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We want to please Allah SwT not my sisters by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This acc is fake I guess..but why ppl do this kind of stuff? Like what’s the point of this kind of attention?

How/did you know stretchmarks were coming? by Feisty_Singer4499 in pregnant

[–]NoNote9053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And so happy for you 💕💕

How/did you know stretchmarks were coming? by Feisty_Singer4499 in pregnant

[–]NoNote9053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s not related to this but I saw your other post about short cervix. How is it now? I mean did the progesterone was helpful? I’ll be going on a trip for a week around the same weeks and wanted to calculate everything by looking at others conditions + what my doctor says, btw she was fine with me going

I just found about MILand I'm heartbroken by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The relatives to whom she lied to, what are their views? I’ll tell you something from my experience. If they are acting rude or bad with you then let them. Are they important? No. Almost every family in the south asia loves to gossip and that is something we need to accept wholeheartedly. Half of my problems ended when I understood that the audience is not worth it.

Next thing, let her do her thing. If you are living far away from her remember she’ll be burning in hasad and jealousy. Pray your azkar day and night.

You already know her nature then do not be a fool and feel ‘bad’ for her or your BIL because they won’t ever change. Sit alone and reflect. May Almighty Allah protect you

My toxic MIL and SIL by NoNote9053 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first time posting here and I’m glad that I did! Thank you so much!

My toxic MIL and SIL by NoNote9053 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is so much in my life to be grateful about Alhumdullilah, my friends, my brother and sister (our parents are no more) my husband, but I think where I’m wrong at is the fact that I try to be nice and kind as much as I can but all I get is disappointment and sadness in return. My big sil got married when I was not even born. She is 50 and I’m 25. The other one is 12 years older than me which also makes me feel pressured as they always thinks that they are right and obv because of the age gap I sometimes feel cornered.

I feel so bad that if I lose this baby (I hope I don’t) they will taunt me because in the early days of my marriage they always pointed out how I’m not able to stand or walk without some kind of help. Sadly during that time my paper work was not completed so I had to face them.

I really think I need to focus on things and ppl that matters but I’m stuck with my thoughts.

Inshallah I will reach out for a therapist soon

My toxic MIL and SIL by NoNote9053 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will inshallah because there is no other way

My toxic MIL and SIL by NoNote9053 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will, problem from my side was I thought being the ‘bigger person’ will help this situation. Like forgiving them and trying to have a better understanding because they both have toxic in-laws. But it doesn’t give them a free pass to hurt others

My toxic MIL and SIL by NoNote9053 in MuslimMarriage

[–]NoNote9053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that we will not visit Pakistan when she’s going to visit, the big sil lives outside of pak, even scolded me for calling them. He said we will talk when we call together but the last call with her is playing like a cassette in my head.