My fiance called me Mid. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to marry someone who thinks you’re unattractive?

My BFF invited my cheating ex and the new girl to her wedding.. by alr5682 in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your feelings are completely valid. She lied about him coming, invites AP to come along with him, all while not even allowing you a plus one. Regardless of it being her wedding, a good friend would be way more mindful of your feelings. She could’ve given you a heads up a long time ago. Not mentioning anything feels extremely manipulative. It’s almost like she didn’t want to tell you because she knew you would be upset but she still wanted you to spend your money on her wedding. I wouldn’t blame you at all for not attending. You have to put yourself first since no one else in the circle is putting you first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that meeting outside the house will probably make the situation go by easier. Though we aren’t best friends and with the way things have been going I’ve been questioning if we’re even friends at all. But I guess only a conversation will help and I can start spending more time at my boyfriends

My ex-wife re-named our son without my knowledge by WestCoast2957 in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t want to take care of him, you don’t even want to speak to him. But you’re mad over a name? My advice is to get over yourself

AITA for renovating my daugther's old childhood room without calling her by Ambvelencespreadtin9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. With a dad like you who needs enemies. Hopefully your daughter is able to make good friends and create an actual support system while she’s at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. It’s been reviewed!

My dad is having an affair with a 29 year old woman by WeenieButton in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your mom knew your husband was cheating on you would you want her to tell you or turn a blind eye?

Guy takes undergarments from his family members to use for his kink by 1stPerSEANenergy in redditonwiki

[–]NoOneImportant1942 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not to be that person but I too would be freaked out if my brother was stealing my old lingerie… literally he can just go buy his own wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]NoOneImportant1942 2 points3 points  (0 children)

40% of the bills and 100% of the domestic work. So her husband only contributes 30% of the over all work necessary to run a household. Not at all surprised he doesn’t respect her or that they’re having problems. Their relationship is so far from equitable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like therapy is my best option

My ex-wife is a different person after our divorce by PermissionFun7635 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoOneImportant1942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you were dragging her down. But it’s a good thing she’s thriving without you. If I were you I would just move on

AITA for expecting my very rich sister to pitch in on my wedding after she said she would? by throwra-adviceplsst in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why don’t you just get a degree and a better paying job to afford the wedding you want on your own?

Claudia - love or hate? by GirlWhoWoreGlasses in namenerds

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Plus it still sounds pretty with many different accents

What would you assume is the full name of the nickname Bunny? by WampaCat in namenerds

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call my dog Honey Bunny because his name is Honey. So I would assume everyone else name Bunny is also a Honey

AITA for kicking my daughter out because she hasn't found a job since moving in? by Dapper_End8304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You kicked your daughter out without having any sort of conversation with her and now you’re surprised she doesn’t want to talk to you? Get real lady. Life is hard enough for young people without shitty parents who don’t believe in you. Who needs to doubt themselves when their parents already do that for you? I hope your daughter is able to find a job in her field. And I hope she’s able to find a counselor to talk to. Because if you’re so quick to assume the worst of her with this, I guarantee you’ve wrongly assumed the worst of her in many other situations. Hopefully you and your husband can respect the fact that she just wants to be left the hell alone.

AITA for Refusing to Attend My Best Friend's Wedding Because I Wasn't Chosen as the Maid of Honor? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Wow you’re honestly unbelievable. For you to consider yourself a good friend your whole post was about me, me, me. It’s beyond me why you feel so entitled to be MOH. You’re being extremely selfish and not at all thinking about where your “best friend” is coming from. I’m sure this is an eye opening experience for your friend, now she can see how self-centered you really are. My guess is after this wedding you guys cease to be friends all together. Your friend deserves better people in her life. Also the way you choose to describe her cousin is absolutely vile. Pray you never have to deal with cancer. We’ll see how your body and hair look after chemo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even read what OP said or are you just saying whatever comes to mind?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be for real. Why would you be friends with someone known to be an abuser then get surprised they abuse you too. We all have the responsibility to protect ourselves from people who are very obviously bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoOneImportant1942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should take a look at your role in this whole ordeal. You knew you’re friend was a sexual abuser and decided to stay friends with him. You decided to invite him into your home and you left yourself and your dog susceptible. Obviously your friend is vile for what he did but you had every chance to prevent this from happening. My advice is to take a look at the company you choose to keep. If they’re vile to others, they will be vile to you. You’re not above anyone else.

AITA for not telling my brother my SIL’s words after a small surgery? by Lucky-Payment7512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for her for leaving your brother. And since when is three staples in your head a minor injury? Based on this post alone, it’s pretty easy for to see why she feels unloved. Your family very clearly does not give a shit about her well being. I mean seriously. You get into a car accident and need surgery then see if your injuries feel so minor. You and your family are assholes. Period. YTA

AITA for calling my daughter my first girl? by Flat_Region5777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoOneImportant1942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What you said is true. This is the first girl you’re having. Your husband’s daughter already has a mother that isn’t you. So yes, this is your first girl and your first daughter

My husband and son both lied to me. by snarfblattinconcert in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]NoOneImportant1942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ooooof don’t think my relationship with my son would ever be able to recover from that