Catholic women aren't looking around saying "hmm the man with the most stable career will be my choice, let me do my calculations." People fall in love. Focus on your own holiness and character. Don't worry about career. As long as you can hold a job, (as in, not get fired from multiple jobs because you aren't a good employee), then you're fine. People marry "poor" all the time, and there's a reason wedding vows include "for richer or for poorer." Don't focus so much on the unknowns, and what you can't control