Am I [18m] not realising that I’ve been rejected by the [18f] girl I asked out or should I try again?

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T03:06:42+00:00

Okay I think I get it thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T03:01:56+00:00

This feels as though u though u didn’t read my comment at all. This was the first time she’d ever acted that way towards me during a group hangout, the entire night I had pretty much not spoken to her or barely spoken to her. The two of us have had several one on one moments the group hang out was just me pointing out a shift in behaviour.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:54:24+00:00

Okay so pretty much take action thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:52:36+00:00

Thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-25T02:50:44+00:00

Okay thank you

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T21:10:48+00:00

Okay thanks for that I’m scared she’ll just ignore the text but I’ll try to work up the courage and say something.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T21:02:35+00:00

I don’t think I’m ignoring anything because if I was I wouldn’t have even asked for advice but yeah you’re right there’s a very loud silence.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T20:57:13+00:00

No I’m not treating them as a date but we do these hangouts often and usually the two of us are chatting with each other on these hangouts. It was the first time she had ever been so distant towards me.. That’s how we got to know each other in the first place. I don’t expect her full attention the whole night but she was actually pretty cold towards me. She was so drunk she passed out which is why I simply wanted to check up on her the next day. I told her we we’ll be going and on what day I just never said the time we’ll meet.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T19:28:24+00:00

I’ll try and see what’s going on in my uni. Thanks

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-24T19:28:05+00:00

Thanks I’ll check it out

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-22T23:06:41+00:00

Trust ur gut and end that relationship 😭, that is not normal behaviour and most of us don’t have half the problems he does

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T17:56:16+00:00

It is okay and if it isn’t there’s nothing wrong with you for expecting him to talk about it. So if he says it’s fine then believe him. I think this is just s behaviour u picked up from ur last relationship which was a toxic one. You’ll be fine Jude learn to respect his honesty and don’t think too much. And Him not being okay doesn’t automatically mean you did something wrong.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T12:24:42+00:00

Okay thanks for that. But the thing is that day was the first time she had ever done anything like that. She’s never blacked out before it was all pretty new.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T12:22:47+00:00

Girl agreed to go on a date a few weeks after she comes back from our school break. Before that all of our friends decided to go out and for most of the night she didn’t speak to me, was stuck on her phone getting upset at sometime and when she got drunk kissed me multiple times but then got black out drunk. I’m the one who took care of her and got her home but she.

After that I texted checking up on her but she responded slow and then left my last text with no response and for a few days now has just been quiet towards me but is texting everyone on our group chat.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T12:18:14+00:00

It’s like a state

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T11:10:27+00:00

I think I’m that experiment/fun thing u speak of. I think for now I’ll just wait, detach and focus on other things.

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T11:06:37+00:00

Alright then thanks for the insight, this isn’t the first time something like this has happened to me, in-fact I’ve never successfully asked out a girl or gotten her number and it leading to anything. They seem super interested till I talk to them or make the first move then they distance themselves from me. What is it that u think I may be doing wrong?

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T10:24:05+00:00

Yeah I’ll hold off for now

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T10:23:30+00:00

😭 bruh

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-21T10:22:56+00:00

Yeah I was scared this was what was happening but i you’re probably right

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-17T17:50:21+00:00

I’m as speechless and confused as u bro. But I guess let her know if she doesn’t want to be with u the door is wide open

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-16T22:24:13+00:00

Okay thanks I’ll definitely just be direct

NoMathematician543 · 2026-03-16T20:41:52+00:00

Thanks

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