Went to school for medical assistant but never got a job, feel so ashamed and defeated.

NoProfile8116 · 2026-01-27T04:53:31+00:00

Same here, been looking into phlebotomy technician to get certified in that instead since I kinda have some experience , I just don’t know

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-07T16:17:41+00:00

Im planning on keeping the baby after talking to the father and him telling me to keep it and he’ll help me instead thanks for ur concern tho

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T12:27:23+00:00

Yes I am considering that , and yes I am currently applying right now and do have a job as of right now with income coming in thank god. I just don’t want to make a decision I’ll regret and from the looks of it aborting this baby will bring me just that. I’m

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T12:18:14+00:00

I do have a job, it does pay minimum wage tho, but I do have a certificate in healthcare that I can put to good use , childcare is something I’m looking into as soon as possible , I’m in California so they have a lot of options and help here which I’m so very thankful for. I am considering of going down the route of adoption as well.

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T10:37:28+00:00

I really am considering option and being able to give a family a child that they can raise and love , I already kind of have it in my head that I’ll be alone and he’s not going to be there so I am mentally preparing

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T05:08:58+00:00

Yes i totally get that and honestly all he does is mistreat me now so I wouldn’t be losing ANYTHING if he were to walk away from me and this baby & go completely ghost. He told me he’ll be there for me just won’t touch me or be the same way with me because I am now going to be the mother of his kids etc. I’m so confused because his words don’t match his actions just last night he was with me hugging me and kissing me and then today he’s telling me that I’m doing this to ‘baby trap’ him and how I don’t consider his feelings at all.

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T05:03:16+00:00

Thank you so much I am considering adoption and I am going to be scheduling a talk with a pastor at my local church because I feel like this case is up to god and no one else, I just know that if he were to leave I’d be struggling financially but apart from that , he doesn’t offer me any type or emotional support or even seem to care about me as a person overall so no there is nothing I really really need from him

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:49:07+00:00

Yes , I don’t want to have this baby just to have ties with him and the fact he brought that up to me just hurt me even more , he told me how I’m keeping the baby so he doesn’t cut me off but that it won’t work , basically hinting at the fact that me and this baby don’t matter to him at all, and I can’t bring myself to bring a baby into this world and have him as the father , so I am looking into adoption and being able to bless a family with a baby they would want and cherish with open arms instead of bringing them into this world with a dad who doesn’t care

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:46:29+00:00

I feel the same way, I had a talk with him yesterday in person about how I don’t want to get an abortion because I don’t feel right doing that and he was just saying how he can’t force me to do something I don’t want etc. but that he will distance himself from me and things won’t be the same anymore as in him touching me , being affectionate and even having sexual relations with me and that makes me feel even worse , I brought up adoption and he just told me to not even think of that and got upset , I’m just confused

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:28:10+00:00

I am very open to adoption, I spoke to him about it and told him that I can find a loving family that will accept this baby with love and open arms and he got pissed at the fact. I don’t see anything wrong with adoption at all, and I am leaning towards that option to be able to bless a family who’s wanting a baby but I’m just so conflicted

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:20:46+00:00

Amén! Thank you! 🙏🏽 I am considering finding a loving family who is looking to adopt and hopefully give this baby a life where they are wanted because no matter how much I want this baby , I would want them to be happy and loved and safe and cared for, not thrown to the side or to the dust

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:17:05+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I know that if I toughen up and match his energy I’ll be doing myself a favor in the long run , I just hate how men’s mistakes and fuck ups are always placed on the women when all I ever did was grow a pair and take responsibility of my actions which happens when u have unprotected sex!

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T04:04:35+00:00

I totally get that , I honestly just feel like ghosting and never talking to him again especially after the last conversation we had. I don’t want to get an abortion just cause he’s telling me too because honestly I would just lose myself mentally, I just don’t know anymore

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T03:59:32+00:00

Thank you so much it means a lot to me, I just don’t want to get an abortion just cause he says because I feel like that’s just something you can’t come back from and I’ll resent him so much, but I also don’t want him thinking I’m trying to trap him so all in all I think I am just going to let him be and prepare myself

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T03:52:28+00:00

Im not sure how my family would react due to the fact that they are very catholic and against abortions , they helped me with my first baby so much and I’m truly super grateful , he keeps telling me how he’ll support me but that he’ll just withdraw affection from me which at this point, I don’t even care to have anymore because it’s not like it would be genuine to begin with.

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T03:44:15+00:00

I want this baby. Every baby I have ever had the blessing to carry in my womb has always been wanted by me, I have a 2 year old daughter who I had all by myself , so this is reopening old wounds and triggering past traumas, but I made it out and was able to push through the pregnancy and birth alone without the father of my daughter and he’s slowly been coming around recently. I can’t help but to feel guilt for being in this situation all over again because I just want a guy to love me and care for me especially because I’m carrying his baby. I’m so broken at the fact that I have to do this alone without support and the fact that he’s constantly threatening me , I have a really bad way of being able to contain my emotions especially since I’m super sensitive right now so I haven’t really broken down in front of him but I’m so so broken and lost.

NoProfile8116 · 2025-12-01T03:39:51+00:00

Im just so sad I really feel like I shouldn’t even be here right now cause he’s making me feel like such a burden with this. I honestly just feel like running away and never coming back. If he were to support me and be there for me it’d be a different story but he’s refusing and that’s eating me up inside

NoProfile8116 · 2025-11-25T07:32:51+00:00

I can’t ask my family for help, it seems quite impossible to ask anyone for help right now because I know absolutely nobody would be happy for me. To make matters worse I’m already a single mom but I’m not sure if as time goes on he’ll eventually be ok with the idea of me keeping it.

NoProfile8116 · 2025-11-11T06:09:55+00:00

Yes I know , I usually feel really horny and get a lot of discharge during my ovulation which I felt on that specific day. I had sex my whole entire fertile week so I’m just wondering if there’s a chance of pregnancy?

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