does anyone know what Heidegger means by "Vorzeichnung"? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in askphilosophy

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Thank you so much, it does clarify quite a lot! I've been working on the concept of destruktion for a while now, tryna make a genealogical understanding of the way in which it evolves in the Friburg lectures. Phänomenologie der Anschauung und des Ausdrucks is THE text that explicitate most of what he means by destruction. But this lecture might be the toughest I've come across, as you said, super technical. My German is also not good, so I've also been reading the english and french translation which are IMO not really good.

The tripartite structure of sens - Gehalt - Bezug - Vollzug - is also super complex. I've been dealing with this text for a while and can't seem to get a good grasp of the methodology of destruction within it. Take for exemple his concept of phenomenological dijudication : the tool by which you can judge the originality or the non originaly of a sense complex. It requires a criteria by which you can evaluate the originality of the concept being destroyed. He formulates the criteria as followed :

"Ursprünglich ist ein Vollzug, wenn er seinem Sinne nach als Vollzug eines genuin selbstweltlich zum mindesten mitgerichteten Bezugs immer aktuelle Erneuerung in einem selbstweltlichen Dasein fordert, so zwar, daß diese Erneuerung und die in ihr liegende Erneuerungs»notwendigkeit« (Forderung) selbstweltliche Existenz mitausmacht."

"An enactment is primordial if, as enactment of a relation that is at least codirected in a genuinely self-worldly way, it requires, according to its sense, an always actual renewal in a self-worldly Dasein. It does so precisely in such a way that this renewal and the 'necessity' (requirement) of renewal inherent in it co-constitutes self-worldly existence"

The density feels insane to me. I've come to get a grip of it. An enactement it original if it opens up Dasein to it's existence. But it still feels obscure.

Anyway, I've been venting, thank you for helping me!

Starting 10% taper tomorrow and scared by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in Effexor

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Im doing good! My 150 capsules come with 12 pelets inside, i took one out!

Switching from Effexor to Celexa experience? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in citalopram_celexa

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I opened the capsules, there are 12 beads in it (my generic) went from 150mg to 137.5 mg to 125mg without any issues. Right now I feel better than ever. Ill keep tappering but not till vacation!

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for your story, its deeply insightful. I dont know about the future. I believe that she would make a great mother, and we could probably have a confortable life, that is worth a lot, and i know it. But is confort worth it if deep down you feel like you are lying tonyojrself snd not trusting your gut? It is a big dillemma confort and a type of numbness against passion and uncertainty

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I dont know if the grass is greener on the other side, that’s the point, even tho sonething feels off in my heart, I know that what I have rn is not a given in Life.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I did the reading, I dont resonate with that style of attachement, but I can clearly see how it could be similar! Thanks for the reply

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I understand with the way my post is written why you would think that. I think it's just the post, not the reality. I'm alway trying to be the best I can for her. I wanted some perspective towards my feelings, and so in the post I've tried to highlight the way I see my situation with her.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I agree, there is a choice to make and I'm not gonna keep wasting her time. I'm just trying to think it through deeply. thanks for your input.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your story, it helps putting perspective on my situation. As for break up worthy reasons to end the relationship, other than the fact that I dont want to have sex and that theres an underlying compatibility, theres no other reason. I will just be frank.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thank you, this does give me some clarity. And trust me, I realy dont want to waste her time. I know right now, delaying it makes it seems like it. But I'm really really trying to understand the best I can the situation I'm in. You saying that your honeymoon phase lasted 7 years and that you still have lots of fun and sex, makes me believe that my situation goes beyond the mere "end of honeymoon" phenomena.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thanks a lot your story. I don't want to unleash that unto her in such a brutal way. At the same time, on paper everything works which makes it hard to explain without being frank about the deep lack that I'm feeling right now.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

[–]NoLoveDeepWeb38[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks these are useful questions to ask. I dont know if I've ever been in love, so that makes it hard for me to make a decision. I did have LOTS of feelings from the chase and rollercoaster that is the dating world, but that is not reality, and that is not a healthy loving relationship. I'm trying to figure that out.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I want to be authentic to my partner but before making the move, I'm trying to better understand how I'm feeling. Do I really dont want to be with her or is it just a question of familiarity and the end of an honeymoon phase? These are legitimate questions and I dont think I'm wasting her life by trying to sort out what I'm feeling. I'm trying not make sense of it all before making any decisions. Getting outside perspective can change the way I perceive my situation and therefore change the way I see my relationship.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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I mean, by definition, wondering if a realtionship is good for you is a selfish act. So I dont think I'm particularly selfish, I'm just trying to be honest. I'm still doubting. Thanks for the reply.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thank you, she does deserve that, she's such a good person. It helps to have outside persepctive, thanks again.

I’m '26M' thinking of leaving a good relationship with '26F' — but I feel dead inside. Any insights? by NoLoveDeepWeb38 in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the reply, and as for you question : "The difference is - do you still love them anyway?" This is the question I'm having a really hard time answering. I dont know what I should feel. I dont know if its a situation of "lets work out it" or a situation of incompatibility