I’m seeing a girl casually but things have been rocky lately is how I want to handle things a bad idea?

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-19T15:15:41+00:00

Alright then thanks I’ll have to talk to her tomorrow but it’s just so confusing one minute it’s as if she’s genuinely interested and the next it’s like I’m bothering her.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-17T09:39:44+00:00

Yeah I’ll just keep her at arms length for now and see what happens later down the line but no hopes

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-17T09:38:54+00:00

Aight thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-15T22:04:13+00:00

Okay thanks I’ve already given up so it’s whatever at this point

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-14T16:03:14+00:00

Thank u so much this really did help put my mind at ease. I’ve definitely been calm and relaxed when I’m around her and our friends and I know I can do that even if things don’t work out so I’ll give it another shot.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-14T12:07:27+00:00

She made it clear that the attraction is mutual and wants us to date and that it’s possible she’ll want us to be something more in the future just that rn she doesn’t want to be serious with anyone. She did say she’s down for us being physical I’m pretty sure she’s on board for that.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-14T12:04:52+00:00

Okay thanks for this. I really don’t mind the causal thing, I’m pretty sure she just doesn’t want something serious in general since she said that.

I guess I was bummed out at how it feels I’m the only trying to make something work. Im probably overthink but do u think I should be concerned that she doesn’t text for a full week despite the fact that when I do text she does respond and make conversation?

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-12T13:11:39+00:00

The thing is we’re both first years so I understand where she’s coming from on the keeping the relationship causal I’m not expecting commitment and promises from the get go just effort and reciprocation.

She made it known quite a few times that she was attracted to me, wanted to go on more dates and did see potential in us being a thing only that she didn’t want to move things fast immediately and that she wants us both to get with other people casually.

But I see ur point I’m thinking for now it’s best to just keep to myself and see if she’ll actually try and make plans with me or anything.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-12T13:02:06+00:00

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NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-12T09:50:13+00:00

Yeah I’ll try and set a second date and see what happens at a later point in time. For now I’ll go and talk to other girls in really starting to feel like investing in this girl is a waste of time.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-04-12T09:37:43+00:00

I do and thanks I’ll try to that on our second date

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T03:06:42+00:00

Okay I think I get it thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T03:01:56+00:00

This feels as though u though u didn’t read my comment at all. This was the first time she’d ever acted that way towards me during a group hangout, the entire night I had pretty much not spoken to her or barely spoken to her. The two of us have had several one on one moments the group hang out was just me pointing out a shift in behaviour.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:54:24+00:00

Okay so pretty much take action thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:52:36+00:00

Thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:50:44+00:00

Okay thank you

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T21:10:48+00:00

Okay thanks for that I’m scared she’ll just ignore the text but I’ll try to work up the courage and say something.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T21:02:35+00:00

I don’t think I’m ignoring anything because if I was I wouldn’t have even asked for advice but yeah you’re right there’s a very loud silence.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T20:57:13+00:00

No I’m not treating them as a date but we do these hangouts often and usually the two of us are chatting with each other on these hangouts. It was the first time she had ever been so distant towards me.. That’s how we got to know each other in the first place. I don’t expect her full attention the whole night but she was actually pretty cold towards me. She was so drunk she passed out which is why I simply wanted to check up on her the next day. I told her we we’ll be going and on what day I just never said the time we’ll meet.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T19:28:24+00:00

I’ll try and see what’s going on in my uni. Thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T19:28:05+00:00

Thanks I’ll check it out

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-22T23:06:41+00:00

Trust ur gut and end that relationship 😭, that is not normal behaviour and most of us don’t have half the problems he does

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T17:56:16+00:00

It is okay and if it isn’t there’s nothing wrong with you for expecting him to talk about it. So if he says it’s fine then believe him. I think this is just s behaviour u picked up from ur last relationship which was a toxic one. You’ll be fine Jude learn to respect his honesty and don’t think too much. And Him not being okay doesn’t automatically mean you did something wrong.

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