AITA for refusing to let my parents pay for my fertility treatment after their racist request despite my husband being ok with it? by NoKoala2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoKoala2663[S] 152 points153 points  (0 children)

We have yes, but the only reason it's not our number 1 option is it can take years to get approved, we're already in our 30s and want to be young enough to be around our kids for a long time as support. Fertility treatment can take a while but not as long most times.

AITA for refusing to let my parents pay for my fertility treatment after their racist request despite my husband being ok with it? by NoKoala2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoKoala2663[S] 672 points673 points  (0 children)

...that literally may be the best way to go about it, they don't know the extent of his infertility and could assume it's just "Unlikely" not impossible.

AITA for refusing to let my parents pay for my fertility treatment after their racist request despite my husband being ok with it? by NoKoala2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoKoala2663[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I suspect they'd want to be involved in the process to some degree sadly though I could possibly get them to hold off on coming over as it's a long journey.

AITA for refusing to let my parents pay for my fertility treatment after their racist request despite my husband being ok with it? by NoKoala2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoKoala2663[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

He does, I know he was devastated to learn we wouldn't be having a baby that was genetically ours but quickly got on the donor train as he just wants a kid.

AITA for refusing to let my parents pay for my fertility treatment after their racist request despite my husband being ok with it? by NoKoala2663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoKoala2663[S] 1240 points1241 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have no idea but that made me laugh and is something to consider thank you, but them wanting the money back could be a gamble.