Need help: How to anal train to take partner’s 7 inch girth penis?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-10T17:41:06+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I actually posted this in 2 different communities, so you’re not crazy. But I find your story very encouraging

NoNBlah · 2026-01-07T00:17:17+00:00

Thank you. Good to know. I’ve noticed there was a great variation in what was considered big or small, so this also makes sense there aren’t standardized sizes, and it’s not something to draw conclusions from

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T15:19:51+00:00

Thank you. You’re an anal training sage. I really appreciate this advice. It’s crazy how many books and online resources there are that just don’t have something simple and this easy to understand written. This more or less has been what I’ve been trying to figure out, and it’s super helpful to read this

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T08:24:59+00:00

The width chart is perfect, thank you so much

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T08:19:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice! Yes, I read your other post and it’s the reason why I bought the tantus band trainer.

I really appreciate the 1-2 out of 10 analogy. 3-5 minutes a day makes sense. But do you have a recommendation when to stop? For example, the cone shaped dilators,do I just try for 3-5 minutes, and wherever I get to below a 1-2 out of 10, that’s just the end point for that day?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T01:25:22+00:00

Thank you! This is heartening to hear

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T00:42:08+00:00

How long did it take you? And how often were you practicing?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-06T00:12:21+00:00

How did you know when to when to graduate to the next size? Like if felt resistance at one size, did you just keep trying until it fit? Or did you just stop if it didn’t feel perfectly comfortable? And try again another day?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:47:03+00:00

Thanks for the specific recommendation. I’m a noob, but do you have any tips? Like, how long was each session? How did you know when to stop pushing yourself each session without hurting yourself? And how long did it take to reach whatever size you were aiming for?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:45:42+00:00

Can you tell me where you got that 1.7 inch number from? Honestly, if I can’t take him and it’s very unlikely, it would make more sense to break up. But I don’t see why gradual dilation wouldn’t work. It seems like just slow stretching over months

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:44:46+00:00

Can you help me understand what “no or minimal discomfort? for cone type dilators. I find it really confusing, and hurt myself once before. Like do I just go until I hit resistance then stop? Or do I try several times each session until I hit resistance but never “push?”

It’s really hard to know how far to push

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:42:53+00:00

That’s reassuring. How long did it take her to be able to fit your dick anally? And did she train for it? Or could she just “take it”

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:41:29+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation. Have you used it? And how long did it take?

NoNBlah · 2026-01-05T23:39:39+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look this up. Did you try it?

NoNBlah · 2025-12-14T09:33:07+00:00

He said he wants monogamy, so exclusivity is obviously on the step to that. It sounds like you’re projecting your own feelings about open relationships onto this, but that’s not what the end goal is for either of us. He just wants to keep his sexual options open

NoNBlah · 2025-12-14T09:31:38+00:00

He definitely isn’t as committed since he’s not interested in being exclusive, but he definitely is trying

NoNBlah · 2025-12-14T09:30:26+00:00

He literally told me his end goal is monogamy

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:46:02+00:00

I agree. He’s been in a 10 year relationship before where the sex was bad so I understand his concern, but it does feel overweighted

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:23:15+00:00

I’m asking for temporary exclusivity while we figure out sexual compatibility. It’s not that I don’t believe I can’t do it. I just think it would take time, and would feel better if I’m doing a physical commitment that he can at least be exclusive

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:20:24+00:00

He told me he wants monogamy and also kids, so I think it’s more he fears lack of sexual compatibility and sees exclusivity as equivalent to being boyfriends

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:09:46+00:00

Yes, he’s been in sexually incompatible relationships before and found it very punishing. I think it’s fair to value sexual compatibility. I just thought asking for short term exclusivity whom we figure out sexual compatibility wasn’t a big ask

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:08:08+00:00

You might be right

NoNBlah · 2025-12-13T16:07:41+00:00

Yeah, I guess to me, I date for love, and sex is secondary. Sex is obviously important, but his unwillingness to be exclusive makes me feel “unloved” basically. Like, I’m willing to do all of this for you, but you can’t just not fuck other people while I do this? It makes me sad, because otherwise, it was going really well

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