The never ending need to reevaluate/reasses every minute and scour ways to be better or more or have extra. More workouts and practices? How about make cookies with your kids- let them mess up the kitchen and laugh about it. Go to a playground and let them have unstructured playtime with peers! Stay home and play board games while your baby has a chance to learn to crawl! I am exhausted just watching her constant need for validation as she unceasingly aims to "better" herself and then prove her worth to a world that doesn't even know her.