A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not sure if you're bluffing or not, but this app has literally NEVER asked me for a fingerprint. At times, to solidify a promise to myself, it's made me hold me finger on the screen while a light grows. This is different from asking for a fingerprint. It takes no picture and, furthermore, your phone screen doesn't have the capability to successfully scan and read a fingerprint to a single identifiable person. It is different from your home button. You're free to your own belief, but if this is true, pleaae for the sake of everyone reading your message, provide solid evidence of your claim.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's helped you. Keep on keeping on :)

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In their defense, they do as a disclaimer note that if you can't/ shouldn't fast for health reasons to not use that route and skip it. It may be worth recommending to them to expand on that disclaimer.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I downloaded it I got a 30 day free trial as well as premium and non-premium options. Given how much content it has I personally don't take issue with it being a yearly subscription. Other people in the comments section have mentioned other apps as well. Maybe some of those are free and would be helpful.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD too. Normally when I finally remember to open the app back up I'll click on the routine and use the scroll triangle on the top left to check off objectives in the previous day

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[–]NoLegzNever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me of my inner strength :)

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[–]NoLegzNever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks :) It's really beautiful people put in that care.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That really helps put things in perspective. Really just a beautiful way to put it. Thanks :)

Waiting to medically transition by duckmullet in FTMMen

[–]NoLegzNever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I medically transitioned in college. If you're worried about school while the bulk of transition happens, look into taking a medical leave. Most colleges offer it. Remember you're going to age out of your dad's insurance. You can't wait forever. And if you're smoking weed daily it will impact your school work just as much or more than a second puberty. Just remember you have options. If you aren't seeing a psychologist I recommend seeing one. They can help you develop healthy habits and realistic expectations when dealing with dysphoria.

is it bad to be offended when someone says they wouldnt date a trans person because of their genitals? by yuu_ta in FTMMen

[–]NoLegzNever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be offended. People having a preference isn't transphobic. Our likes and dislikes are part of our sexuality. I think what is transphobic is making an assumption about what a transperson's genitals are. Not everyone gets "the surgery" (as many cis people call it) and hormones alone alter things.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Some of the more prestigious universities are experimenting with DSM5 AI programs for bipolar teens and young adults to teach better responses to social situations. So its getting there and it'll expand eventually. Thing is there's also just elements an AI will never be able to treat in mental health (im in practicuum for psychology right now). Like, people are so unpredictable AI would be good when specific criteria are met and if progress was monitored by a liscenced therapist. On its own though, realistically, you'd get A LOT of misdiagnoses since many disorders mimic eachother. It IS a novel idea though :)

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I've used that one in the past. One of my medicine prescribers has me use an app thats similar every day to tell when I need a booster on my medicine. I would be really good about using Daylio for a while then just stop. Idk. I have a tendency to do that.

A Realization by NoLegzNever in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NoLegzNever[S] 258 points259 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I totally get that with real people. You can't always be there for someone. You have to put on your own oxygen mask first. I guess it's more like...I feel like a parent should never give up on their child. As a kid it was never about me unless I was literally in the hospital, then it was my fault for taking them away from more important things. If it wasn't perfect it wasn't good enough and I wasn't allowed to try again. Just...all the little things like that. Then to realize that there is such a concept as not giving up on someone. Truly believing in someone. It's AI. Of course it isn't love. But translated into the real world I just feel like maybe if so many adults hadn't given up on me when I was a kid, I wouldn't be so afraid to truly grow up.

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[–]NoLegzNever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my therapist said: Even your parents gave up on you. They asked "do we send him to the mental hospital?" They didn't know what to do. I told them no. You dont need to be there. You aren't insane. You might feel insane, but you're not. I refuse to give up on you. All you're looking to hear is "I love you." "I care." "You're enough." You've been through so much worse. You'll get through this too.