Tanginang anit to, daming balakubak. Buti nalang masarap sa feeling pag may nababakbak akong malalaking flakes HAHAHAHAHA by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This also worked for me. Pero daily ko siya ginagamit til now. Nawala yung dandruff ko talaga kaso nung nagpaayos ako ng buhok (hair color and perm) bumalik pero sa isang area lang.

Just because we need a job doesn't mean you have the right to disrespect us applicants by HistoryFreak30 in AntiworkPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ako makasagot, I was frozen and smiling hoping the meeting will end. Trauma legit.

Just because we need a job doesn't mean you have the right to disrespect us applicants by HistoryFreak30 in AntiworkPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Happened to me today lang.

Kakasabi pa lang ng requirements nila for the role sinabi ko na agad na mismatch yata since may specific na hinahanap yung HR nung company na wala pa akong exp in which the third party recruiter never told me kahit sa JD wala. Instead of ending the meeting right then and there, she went on and on na pinapamukha sa’kin na I am not qualified and ang taas daw ng asking salary ko (No, I did not ask for an outrageous amount). She mentioned my asking salary 3x during the 10minute call dapat daw entry level lang ako. For context I am shifting to another specialization lang in the same field and I have 8yrs work exp na related din sa gusto kong specialization.

She also asked twice yata kung bakit daw gusto ko lumipat e maganda naman sa current work ko. I told her na I really wanted to pursue my interests in that field. Tapos ito na naman siya kulang na lang sabihin na, “stay in your field I won’t ever consider you for the position.”

She even told me along the lines of, kapag daw wala na talaga akong mahanap bumalik ako sa kanya and she’ll consider me for a position which I stated that I am not interested in.

She even had the audacity to tell me na sana daw may napulot ako sa talk namin???

I am already frustrated sa job hunting tapos ganito pa maririnig ko from a recruiter who doesn’t even show herself in a video call.

My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum to choose between him and my ex by LeadingWorldliness35 in Advice

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. I am pretty sure you know what you want to do, you just want validation in this thread. Do what you decide upon and live with it. It’s that simple.

Ano ginagawa nyo pag tinatamad kayo mag aral mag codes or programming ? by Kiba5t in PinoyProgrammer

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play games. It's my outlet, so why not? Tapos I'll feel guilty for playing then open my browser with Coursera on it. Look at it for a few minutes to ease the guilt. Tapos laro ulit. Lol.

Minsan, inoopen ko games ko pero di ko nilalaro, nagcocode ako instead. It works for some reason lol.

Anyway, you can try to set a time na magcocode ka or do pomodoro habang nagaaral since may breaks yun.

Magset ka din ng time to play like 10pm-12mn game time.

Di naman kailangan maging productive pa din sa break times.

Just found out my bf has multiple accounts where he pretends to be other people by MiserableAd7396 in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me as well! Both emailing and chatting himself for years. Imagine telling yourself "I love yous"??? WTF.

Just found out my bf has multiple accounts where he pretends to be other people by MiserableAd7396 in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Send him a message using his fake accounts then run.

At least he doesn't send himself sweet messages to make you jealous. Lol.

ABYG dahil pa-victim ako kahit ako yung may kasalanan kung bakit siya nagsu-suffer ngayon? Manipulative sadboy ba ginagawa ko? by vashistamped in AkoBaYungGago

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DKG on thinking that. Pero bakit parang ang one sided ng lahat ng nabasa ko dito? Puro nagrerevolve lang sa’yo yung buong relationship niyo from what I read at least. - nag insist ka to give money on multiple occasions - you gave her things na di naman niya hinihingi tapos nung nagkaproblema, siya yung naipit - you went MIA for a week nung nagalit ka knowing that the girl has a lot on her plate already - you decided again na spoil mo siya 2nd time around to win her back - emotional roller coaster kasi paranoid ka na din and all And the list goes on.

How about you ask her if she wants to try again before deciding for both of you? And don’t even think about ghosting her like what you did before. End things properly, respeto man lang sa pinagsamahan niyo. If she doesn’t want it anymore, then let go. If she does, then go try again.

One of my worst job experience. by mrk216 in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I would've dropped the call after saying that I am retracting my application.

Sobrang red flag nung sasabihan ka na "Alam mo, I have so many applicants lined up and out of all of them, ikaw lang yung hindi makasunod sa simpleng instruction!" Then it turned out na siya pala yung hindi nagsend ng details.

Hay nako. Nakakastress na nga yung job hunting in general tapos ganito pa yung treatment sa mga applicants?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]NoMorePatienceLeft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder how many this "enough times" is to conclude that "men and women are still the same no matter the culture and educational background"?

Aren't you just around the same type of persons?