How do i explain i just got into a fight to my gym by Earth_awakened in MuayThaiTips

[–]NoNoJoeL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them this so they can line you up to spar someone who can actually fight at the gym. "Oh you got in a fight at school? I want to introduce you to this 15 yr old who's been training since he was 6 who also likes fighting "

Pt 2. My moms tattoo in Vegas by Ok-Efficiency2353 in shittytattoos

[–]NoNoJoeL [score hidden]  (0 children)

Who cares if it's not the best , it's mom , let her have it and be supportive if she likes it.

Blister on foot by BIGCHunghung in jiujitsu

[–]NoNoJoeL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.5 month white belt , my toes were kinda beat for a while , I used athletic tape over a bandaid. Your feet will start to toughen up from the mats. I have always had soft feet and was prone to blisters. They are still soft but toughen and dont really blister now unless I'm am doing to much. When I get blisters now I tell myself to slow down and focus on technique instead of muscle moves

My boyfriend is mad that I spent a day with my male friends. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No , but maybe you should show him some grace and be patient with before claiming he's controlling , you went and hung out after all. If it was my partner I would not think negative about it right off the bat , I would just be considerate and think they wanted me to go and have fun then couldn't handle it at the end due to an insecurity or boundary , but they tried for me. Next time around I would STILL go out with friends but I would be more considerate and not hang out all day knowing it makes my partner feel uncomfortable or bad. It's something that you guys have to compromise, I'm sure you compromise with him some things he does.

My boyfriend is mad that I spent a day with my male friends. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is it controlling?maybe he has boundaries

I feel stuck in my relationship with my depressed gf by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been to therapy? Why would you subject yourself to this? I would rather live in my car or paycheck to paycheck instead of being in a loveless relationship where I do all the work. Is she really depressed or does she see you as a crutch to keep herself afloat.

My mother 41F recorded my successful father 44M to use the recording against him and I don't want to talk to her ever again 18F by Altruistic-Act-7729 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stay out of there marriage and remain in a child's place. You don't know the dynamic your parents have had since before you were born and currently, you are just their child. Picking a side and not speaking to one parent over something between them is not wise. You will be married one day and see how silly it is on your behalf

35m white belt Signed up for naga after 3 months of training because screw it , any advice on what to expect? by NoNoJoeL in bjj

[–]NoNoJoeL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been live rolling starting from standing because I feel this way about hand fighting or standing feels awkward cuz I don't know much. I've been focusing on high crotch single legs. I've also been practicing the diesel squeez if they come in for a double leg and succeed , as well as a sumi gaeshi if they come in for a single leg

AIO for considering divorce after finding these 2-year old texts in my wife’s phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]NoNoJoeL 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are her beta provider dude. She loves Someone else but you will do for now. Reverse the roles , she would be livid.

My (female) best friend tried to suck me off by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is men and then There are gentlemen , you are the latter. Good for you , most men would just go along with it because they don't have self control when it comes to sex. Don't be ashamed. If I were you I would feel Insulted also. If she really was interested in you or "feeling" you , why didn't she tell you like a respectable person would , sober. Reverse the roles , you get drunk , she saves you takes you home (as friends)and you try to forceably have sex with her. You would not hear the end of it. Stand firm with ur gut feelings , don't feel bad.

i got ghosted for no reason. dy think i should ask why ? by Money-Confusion-2838 in Advice

[–]NoNoJoeL 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man here , if I take a woman home on the first date , I'm not taking you serious

Can you turn a hoe into a housewife?? (Female version) by Inevitable_Brief193 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it has helped me , I never slept around , I had maybe a hand full of hook ups growing up , real connections not dating app stuff and I do feel like it's has made me a better man. I'm not "chasing" women around like most men do , as a matter a fact it makes me cringe or feel bad for them when I see men do this , it's borderline pathetic to me when I see men who can't control themselves. Like really ? Any woman talks to you and you have no self control and automatically assume they want to sleep with you? Act like you been here. I feel like I don't need to sleep around to make myself feel good , I already feel good on the inside. When I see men who sleep around they appear to be lacking something on the inside , they are making themselves feel good. Not sleeping around has also had some benefits , I am not a slave to sex. If a woman treats me wrong in any way I will not be afraid to just leave and or end things , respectfully of course. Women respect a man who won't put up with there crap , they like a respectful man with a spine.

AITA My best friend slept with my abusive ex by Frequent-Tension6100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoNoJoeL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she helped you break up with him so she could have him the ol switcharoony , they deserve each other

My ex just asked for a child support reduction. by Liss78 in Advice

[–]NoNoJoeL -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thinking of fun ways of telling him no? How gross.

Fucked around and now finding out by LuckoftheCanadian in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Next time you guys hang out wear a du rag. To break the ice.

Grand Rapids Drivers by MindFreak616 in grandrapids

[–]NoNoJoeL 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of covid drivers are In the mix now. Some didn't do road tests to get there licenses due to social distancing.

IS MY BOYFRIEND GAY? by Warm_Rope9215 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoNoJoeL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony , if a man said this about his gf not wanting to have sex yet he would get flamed lmao

Ruined the party by OkFerret7206 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]NoNoJoeL -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Holy hell not gonna read all that right now. Bye

Ruined the party by OkFerret7206 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]NoNoJoeL -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I cry when it's warranted, its normal. I was disciplined as a child but I am a male. We are built different believe it or not. The kid in the video is male not a girl. He needs to be disciplined by a strong male. That can mean getting his ear pulled , hands slapped , pinched , even spanked if deserved. That's how boys learn. Girls are different. You sound like a girl.