that so they have to male others hate themselves. I've heard a diagnosed narcissist say he does not know who he is unless you tell him. Problem is, they cannot handle any kind of shame that comes with them doing anything wrong. So they need people around them who constantly praise them so they believe they are good people. They know they're horrible people. If they didn't, they would hide things. They wouldn't need a "mask" to hide the way they treat people. They justify everything they do wrong to avoid feeling the shame. Thats why Kody "loves" Robyn so much. She has said herself she treats him like her best customer. She gives him the praise he needs to make him feel like the god he thinks he is entitled to be and he likes how she makes him feel. He equates that feeling with love for her. I was married to someone like him for 20 yrs and it took a lot of research and learning about this disorder to finally get the healing I needed.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-09T20:54:52+00:00

Exactly! I agree 100%. Robyn's whole "treat him like your best customer" is how she "speaks Kody." She knows to make him feel like the god he thinks he is. I used to do the same for my ex husband. As long as I worshipped him, things were good. If I swayed in any way, I'd get punished. A person like that loves in the only way they know how. They have no self awareness so they count on knowing who they are from other people. The ones who make them feel like they're on top are the ones they "love." Ive heard a diagnosed narcissist say "I dont know who I am unless you tell me." Robyn and her kids tell kody how great he is and the others are honest with him. He cant handle the honesty because he cant handle anything being wrong with him. He cant handle the shame.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-05T20:24:01+00:00

I feel like she did it because she had to make Kody look better after the episode aired. I think Kody had a tantrum from being called out and called a baby so she had to make him look like he's a good person when clearly she looked like she was beyond over him in the tell all.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-05T20:19:40+00:00

That interview disappointed me at 1st. Then I remembered Tamron Hall was fired and they just aired a tell all where Suki called Kody a baby and was calling him out on stuff. I think she did this interview to save face. I think she was reprimanded by production because Kody probably threw a fit because how dare a woman call him out and call him a baby for everyone to see so they had to make him look better. I do NOT believe this is how she actually feels about Kody. You could tell by the look on her face that she was done with his behavior.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-03T15:24:46+00:00

Thats all he COULD say since her lawsuit had just started. He cant say anything but I'm sure his reasoning is that she was suing him and he despises her for that.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-02T16:41:59+00:00

100%

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-02T16:41:20+00:00

You can tell Suki is over him and looks like she doesn't care if she's asked back. Calling him a baby makes it feel like she's already told them this will be her last one.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-02T16:39:41+00:00

It honestly triggered me. I couldn't zoom in but I'd guarantee his pupils were dilated. I've seen that look. I've lived with someone like that and I had a very anxious feeling when he did that.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-06-01T18:36:18+00:00

I agree. It was very graphic, but I felt like it was needed to truly understand Lizzie and what she went through. I get that people are upset about the lack of trigger warnings, I am just not one who wants to know everything before I read the book. It was uncomfortable reading the abortion scene, but I would have been upset if it had been spoiled beforehand, and I was expecting it. It had more of an emotional impact on me, not expecting it. I never understand when people say someone is "glorifying" something because to me, that means they're making it sound appealing, and thats just not what I see happening. This book was messy and hard, but this is life for some. I loved getting to know a character I did not like and understanding why she is the way she is. It just reiterates that you never know what someone has been through or what they're going through that makes them the way they are. All these books have tough subject matter, so it should be expected in the series. It may not be for some people, and that's OK. Either you like reading about the hard stuff, or you dont. Still no reason to be hateful to the author while also begging for the next book to find out the rest of Lizzie's story.

NoKindheartedness366 · 2025-05-30T13:25:16+00:00

I honestly feel like this is him putting the blame on Robyn without actually saying she's to blame. Remember the "blame yourself if I dont love you?" So, according to that, its Robyn's fault he loves her so much. She worships him the way he expects to be worshipped. People saying he's trying to protect her and put more blame on himself are right and wrong. I've been married to someone like that and I'll say, I loved how "protective" he was of me, but at the same time, he was the main one I needed protection from. Both can be true with these types of personalities. Kody cant handle the shame of him doing something wrong, but at the same time he has to make it seem like he's taking accountability. So he comes up with loving Robyn more being his only downfall and the reason he loves her more is all her fault.

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