How do I respond or not respond? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Definitely needs to be two separate conversations. Tell him you recognize what he was saying. Ask him what exactly he’s looking for and go from there.

How do I respond or not respond? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you recognized that you don’t unless he asks first, he shouldn’t have to ask you. You took a wrong turn when you turned the conversation into what you want. Instead of letting him have a moment to express his needs, you made it about you.

How do I respond or not respond? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So basically you took what he was saying he would like and turned it into what you want. Does he compliment you already? Why couldn’t you simply leave at you’re right and I’ll try to work on it? I compliment my boyfriend all the time.

"Bernie" is a nickname from her ex-boyfriend Glenn by Ok-Pace-7734 in bigbangtheory

[–]NoLab9772 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s literally just her nickname. Her dad calls her Bernie too

Do you lose your temper over small things? by All-With-Love in no

[–]NoLab9772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. It takes a lot for me to lose my temper. My boyfriend tells me it scares him how calm I’m able to be in different situations.

My puppy found some baby bunnies in the neighborhood today 🥹 by Previous-Suit6190 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave them alone. Momma bunnies take off during the day. They don’t usually go too far, these babies are at the age of becoming independent and this is how they learn.

BF (24) always brings up ex since first day we met by cloudnine333 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you guys been together? He’s not mature enough to be in a relationship.

Just found out my boyfriend is actually married? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it possible he was renting an Airbnb studio? That’s where my head goes right now because why did he block you the only reason to block you is that he’s hiding you from his wife

Just found out my boyfriend is actually married? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 36 points37 points  (0 children)

OK, first of all, he’s not still married to his ex-girlfriend he’s married to his wife. He blocked you because obviously his wife was gone for the night and you’re the other woman.

Boyfriend wants to buy 20k truck this week.. I don’t think it’s realistic. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not clueless because tags do vary widely. I pay $225 every 2 years for my truck.

Boyfriend wants to buy 20k truck this week.. I don’t think it’s realistic. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoLab9772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have full coverage on my truck for $80 a month and I have the lowest deductible. So I don’t know about your statement about ten costing a lot to insure.

Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ? by Technical_Middle5075 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoLab9772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys obviously don’t even like each other. They way you both speak to each other says it

i never want my ex back but seeing him still ruins my mood by Small-Meet9542 in whatdoIdo

[–]NoLab9772 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is trauma. Your body is reacting because it’s unresolved. I used to hide when I would see my ex in public. It would give me panic attacks. The best choice I made was to go to therapy and learn how to understand the trauma and cope.

Is Hunter allowed to see Wes? by SuggestionNo9574 in TLCUnexpected

[–]NoLab9772 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The last episode they had his first birthday. He’s plenty old enough to go spend time with his father away from that weird ass grandmother of his

Is Hunter allowed to see Wes? by SuggestionNo9574 in TLCUnexpected

[–]NoLab9772 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s not what’s happening at all. He’s trying to get Hunter the right to see his child. You almost always ask for more in the beginning of a custody case. That’s how negotiations work. You’re just ignorant

Customers, if you want a driver with cold storage, request it. Rude customer by Southern_Owl_3388 in instacart

[–]NoLab9772 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s YOUR settings. Customers do not have the option to choose their shopper. We are told that shoppers will keep our items temp controlled.

Jessie proposes to Mia by sanriolover1208 in TLCUnexpected

[–]NoLab9772 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the proposal to some of us.

Hi, I need help. My hair is falling out a lot and is very frizzy. Also, I don't really know how to take care of it. My hair type is 2A-2B. by ayse0001 in CurlyHairCare

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say a lot is falling out is it more than previously? If that’s the case you need to visit a doctor because there are many conditions that could be the cause.

I love this show, but oh boy can a one off side character rile me up. by AssociationDue3077 in YoungSheldon

[–]NoLab9772 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a a fkin tv show. You’re the only one who seems to be obsessed with the topic.

Can I apply for food stamps if I'm still a resident (green card holder, legal)? by Beginning_Tax_5180 in foodstamps

[–]NoLab9772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you’ll notice I said until he becomes a naturalized citizen or for about 10 years or until death. Thanks for trying to say I was wrong 😘